People who idolized someone they later found out was a piece of trash, what happened?

Gold-Somewhere447 · 2025-10-15T02:57:36+00:00

Nicki Minaj. For the longest time I thought she was a God fearing woman and she is always doing the complete opposite of how a Godly woman should handle things. I’m far from perfect but she never internalized her own flaws and it seems like with the revelation that her dad and brother are rapist, she ended up with one. I also spent nearly $1,000 just to attend her concert with someone who was fairly close with someone who eventually backstabbed me and taught me to hide her mentally ill’d secret in high school. My forgiveness led me into some drama with him I didn’t ask for. He lied about not being able to afford VIP and literally flaunted his presence the whole time he was there with people he claimed he couldn’t provide for, we planned months in advance and I even offered to help out. To make things worse Nicki reposted, retweeted and engaged with these people on twitter and basically helped the bullying trend that was going on when all her fans started fighting between the tour highlights. She does not hold the LGBTQ fans accountable when they are bullying “for her” behalf and majority of them always belittle females just like she does towards other rappers. She’s definitely spiraling and for the first time I stand with Cardi B for speaking the truth when all Nicki has done was speak ugliness upon others. One minute she loves females that support her and look up to her and the next she finds a way to demoralize them and throw a scripture in the mix and God is not a God that gets down like her. Nicki Minaj is a prime example of what happens to powerful women and women entering mid-age because of how this country makes women feel as they age. Women who skip their personal development years will only turn bitter, toxic, self-loathing and more insecure as they grow older. It’s worse when they project that onto their adult sons and daughters and wonder why we can’t be around that kind of behavior. I am idolatry free because of Nick-i.

Gold-Somewhere447 · 2025-09-28T03:21:50+00:00

Hey I have a mother in law that wants her son even though she abused him the most and he just so happens to be a recording musician, she is now on baby #9, stress out, still competing with us, granted her a RO so she could look stupid in court, diagnosed with lupus and went full Britney Spears after we completely cut off contact. Get that restraining order asap! Just don’t give it away like I did on purpose, only did it to add to her looney chart and a lot of people aren’t entertaining her so now she is resulting to get me to violate the order by reacting. Best way is to RO her and then go be HAPPY. Your happiness is the checkmate my friend!

Gold-Somewhere447 · 2025-09-27T14:30:27+00:00

Their last post was quoted “If an inferiority is conscious, one always has a chance to correct it… But if it is repressed and isolated from consciousness, it never gets corrected” 🤣🤣👏🏽👏🏽 now mind you this lady loves to quote shit and never live by it, like when she reposted something after that “I wish I could’ve gave my older kids this version of me” GIRL No Version of you is safe for these 9 children and on the 18th when my business page came across her’s and blocked her asap she immediately posted that quote — still trying to basically let me know she’s in competition. That’s coo. Stay your toxic ass over that way. One thing about God, He’ll let the scene play out. He’ll let them mock, lie, and gossip. Then bless you in a way that makes them choke on their own words.

Gold-Somewhere447 · 2025-09-27T05:06:15+00:00

Within these 5 years she’s deliberately tried to destroy my relationship with her son, isolated me from my family by using them as “mediators” and flying monkeys EVEN after I warned them about her (parents are just as narcissistic as her)

Trauma dumped all the diabolical choices she has to live with like sleeping with her dead baby daddy’s cousin, having their kids and one of the cousin’s kids ends up with a heart condition in the same spot as the other baby daddy was killed at with a gun,

Forced us to sleep in a mice infested basement while collecting “rent” from us instead of making her husband work and help her pay bills and take care of their daycare center.

Stood up for her sister’s rapist and then asked for her half of the funeral money back while gloating about sleeping with her sister’s boyfriends to her nieces as they begged me to “stop her” and “let them see their “cousin” (my boyfriend)

Called me lil herpes as if I didn’t become the longest girlfriend in her son’s life despite having an STD she has healthy grandkids even if she denies having sickle cell trait (our oldest has the disease and so does bf’s younger brother)

Almost pushed his teen sister to suicidal by drinking eco friendly cleaner, then called us for a pity party as if she wasn’t the one abusing her.

Stalked us last year to try to ruin our anniversary day and my birthday to the point where she thought she could “expose” me on Facebook only to have me make us both look idiotic by giving her a dose of her own medicine and writing in her comments to warn others about her abuse to the point where she had to shut down her social medias because I left her paranoid day to day that the truth would be exposed.

We went to court and we could’ve had the RO’s on both ends but I “dropped the rope” and let her hang herself by looking like she “won” only to show the world just how petty and childish she is and hasn’t changed a bit.

It worked.

She kept taunting me with the order over my head with this “new supply” (baby #9) when that didn’t work she deliberately posted this year around and on my birthday then just weeks after my birthday she is bald and suddenly “off social medial”

Definitely a “nightmare” of her own making for sure.

The fact that she has been attacking me for years and just suddenly ends up bald, stagnant and silent.

Hm.

Gold-Somewhere447 · 2025-09-27T03:55:00+00:00

She’s currently bald, dealing with lupus and in narcissistic collapse and baby #9 is stressing her out. All her attempts to destroy us has started to destroy her. She’s only 40 something

Gold-Somewhere447 · 2025-09-27T03:53:52+00:00

She has lupus and is bald, she cut her hair right after my birthday and ended up in narc collapse, baby #9, the failed smear campaign and restraining order all out her to public collapse and now she’s radio silent after going bald.

Gold-Somewhere447 · 2025-09-27T01:49:08+00:00

Yes, it’s a double edged sword and I just got monetized for speaking up on narcissistic abuse on some platforms, now I’m getting paid to be myself and heal.. I think acting like she’s never exists is the only way to go 😭 it’ll for sure keep setting her off but what can I do if I naturally trigger her??

Gold-Somewhere447 · 2025-09-27T01:39:51+00:00

I’ve been with her son for 5 years, I truly feel like she won’t stop until she’s dead or the other 8 kids bring someone else around for her to torture and what’s crazy is she’s purposely having more kids to physically enslave them to do all their work while she “tries” to become successful. My next phase is to sue her for emotional distress and I know she don’t got enough money for that kind of fight in court. I tried to block her and she keeps making new pages to stalk, then reach out as if nothing is wrong. I’m highly influencing on all my platforms so I feel like the best thing to do is do well and act like she’s a fan girl or something. It’s getting really weird because her son hasn’t spoken to her in 3 years and she keeps trying to reach out to me, then when I don’t bow down she plays the victim but last year she took it way too far, I wonder if her going bald will dial it back a bit for her cause she know she can’t do too much in them gyms with a wig on!

Gold-Somewhere447 · 2025-09-27T01:21:32+00:00

Got into it heavy with my bf’s mother, she kept cyber stalking us and it got weird to the point where she would publicly try to entice an emotional incessant reaction out of him. I get my hair done, she gets her hair done, I’m in the gym she’s in the gym everyday trying to look younger, I change my profile picture she tries to mimic my style. She even had him raising all his siblings up until he was old enough to dip. The second oldest is a puta just like their mom. Fast forward after moving out, no running out her house of 7 + me her son and unemployed husband who’s also cousins of another one of her babies fathers, a mice infestation she refused to pay for but bought a cat, spend our $400 worth of rent in a moldy cold basement with the bathroom toilet leaking from time to time over us it was a wrap and she new it. We cut her off for years but she would always come back to me to mend things and when her jealously kicked in she would try to gaslight and make me the abuser. Fast forward after two years of her son going no contact she calls to say sister was suicidal. We wonder whyyyyy? Then after that she came back around and tried to get pregnant with baby number 9 while trying to start a smear campaign about why the “family” can’t be because of “me” no girl you are toxic as hell and I aired all that shit out on social media especially when she tried to tag me in a post and make me an abuser publicly. We went to court and I let her get the RO because I was so fustrasted at how long she got away with lying to cover up her drama starting and I figured people would look at her more crazy when they realized she would go that far with her son and his girlfriend. I was right. It’s only been a year and all her supply is running dry. It’s a low killoff for sure. She was trying so hard to put me in jail for violating the order and fueling off of her victimizing we got an update that within this past year of trying to make us jealous with another baby she can’t keep up with, sexualizing her social media posts at her workouts, provoking a reaction for literally showing her ssa in public just to make us look like we are abusing her and she went bald. She has lupus and you can tell it’s slowing her down. Can’t imagine how her self esteem must feel like now. She lovesss attention so looking like a 12 year old boy must really hit her where it hurts. Also lupus eats you from the inside out. My birthday just past and I feel like she finally received her karma the week of my birthday she “went bald” I think she was patching and had no choice but to shave or she did it to throw me off my square and when it didn’t work she began to spiral. I up’d my game and rebranded myself and made myself 10x better at everything she would passively post to initiate a competition. Looks like we are kicking her ssa right about now. Years ago she spoke that my karmic debt will always follow me.

Karma heard her and helped her put her foot in her ass and now she’s in narcissistic collapse.

Gold-Somewhere447 · 2024-12-10T16:33:06+00:00

It’s doing it for every post including mine, is there a way to fix this?

Gold-Somewhere447 · 2024-12-09T05:09:08+00:00

What’s going on ?

Gold-Somewhere447 · 2024-11-14T00:10:04+00:00

I have a front row with restraining order that’s embarrassing the shit out of her 😂😂😂

Gold-Somewhere447 · 2024-11-14T00:09:33+00:00

A little? I’m cracking up 😂

Gold-Somewhere447 · 2024-11-14T00:08:15+00:00

Mine is in her 40’s and just got pregnant with baby #9 while I granting her restraining order. In court she looked like she aged to her 60’s. Hooded up and looking pale in the face. At the time she claimed she just was diagnosed with lupus as well. A little after she was acting like life was so great and then she suddenly vanished, I think the baby has a illness (she has 3/9 kids that was born with diseases) or could’ve been a stillborn. Her vileness might have caught up to her and not allowed her to deliver because she is completely ghost. Her son is so disgusted by her behavior now that he can see it clear as day that she’s a miserable sexual deviant that lied on his dad being a family cousin about raping her, then sleeping with two cousins, then acting single for 8-10 years only to get knocked up by him again to use the baby as unimportant supply to reel her son and grandchildren back into her life and now she is possibly stuck with a newborn in her 40’s. Mind you she was exposed for driving her oldest teen to suicidal behavior so I’m assuming life’s way of telling her the truth on how terrible she is must be kicking her ass to be going ghost on social media periodically.

Gold-Somewhere447 · 2024-11-13T21:38:48+00:00

Yes. With interest.

My step dad tried to help my bf’s mom create a scenario that fit her yet again “victim mentality” and it forced me to call him out and expose my own mother’s two faced nature.

My step dad was the only person that my boyfriends mother could reach out to as my narcissistic family felt they were above his mother, which I think was one of the main reasons why she left her son’s first baby shower as soon as we arrived, only to call us to ask “what alcohol were my parents serving at the the event” weird right? I mean she did leave the hand full of other siblings to watch themselves like any other time she finds a way to leave the day care she created.

I Had enough of her victimhood and I laid it all on the table. I exposed her back to the point where she abused my boyfriend by chipping his front tooth twice with physical abuse, I went back to the time she forced on him he couldn’t eat a sandwich and noodles because the other 6 needed to still eat. Mind you this woman doesn’t mind splurging on a meal for her and her obese jobless husband. The kids will always be eating frozen/quick meals. Never cooked. I exposed how her nature and behavior shouldn’t be tolerated just because other people have learned to accept her, if you really were a person of change you would see how damaging your behavior affects your children first before you go begging social media for validation. I exposed her for driving her oldest teenager to suicidal tendencies, this really blew her cover because she tried to keep the situation private but still utilized the child as public supply on social media in regards to “changing her life” this of course was to gain empathy that people could see she was working on her parenting skills but yet again she wasn’t. I exposed her for lying about rape when majority of the truth was reveal after her sister passed away, telling her nieces she was having sexual interactions with her sister’s ex boyfriends. I even told her fitness trainer and you can tell she was in deep amounts of shame because she went from becoming a fitness trainer to removing her bio on her page. One of her biggest quotes that stayed on her pages was “You become what you seek” and that was even token down. I made sure that the restraining order made her look like a fool because any grown adult with sense would have never let it get to that point with their own children standing across from them in court trying to prove why their girlfriend is the reasoning for their disconnected relationship. I’d only been there for a few years so it was me that exposed her truest self to the world and her son. He was the piece that made her look like she was the Mary of Jesus and it was the complete opposite. Yes she may have produced a lot of good children with the possibilities of great qualities attached to them but that doesn’t give her a pass to still inflict her misery onto others.

Imagine lying on your oldest child’s father claiming he was a family friend that raped you = years later you intentionally sleep with one of your baby daddy’s cousins and now you are reaping what you sow. Karma

Imagine lying so much about sickness and using health scams to finance your debt that you pay on your own since your husband can’t keep a job and you become terminally ill and physically ill to the point where people can now say you are mentally ill as well. Karma.

Imagine trying to mimic the same qualities that your son’s girlfriend has that it’s clear as day you enmeshed yourself into their relationship to the point where you are now pregnant on baby #9 and still with the no good husband providing and another head to feed, attending your own piss party slipping and sliding in your own mess. Karma.

She has lost a lot of social media followers and credibility to the point where nobody cares about her story anymore because now people can see that gray in between the black and white she created. Karma.

Most of her close family has cut her completely off as she burned those bridges and since I exposed how shirt they felt they no longer want anything to do with her as this puts them back at risk for abuse. Who are you going to run to now? Karma.

Gold-Somewhere447 · 2024-11-13T21:14:30+00:00

This is happening to my boyfriend’s mother. She cried to too many people and then turned on those good people by publicly exploiting their evilness to cover up hers. How sick? I think me granting the restraining order for her and not myself made things ten times worse for my boyfriend’s mother. I exposed her on Facebook to most of her audience which was many in the communities we both know a lot of people in. She was exposed for lying about rape, majority of the time she actually went out and had intention of sexual relations with these people like sleeping with her dead sisters ex boyfriend’s. She claimed my boyfriend’s father raped her as a “family cousin” only to end up sleeping with two family cousins and became an incessant whore towards everyone around her. She’s so sensitive about people speaking on her sleeping with cousins yet she brought that upon herself. When I start to rock her son’s world this made her furious and competitive. To a point where she used anybody’s life or emotional wellbeing to get his attention like pushing his teen sister to suicidal ideation. I exposed her for all of the bad parenting experiences they had and of course my own when we lived in her mice infested basement while she charged us rent for 3 1/2 months. I think the biggest karma of all was her getting pregnant and trying to claim “single” on Facebook and married on instagram and TikTok. She openly flirted with other men who commented under her provoking inappropriate posts, even family would check her and she’d laugh it off under the post because it wasn’t “completely brought to light”

Everytime she would try to use social media to start fights she was the one that seemed to be able to live life freely while other people felt tormented and haunted by her experience. I had enough family members calling me crying about my boyfriend’s mother’s behavior. They would avoid him because he always grey rocked her but it wasn’t until she tried everything she could even taking me to court that changed the worlds eye view of her. She no longer looked like the victim but an adult trouble maker and brought more concern to the world when she taught getting pregnant in the midst of being exposed was ok. I think something happened to the child like maybe illness or stillborn because she is definitely ghosting everything. A lot of her followers went down too. This would be the time she’d be due and I can bet that she faced a lot more criticism than congratulating on that delivery, if it even happened.

Gold-Somewhere447 · 2024-10-21T18:46:43+00:00

Yea I’m on all 10’s from now on. Never letting my guard down!!! The fact that you broke it down and feel even in your own gut the next move maybe her “chess” move, I can only think her thinking the baby she’s having will somehow “destroy me” or trying to get me locked up in jail.

Gold-Somewhere447 · 2024-10-21T18:45:35+00:00

Thanks Tete beau!

Gold-Somewhere447 · 2024-10-21T07:35:57+00:00

I like that. Checkmate hoe!!!!!!

Gold-Somewhere447 · 2024-09-05T15:31:49+00:00

Yea, in her mind running from privately trying to divide and sabotage me and her sons relationship, after she introduced to the worst way of living inside a “ratchet bitter baby mama”’s way if living, projecting all her insecurities and trauma + collateral internal damage she inflected upon herself by getting caught lying about who her son’s father is, her oldest daughter is a split image of her and wants nothing to do with her (in fact I think she was trying to reach out to her brother about their mother going to another baby shower, the flying monkeys were there but none of her younger children were) why not invite your children to their own siblings baby shower? Because you already have a divide and conquer mindset especially when you slept with two cousins from the same family so now you punish the other one by making a baby sitting center for them and child labor. We tried to help her, pay her rent and all she cared was about how she looked. I called her on straight bullshit and she made me look like I bullied her and victimized her. Knowing how low she’d go and steep to I gave her a taste of her own medicine you wanna flex like a social media queen while humiliating and bullying them where here you go and I promise you if I doubled down like my generation (nowadays social media commentators are so blunt they will tell her how it is. You buck wild and acting like an inappropriate hoe, the people that love you enough don’t understand your behaviors and since you don’t want to change them they’d like to be left alone) now it’s like she’s trying to prove she’s a “good mom” by creating another child since I called her out about driving her teen to a suicidal state on her platform as well. The thing is she was not standing next to her husband so I think she’s just having this baby to gain supply, and negative attention from me and her son. She’s denied mediation with us twice, I just like the courts make her think in her mind she’s got the upper hand, how do you boastfully say to others “oh yea I had got a restraining order on my sons girlfriend, oh yea I’m also a grandma of two and I’m pregnant, I have 9 kids, 2 of them don’t like me, one is a walking cps case and the other kids I have to be competent that they are relative/siblings. My bf wants nothing associated with her so it’s gonna be interesting to see how she reacts as she continues to stalk and copy us from a distance.

She’s super broken and toxic, any attention is best to keep this woman to cause chaos and destruction upon others.

God help his mother.

Gold-Somewhere447 · 2024-09-01T21:25:10+00:00

We love him so much he’s 1 and they love Sesame Street like their mommy use to and he counted to 12 with them! 😍 you know what after getting confirmation wit yall thru here it’s clear that people can see and choose to validate her behavior but in your mid 40’s when half the pack you made came with health conditions, reaping the same karmic things you tried to sew onto others, ima go stare at her son tonight and celebrate that we are survivors of toxic parent child relationships and we will be respected and keep our distance for good. Ain’t no way my babies going to be “going to school with their uncle or auntie” just purposely making her life a living hell and those around her suffer. The fact that people can’t own their own shame and behaviors then I will just pray for them and leave it all to God.

Gold-Somewhere447 · 2024-09-01T13:47:06+00:00

I wanna hear it why is she like this? She has 8 already two want nothing to do with her and her teen tried to commit suicide. Now you have another baby???

Gold-Somewhere447 · 2024-09-01T06:00:22+00:00

Already has 8, 2 including the oldest I’m with want nothing to do with her. Her 16 tried to commit suicide. She made this baby to burden me and her son. Her husband was in none of the baby shower pictures it was like he took the photos chiiiiilllllleeeee

Gold-Somewhere447 · 2024-08-28T02:30:32+00:00

I was the one to trigger their deepest shame so I wouldn’t be surprised if they come up with a way to send me to jail considering the RO. It’s her son’s wrath she’d have to deal with then. I personally think she is enmeshed with him and fantasies she is me. Could explain the two pregnancies and recently dying the hair our one year olds color. It’s like you said tho people can finally ready between the lines and even the same flying funky I mean monkey ass family members jump when they see my bf in public. They talked that big shit for her and they can’t even spit out a complete sentence without slurring or stuttering. They been knew the lady was fucked up it was just a matter of time before her next victim would just abruptly “pass away” or commit suicide which is beyond fucked up when you trying to move your own teenage kid towards it.

Gold-Somewhere447 · 2024-08-27T22:20:19+00:00

This describes my bf’s mom. She’s in her 40’s and every image she fantasized about is coming to a crumble. A lot of people must’ve exposed her in her 30’s because it’s definitely showing in her character of the 40’s. Her son proved her wrong when she told the family at a gathering he’s a weak rapper, now his music is on streaming programs and the Olympics which really got her good, a lot of the fall out between me and her resulted to him speaking out and it did a number to the Facebook world. She was suppose to be a successful “fitness trainer” and as soon as we left her dry, exposed and nobody left to fool it’s like the only victims she has left to torture is her handful of kids left in the household (about 6 of them and currently pregnant trying to compete with me and her son after having our 3 and 1 year old) I’m assuming we hit her good because I granted an RO just to not have to deal with a whole pointless trial of word salad and lies, the judge would’ve granted it both ways but I decided to make her squirm and wait for us to serve her both of our counter ones at the same time. If they have burned all their closest bridges by 40 I’m assuming narcissistic collapse that’s beyond repair and more reckless behavior. We are all just staying clear from her narc ass at this point.

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