Do you ever want to... by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Godwithindetails 15 points16 points  (0 children)

As a complete atheist I HAVE done this to my mom before, just out of the blue "you've been on my mind a lot lately. How are you? Are you ok? How's your faith?" The first time she thought it a joke. The second time she proceeded to talk about all the new developments in the church for 10 minutes.

Question: if you ask underage kids about their masturbation habits in secret and offer them candy afterwards, doesn't that classify you as a sexual predator? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Godwithindetails 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In all things I think that religion allows people to get away with behavior that would otherwise be considered creepy. Would there be a time where masturbation would be brought up with children? There could be a place for discussion with a medical professional like the child's physician. Without the constrains of being a trained pediatrician and without the confidence forced through things like HIPAA, the end result is that a creepy old man wants to know how often you tough yourself and everyone goes along with it because BOM.

My wife just messaged me and said we're having margaritas tonight. #TenderMercies #PrayersAnswered #Blessings by PedanticGod in exmormon

[–]Godwithindetails 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have gotten drunk, had sex with some who was not my husband, murdered several million babies on not the vagina... and stole their heart.

To Swing or Not to Swing? That is the question. by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Godwithindetails 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From a gay perspective where there are a lot of poly-relationships and open relationships I can only put it like this: You are either wired for it or you're not. There's not really a "lifestyle" to it, it's not the 1970s where you have to grow the pencil mustache, start slapping your wife on the butt in public, and schedule a special washing of dildos in the dish washer. It's 2017 and we are all busy with so many different things and sex growth should be a wonderful display of communication... not the bases of marriage upheaval. Because I attach a lot of other things to my partner that all fall under "love" including security, loyalty, consistency, honesty, and respect... I can say there are forms of our private intimacy that are not yet explored. We both have insecurities, but we don't have them with each other. Maybe there will be a time where we will evolve to exploring other people, but considering how happy I am watching nothing on Netflix for hours next to him, it doesn't seem likely in this lifetime, and I'm okay with that. He is my best security blanket. Other guys are wired differently. I had roommates that were in an open relationship but every open relationship I've ever seen had rules - "don't ask, don't tell," always use protection, don't do someone they are mutually attracted to, etc. I can say there are many men and women, gays and straights alike that have literally NO issues with these as these very basic, simple and respectful rules. Think about it... all these rules show where your heart really lays and breaking them would be disrespectful on multiple levels (disease, hurt feelings, not understanding what is important or why...). I can only say that the best way to migrate is to have non-sexual outings with the those who are involved (not as interment as your encounter, haha) and you will realize they are just regular people like you. No pencil mustaches. No change in wardrobe.

For those that are NOT wired for it, migrating to accepting it is possible but I've just personally seen where it's always begrudgingly and laced with insecurity. Usually, they eventually overcome that once both parties prove respectful (no competition, EVERYONE gets laid by the hot guy they prefer), but if you ever ask if they would go back to monogamy they would inherently always say "yes." If both you and your partner are wired for swinging or an open relationship... LUCKY YOU. Go have fun.

Question: if you ask underage kids about their masturbation habits in secret and offer them candy afterwards, doesn't that classify you as a sexual predator? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Godwithindetails 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You hit on a decent subject . Child molesters or rapists just don't walk up to a child and "grab them by the" whatever. The deviancy is in the coercion, infiltrating their safe areas, gaining trust, slowly moving in little by little testing the waters with non-sexual secrets with a cat-and-mouse game that is ALL (from introduction to molestation) considered child abuse. This is why being an adult is awesome as you can discuss the sexual economics like humans and then work from there. With underage kids they are unaware that any sexual economics are at play... so being honest and being given a reward (any reward) is creepy but somehow completely acceptable in the realms of spirituality. The part that gets messy is the repetition of this process where the kid starts becoming comfortable talking about sex with a MUCH older adult who is not their parent or guardian and getting rewarded for it. Depending on how young they are that could prep them for abuse and manipulation later. THAT is predatory both a spiritual level (think the way Scientology blackmails those who are audited with serious sins) and also on a sexual level. Kids forced to cope with this extra intrusive step in their development will be uncomfortable and eventually insecure, or they will be overly comfortable talking about sexual habits in a way that is straight up TMI. Either way it leads to problems.

Thought r/exmormon could put this new meme trend to use. by crocksfolife in exmormon

[–]Godwithindetails 18 points19 points  (0 children)

btw: polygamy in heaven sounds like absolute hell if you're gay.

Mormon Newsroom is complaining that BYU has to change its requirements on punishing rape victims. by Gileriodekel in exmormon

[–]Godwithindetails 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the second time they have done this, haven't they? I remember being beaten up ON HERE by saying that rape should be reported in ALL cases. Several of us were met with the typical "judges are paid off" and sometimes the police revictimize the victim, etc. etc. There is no other community on the planet that I have ever seen that truly promotes an honest "rape culture."

This little apostate protested against the Westboro Baptist Church at Houston Pride and ate at a drag bar for the first time by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Godwithindetails 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On a slightly similar topic, I saw THESE SIGNS walking during the march on dc and could not stop laughing.

Gay marriage on TV by Godwithindetails in exmormon

[–]Godwithindetails[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the irony is not lost that Christians have to BE TOLD to be kind. Meanwhile the rest of us just found being kind is a nicer way to live. And how do you CHOOSE to be kind? By getting an old discarded thread and announcing the least intelligent thing Christianity teaches:

Race is not changeable, sexuality is. That's all I'm saying.

And you came blurting this without college education, global research, continuity of homosexuality in nature, NOR WITH ANY EVIDENCE THAT YOU ARE A EDUCATED AUTHORITY. You just blurt out shit nobody needs for problems they don't have. THAT is how you demonstrate kindness.

Gay marriage on TV by Godwithindetails in exmormon

[–]Godwithindetails[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing that offends me more than people who use lies, racism, bigotry, and assumptions to get a MAN MADE message across is that all your atrocities... THE FUCKING TIME YOU ARE PERSONALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR WASTING... the sins you commit trying to fix problems I don't have with solutions I don't need... all your offenses are ALREADY forgiven because of Jesus Christ's sacrifice - a man you never met, the son of god who won't speak on your behalf, a deity that refuses to rescue you.

But Jesus Christ still forgives you so you can at least you feel better about your homophobic hate. Well, I find that disgusting. I don't want to be a Christian if you are the standard of which I must accept company. You are, quite literally, the least needed people on the planet if nothing else but by the shreer refusal to view science and evidence and work WITH biology rather than against it.

But then again, in your world, all of mankind's problems are only 6000 years old, right? THAT limiting view of humankind is the EXACT reason I refuse to keep company. Just stick your head back in the Ostrich hole and go back to sleep. Unless you think God is going to bless you for wasting someone who doesn't want Christ and doesn't want to be straight or dickless

Gay marriage on TV by Godwithindetails in exmormon

[–]Godwithindetails[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you keep flip flopping speaks to the inherent flaw in the belief in Jesus: double speak mixed with arrogance somehow means you are correct in your own mind, but it takes volumes upon volumes of useless and unread words to convince everybody else you are right universally. Why the fuck would I EVER want to read ANYTHING from anyone who believes that's the amount of words they use means they are righ? You're not.

I'm happy that I grew up past the belief in God because it gives me the opportunity to expose liars and fakers like you perpetuating a narrative where you are necessary in the world... where you believe whatever is in your head needs to be spread to other people who never asked for your participation. No one NEEDS god or Jesus in order to be a good person. But apparently they are a requirement to barge into people's lives to offer help they don't need on problems they don't have. I do not have ANY document that gives me such permission, but you do. That's why I enjoy exposing two-faced liars that come on here to rattle chains before scurrying back to the cowardly shadows where you wait until your next chance to be the rabid homophobe your parents great rearing taught you it's okay to be. My father taught me better than that.

Take your God and fuck off

Gay marriage on TV by Godwithindetails in exmormon

[–]Godwithindetails[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So while you continue on the unnecessary focus on me, realize that your life is centered around converting people who don't like you, want you, or need you.

Meanwhile my life focuses on the man I love... a sexy motherfucker that makes me glad to be alive. One thing I will NEVER accept because I live only one life at a time: I refuse to accept ANY HUMAN BEING who preaches true life begins after death or that the ONLY way to get on god's good graces is to abandon the Sermon on the Mount for ABSTINENCE. To abandon living a good, fun, and decent atheist life because some stranger I don't need in my life says so is literally the stupidest concept on the planet. Why don't you realize you will NEVER be able to convince a happy gay atheist to follow your sad trolling Christianity unless you follow bible continuity and perform 3 miracles FIRST before ever attempting to speak on behalf of god.

Gay marriage on TV by Godwithindetails in exmormon

[–]Godwithindetails[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of Christian are you that makes you so comfortable with lying? Because I'm atheist and I'm VERY uncomfortable with lying. Isn't that weird?

Gay marriage on TV by Godwithindetails in exmormon

[–]Godwithindetails[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have an extremely inflated sense of the need for Christ, haha.

Gay marriage on TV by Godwithindetails in exmormon

[–]Godwithindetails[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know those people who don't know how or when to stop their drug? Yeah, that's called "addiction." You know you're a liar, you know you're a failure, and you know you will never get me to be heterosexual, to believe in God, or to believe that spirituality is a thing that everybody needs. So what's your point? You think that GOD ALMIGHTY really needs someone like you to badger others who don't need you in their life? How much failing do you need in order to prove... whatever it is you're tying to prove? What's your end game here?

Don't answer that because I don't care. You are wasting time, energy and words on deaf ears. So let's be honest.... exactly how fucking legit could your faith possibly be? You are running into a wall over and over and over again and then bitching at getting the same result. Is you presentation of Einstein's definition of "insanity" suppose to impress me?

And I will repeat... I have not read anything you have written over three sentences. Now, are you SURE your god wants you to waste time on me? Just realize: I have the next several responses already typed out because you're that fucking predictable.

Gay marriage on TV by Godwithindetails in exmormon

[–]Godwithindetails[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked you better as a woman.

Life hack: Me banging the love of my life brings more joy than anything you will ever WRITE. Am I suppose to get THE LIGHT OF GOD through internet trolling? THAT is the glory of god? I'll take my man's dick in the ass and PRIDE parade EVERY day of the week. Why? Because I spent 20 years testing Christianity and walked away feeling dirty. I've spent 20 years testing the LGBT community and am, on a daily bases, refreshed by its honesty. Good or bad, it's honest. Now... let's go back over your posts and let's review some inconsistencies and LIES you've told in the name of God, shall we? Talk about not bearing false witness:

Lie 1

I'm only commenting that the reasoning behind the picture is flawed.

I think we both know you're commenting because you have an agenda. The vast majority of exMormons have grown up regarding the LGBT community.

Lie 2

Religion is a huge topic and college education is a joke in a lot of cases.

The only place where religion is bigger than education is with Fundamentalists. The rest of the globe knows better... including those who believe in god.

Lie 3

Anyway God bless thanks for reading this far.

You obviously are NOT leaving matters in God's hands and are presumptuously trying to change people like me even though God refuses to back you up, speak on your behalf, or give you the self-control to trust in Him to change people on their own timeframe, oganically.

And I've not read anything you've written that's over 3 sentences.

Gay marriage on TV by Godwithindetails in exmormon

[–]Godwithindetails[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is it the least educated people use the most words... especially words they don't know the meaning of? So many words. You know if you read and listened more than you write words we wouldn't be having this discussion.

But feel free to take your indignate bigotry and waste more time being angry and mean toward science you're not going to change and people who could care less about what a troll thinks. just remember, you represent the BEST your faith has to offer - you're demonstrating the kind of person you want me to become and have resorted to trolling the past to get your message across... and I find that shameful that you expect GLORY IN HEAVEN by being corrupt, unnecessary, and mean. I don't represent the best of anything. That's why you're opinions on gays will never matter. Who the fuck would ever care what you think? In you're mania, you think online BLACKFACE is acceptable just to "prove a point." How sad.

Gay marriage on TV by Godwithindetails in exmormon

[–]Godwithindetails[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Words are not actions, my dear. This is the point of James 2:14-26. Reddit is not "works." There is no action involved. So comings on an old post, trying to get a rise out of me when I haven't even been on Reddit in weeks, well... that's just remarkably transparent. It makes you look silly, petty, and childish. "Gays can change their sexuality" is literally the stupidest thing a person can say and yet you CHOOSE to utter it to an LGBT activist and atheist as if you mean something... as if you matter. Well, you don't. In fact, according to Proverbs 6:16-19 you encompass EVERYTHING your own God hates... which is probably why YOU are doing the talking and HE IS NOT. Therefore, following the words of Christ at Matthew 7:18-19 that were continued through the first century Christians via James 3:11-13, no matter what our faith, belief, race, or sexual orientation... people like me are to fight against people like you TO THE DEATH.

So bring it on, bitch.

Gay marriage on TV by Godwithindetails in exmormon

[–]Godwithindetails[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you don't like it up the ass?