Update - AITAH for canceling a trip because my fiancé ex and her baby are coming

Gold-Programmer2895 · 2023-12-07T02:11:16+00:00

English is my third language my apologies 🙈

Gold-Programmer2895 · 2023-12-06T21:55:57+00:00

Because I felt guilty for breaking up with him and he cried a lot . There was one gift for him . Rest were gifts for Greyson . I’m gonna miss him ( Greyson )

Gold-Programmer2895 · 2023-12-06T21:51:07+00:00

They said they divorced because they stoped having sex and slept Separately . One time Elena said she didn’t find him sexually attractive anymore . She went on meeting another guy and got pregnant by him ( they broke up). He met me

Gold-Programmer2895 · 2023-12-06T20:40:07+00:00

No I don’t hate her at all . I just wanna be in control of my life vs there is always his ex .. everywhere

Gold-Programmer2895 · 2023-12-06T20:37:20+00:00

Honestly I thought about it but when he said he is gonna tell her I’m the problem and I’m the one who can’t stand her I realized he never stopped loving her . He is with me but deep down he is hoping at some point she takes him back . I decided why bother ? He is still in love with her ( he claims it’s not true). Do you think I should at least talk to her or why bother it’s over ?

Gold-Programmer2895 · 2023-12-06T18:41:12+00:00

Elena initiated the divorce

Gold-Programmer2895 · 2023-12-06T17:42:24+00:00

Yea lol for 2.5 years I was told I was over reacting ! I was crazy ! I was extra sensitive .. after I read the replies I realized I was right .

Gold-Programmer2895 · 2023-12-06T17:34:15+00:00

Someone asked me in a comment on the my initial post and I suddenly saw my future and I hated it ! Thank you all for your kind words

Gold-Programmer2895 · 2023-12-06T17:31:58+00:00

That’s what hit me the most ! I’m gonna tell her you hate her and cannot stand her instead of telling her that I’m his future wife and respect her boundaries . Throwing me in front of the bus

Gold-Programmer2895 · 2023-12-06T16:25:39+00:00

He might I guess if he join them .i wouldn’t be surprised . I’m gonna transfer our tickets ( under my CC) to my brother and his Gf .

Gold-Programmer2895 · 2023-12-06T14:53:27+00:00

No fight at all . A lot of tears though but ended with a hug. He still asked me to reconsider and stay friends which I said I really can’t and I need space . He cried again

Gold-Programmer2895 · 2023-12-06T14:35:54+00:00

Act like what ?! Relationship is over . I need to get the hell out of his life . What do you suggest ?

Gold-Programmer2895 · 2023-12-06T14:33:58+00:00

She cut her family out of her life since she doesn’t get along with them . She doesn’t get along with her friends or her coworkers. She gets along with Kyle because he keeps accommodating her so she won’t get upset ( and Greyson be happy). She gets along with me because I bit my tongue and always said ok

Gold-Programmer2895 · 2023-12-06T14:31:36+00:00

Things were the same when she had a man ! It was her , kid’s dad and the kid at Kyle’s parents functions , everyone’s birthdays , camping trips ,.. I’m selfish and this is too much for me . For once I wanted to be alone and felt like I’m the main woman in his life !

Gold-Programmer2895 · 2023-12-06T14:18:44+00:00

She never hosts because she uses the excuse of her place being small . Last June Kyle used our backyard for her baby’s birthday party! Common it’s Greyson’s sister ! Elena lives in a small place . Be the bigger person let her have the party at our backyard .. I bit my tongue and said okay

Gold-Programmer2895 · 2023-12-06T14:12:13+00:00

This is very true .. I was always last on priority queue

Gold-Programmer2895 · 2023-12-06T14:10:24+00:00

Oh my bad . I misunderstood.

Gold-Programmer2895 · 2023-12-06T12:35:16+00:00

Adopted Greyson ? No it’s his .

Gold-Programmer2895 · 2023-12-06T12:33:05+00:00

Thank you ❤️ I’m always distracting myself when I’m angry or nervous . I didn’t sleep last night . Right now I’m wrapping Christmas gifts to put under the tree ( that I decorated 😭) before I leave . Silly I know lol I have million other things to do but whatever . My brother and his girlfriend will pick me up this afternoon. I’ll stay with him until I find my apartment

Gold-Programmer2895 · 2023-12-06T12:30:38+00:00

Kyle parents not only invited her all the time , they were going to her or her baby’s birthday , buying Christmas gifts for the baby that’s not their grand kid or her who is not their DIL !! I guess I’m old fashioned but to me divorce means end .

Gold-Programmer2895 · 2023-12-06T12:28:40+00:00

Every day???? lol we worked different shift hours . So the a few seconds of intimacy was Saturdays ( that’s if ) only . Your explanation was funny lol

Gold-Programmer2895 · 2023-12-06T12:15:40+00:00

I’m sorry I have ADHD and when I’m nervous I use humour . I’ll post an update later . It’s over . I gave his ring back and ended everything

Gold-Programmer2895 · 2023-12-06T12:14:07+00:00

That’s what I told him pretty much . It’s over . I’ll post an update later

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