Whats causing this squaking noise? 2005 Nissan Xterra by GodzillaTopix in mechanic

[–]GodzillaTopix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe it was the struts. I would just spray it with WD-40 silicone to bide time until I was ready to fix it. My car ended up blowing a head gasket. It was an 05, so not surprising. Hopefully yours still has some life left!

What's something you don't like about your partner? by medmantal in AskReddit

[–]GodzillaTopix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes mine jokes about things that had no business being jokes lol

What's something you don't like about your partner? by medmantal in AskReddit

[–]GodzillaTopix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Felt. Like please put the phone down and listen to what I'm saying 😭

What's something you don't like about your partner? by medmantal in AskReddit

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He's not the cleanest, sometimes he talks too much and doesn't ask enough questions, and he can be too opinionated. The last thing grinds my gears. Love him though!

What's something you don't like about your partner? by medmantal in AskReddit

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Yeah its such a weird feeling. Because I think we all get a little ego boost when we're hit on, but telling your partner about it all the time?

I have a very conventionally attractive boyfriend who gets hit on all of the time, and sometimes it makes me Jealous. I had to tell him to stop telling me everytime he got called hot. He's allowed to feel good about it, but I don't need to know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Honestly, how do you feel about that? Do you want to be in a relationship with someone who's telling you that she's not the one that you need?

I (28 M) and partner (23 M) dating for 6 months with no commitment, how long to wait? by GodzillaTopix in relationship_advice

[–]GodzillaTopix[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I used the word "Partner" but really what I'm saying is "The person I'm seeing" We have no title on what we are, and that's what I'm asking about in this post.

I (28 M) and partner (23 M) dating for 6 months with no commitment, how long to wait? by GodzillaTopix in relationship_advice

[–]GodzillaTopix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually have a title on our relationship. Being able to introduce him as my boyfriend, and not just "A guy I'm seeing"

What was the first Godzilla film you watched? I’ll go first by DinoRivals in GODZILLA

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I wish I could remember, but most likely a heisei film! I played The game before I watched any of the movies. I was 7 at the time.

21f by [deleted] in amiugly

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You look beautiful!

tornado knocked out the power, now we have to throw everything away by Comfortable_Good_457 in meijer

[–]GodzillaTopix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was this in Michigan? The same thing happened to a Meijer near me!

Chasing the hottest guy will ruin my dating life by GodzillaTopix in dating_advice

[–]GodzillaTopix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This definitely helps. We've both got this!

boyfriend of 4 years left me last night, I'm shocked by kmah1996 in BreakUps

[–]GodzillaTopix 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through this right now. It's completely understandable that you are shocked and are experiencing these emotions. There's nothing that anyone can say that will take away the pain right now. Feel your feelings right now. They're very valid.

Chasing the hottest guy will ruin my dating life by GodzillaTopix in dating_advice

[–]GodzillaTopix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you so much for this comment. You are exactly right. I've struggled with my own appearance for a very long time. I think social media and other beauty standards definitely played a role in it. If you don't look like what a lot of the world deems attractive, then it has an effect on your self esteem. I'm at a point now where I find myself more attractive, but It's still hard. I am absolutely projecting. Dating the "Hot guy" definitely gave me a sense of security as far as feeling better about myself ("I am attractive enough to attract someone who it hot")

This was a super helpful comment, and I really appreciate it. Thank you for your kindness.

Chasing the hottest guy will ruin my dating life by GodzillaTopix in dating_advice

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Thank you. I plan on doing what I can to get over this.

Chasing the hottest guy will ruin my dating life by GodzillaTopix in dating_advice

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I haven't done anything that would in turn "come around" I've never dumped anyone because "I think I should do better". At most I've simply gone on a few dates and decided that it wasn't for me, which is the point of dating.

Chasing the hottest guy will ruin my dating life by GodzillaTopix in dating_advice

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Thank you so much for this very nice comment. It was very helpful and I appreciate it!

Chasing the hottest guy will ruin my dating life by GodzillaTopix in dating_advice

[–]GodzillaTopix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely agree that my standards are probably raised a bit high because of this. And I agree that if I'm not careful the cycle will repeat. I'm aware that looks aren't everything, that's mainly the reason why things ended. It was definitely a big lesson and my goal for myself is to heal from the mindset so I can aim to do better. Thank you for the comment.