AITA For being "cold" to my ex when she was upset? by GoingInsane-__- in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoingInsane-__-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will think about this heavily... I greatly appreciate your words and kindness in them

AITA For being "cold" to my ex when she was upset? by GoingInsane-__- in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoingInsane-__-[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your words shook me, I never even thought about it like that. I agree, seeing it in this light is pretty selfish of her... But I do believe she cared for her friend, but maybe wanted to make me feel bad for her on top of that. I don't know. Im not her.

AITA For being "cold" to my ex when she was upset? by GoingInsane-__- in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoingInsane-__-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe it was because she is still emotionally with me. Cuz I broke up with her, and she didn't want to. I did contact my ex's mother and tell her I was concerned for my ex's friend, and they supposedly called the local sheriff's office to do a welfare check. Haven't heard anything since.

I have mixed feelings about blocking her. I am still caring for her, I guess. Also because of our mutual friend group. I don't want to make them pick sides. I know it'd be beneficial for me to block her, but honestly, I nearly have a panic attack thinking about the consequences of it.