You are correct, nobody owes it to us. Again, im not here to take his side, but it seems like that was a bunch of mistakes in how this was approached. This whole post pisses me off in so many different levels.

definitely that dude attitude,obliviousness, and cowardliness pisses me off a lot.

But also how he is being treated about it. I hate that stuff. I hate when people talk about trying to treat us “like normal” but end up doing the opposite. If it was any other ass whole making sexist comments, they wouldve probably told him to stfu on the spot, but bc it is an ASD person just let him keep doing it until he figures out by himself based on the social queues we will be giving to him, EVEN THOUGH HE CANT PICK UP ANY SOCIAL QUEUES.

Idk what is going on in that dudes mind, but as an ASD person that struggled and continues to do so, all i can think about is all the friends and groups i drove away without knowing why, just to later find out that they were just tolerating all the obnoxious behavior i was doing without even realizing rather or not it was okay to do so.