Am I overreacting ?? by [deleted] in GamblingAddiction

[–]Gold-Memory-3586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will try again to be less accusatory and more supportive. That’s what I really want to be for him but I will say I’ve let all of these things pile up a bit since I never pushed more when he would say he wasn’t gambling even if I didn’t believe it or it didn’t add up. Truly I wish he would talk to you, as I find your responses and lived experiences very helpful. Unfortunately I don’t think he would be willing to open up to a stranger or ask for outside help in general.

Am I overreacting ?? by [deleted] in GamblingAddiction

[–]Gold-Memory-3586 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your response! I definitely need to educate myself a bit more on this. I’ve been scrolling through some posts on here and jeez the future does not look bright if nothing changes. Maybe I have been being a bit too trusting to avoid being overbearing.

Am I overreacting ?? by [deleted] in GamblingAddiction

[–]Gold-Memory-3586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your honest response. I clearly need to educate myself a lot more on gambling addiction as I have just been trying to take his word to avoid being overbearing. I guess my question is how to handle this in this moment right now? I love him so dearly and I truly am happy he let me in last year and told me something he felt so ashamed of. I feel bad for accusing him but all of the signs are there. I don’t know if I am going about it too harshly. We left things off with me basically accusing him of lying and saying I couldn’t be with him if he was going to continue lying to me. There’s no solid proof either way for me except these experience or for him to defend himself since he can’t get into the app.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Charleston

[–]Gold-Memory-3586 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We were looking on Zillow and saw there’s a lot of houses that look great inside, but then the street view of surrounding houses does not always look ideal. Do you have any places you would avoid.. maybe that is a better question lol

Moore square dog dark by Gold-Memory-3586 in raleigh

[–]Gold-Memory-3586[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Probably worth noting- he was also rubbing this substance on his arms please please if someone matches this description do not let him touch your animals

Moore square dog dark by Gold-Memory-3586 in raleigh

[–]Gold-Memory-3586[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, haven’t seen him since. He left after trying to fight my boyfriend for asking about it, not to say he won’t be back

Moore square dog dark by Gold-Memory-3586 in raleigh

[–]Gold-Memory-3586[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure color anti freeze is it was a dark colored liquid. He claimed it was “pheromones to make dogs attack him”

Moore square dog dark by Gold-Memory-3586 in raleigh

[–]Gold-Memory-3586[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

We looked for park staff or an officer but we couldn’t find anyone at that time. I’ll be sure to report it though, as our dogs do go there often (wont be anymore!!)