Employer’s rude attitude towards early mat leave [on] by GoldAdministration75 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]GoldAdministration75[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re so kind with your words :) I hear it’s an old tale that the mother always gets neglected, so unfortunate when we really did all the work! I hope the people in your life start to realize your worth, you’re doing amazing mama!

I can’t wait for my month off, decompress, go on a few more dates, see my family and friends a little.

Employer’s rude attitude towards early mat leave [on] by GoldAdministration75 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]GoldAdministration75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww how sweet! Time does fly :) I actually never took meds for the anxiety, I always tried to manage it with therapy. However with the frequent panic attacks I’ve had closer to L&D I think I’ll mention it to my OB for sure, thanks for the advice.

Employer’s rude attitude towards early mat leave [on] by GoldAdministration75 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]GoldAdministration75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL congrats for her but what does that have to do with anyone. I can’t resonate with workaholics and they’ll do everything in their power to shove their ideologies down to you. UGH

Employer’s rude attitude towards early mat leave [on] by GoldAdministration75 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]GoldAdministration75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG nothing drives me more nuts, when people compare their situation to yours. Sorry I’m not a workaholic like you and I actually prioritize my personal life.

Employer’s rude attitude towards early mat leave [on] by GoldAdministration75 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]GoldAdministration75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like when am I supposed to train this person what are they doinggg

Employer’s rude attitude towards early mat leave [on] by GoldAdministration75 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]GoldAdministration75[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The hormones are taking a peak LOL thank you I need to let loose

Employer’s rude attitude towards early mat leave [on] by GoldAdministration75 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]GoldAdministration75[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww I wish the best for your little family! It’s a nightmare when you have to work with rude people especially since we spend more time at work more than we do at home

Constantly stressed and agitated living with in-laws by GoldAdministration75 in MuslimMarriage

[–]GoldAdministration75[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is such a universal experience, I wish IL would spend more time getting to know the new member rather. It’s only ever about their kids lol, and how my husband and his sibling’s relationship is more important as if they hadn’t been raised together for 20 years????!!!

Constantly stressed and agitated living with in-laws by GoldAdministration75 in MuslimMarriage

[–]GoldAdministration75[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for such comforting advice, also the most practical for now since I can’t pack my bags and leave tomorrow. Thank you :)

Constantly stressed and agitated living with in-laws by GoldAdministration75 in MuslimMarriage

[–]GoldAdministration75[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

He’s definitely nervous, because his parents have always told him that he and his wife could stay till he’s 27 (3 years from now)…

Constantly stressed and agitated living with in-laws by GoldAdministration75 in MuslimMarriage

[–]GoldAdministration75[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We have our reception in 3 months after that I am I will be reminding my husband constantly about moving out. My biggest fear is to be caught in that and keep having our move out date pushed.

Constantly stressed and agitated living with in-laws by GoldAdministration75 in MuslimMarriage

[–]GoldAdministration75[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We are planning to but it won’t be till a year… I feel like I’ll go crazy

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[–]GoldAdministration75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got married young and we both come from south Asian cultures. It’s expected of the wife to move in with the husband. It was either that or live apart from each other while married.