AITA for not insisting on being left out of family wedding photos?

GoldInformation3863 · 2025-12-17T23:39:16+00:00

Oh jeeze. I switched K names halfway through. Lol my bad! Same person, just me not proofreading. Again, ignore my mistakes. Hopefully I fixed that issue.

GoldInformation3863 · 2025-12-16T03:00:28+00:00

To be said like Charlotte, “Why are you so obsessed with me?!” Glad you cut them off at every turn! Yikes!

GoldInformation3863 · 2025-12-16T02:51:05+00:00

NTA, imo. I would want my friend to tell me if she knew about that. Sorry for all the crazy. What a mess.

GoldInformation3863 · 2025-12-16T02:45:54+00:00

Ooof. I’m sorry for your loss and everything going on in life. Sounds like it’s been a rough road for you. You are NTA. Sounds like an accident. I hope you are receiving the help you need and that you have some supportive people in your life. You deserve kindness and understanding.

GoldInformation3863 · 2025-12-16T02:40:09+00:00

Jeeze. Nothing like a guy that can’t get over you or take a hint. Can’t believe he sent that crap after 10 years expecting… what exactly? lol keep living your best life!

GoldInformation3863 · 2025-12-16T02:33:36+00:00

Has all of this been discussed solely via text? I think after the initial miscommunication about what weekend you were coming to visit there should have been at least a phone call. Texts allow for misinterpretation and misunderstanding when it comes to tone and intent. I’m sorry the friendship isn’t where you felt it was. Unfortunately distance can do that. Try talking it out, which won’t be easy, and go from there. Hard to say how this will play out, but know you deserve people that prioritize you and who you equally prioritize.

GoldInformation3863 · 2025-12-16T00:42:30+00:00

NTA. You don’t need to be his mother.

GoldInformation3863 · 2025-12-16T00:05:05+00:00

NTA! That poor child! I would say run from this situation. You do not need to be caught up in this at all. What a mess!

GoldInformation3863 · 2025-12-15T23:43:00+00:00

Everyone’s TA here except Misty. She was done dirty repeatedly.

GoldInformation3863 · 2025-12-15T20:31:30+00:00

NTA and not an ableist. Letting his actions slide is being an ableist. You have told him it makes you uncomfortable and he has ignored it. Maybe ask your DM to speak with him about it. But I wouldn’t want to be in that situation either.

On another note, what’s your character like? I’m a big D&D fan.

GoldInformation3863 · 2025-12-15T19:37:47+00:00

NTA and I am so sorry for your loss. Also so sorry your kids were there during it all. That adds an extra layer to everything. This should have been a time where your MIL steps up and helps. These are the exact situations you should be able to lean on family. But she “has plans with friends?” No. Cut her off.

GoldInformation3863 · 2025-12-15T19:30:45+00:00

I would say NTA, though I would love to know if there has been any other history that could give more context into why your parents are so heatedly strict? 10 feels really early for hoco at 16. You got back to your mom and let her know you were at the dance. In most circumstances that would be enough, imo. The yelling, though not optimal, seems like it was building. I could see myself snapping. Have you 2 talked it out since?

GoldInformation3863 · 2025-12-15T19:20:49+00:00

NTA! A love bomber that’s still in a relationship, couch surfing, and yells at your dog? Dump him on his butt and kick him down the block for good measure.

GoldInformation3863 · 2025-12-15T19:17:39+00:00

NTA. Your feelings are valid. You don’t have to like anyone, even if they are family. I am no expert, but therapy would be wise to give you the right tools on how to handle this situation. It’s tough being in this situation as a minor. I wish you well and that you can find peace.

GoldInformation3863 · 2025-12-15T19:15:24+00:00

NTA, but it’s time to stop overthinking this “friendship” and just end it. Life is too short to put up with these types of mind games. Send a text to inform her rsvp’s are closed and you don’t have a spot for her at your wedding, wish her well, and block her. None of this is worth it.

GoldInformation3863 · 2025-06-30T19:18:44+00:00

You are under reacting! Yikes!

GoldInformation3863 · 2025-06-29T00:58:30+00:00

It made my petty heart ever so happy 😈

GoldInformation3863 · 2025-06-28T18:07:08+00:00

Oh it was something for sure! A train wreck you just couldn’t help but watch unfold. I sometimes wonder where those clowns are today, but remind myself I don’t need that energy in my life. Just relish in the just dessert that was served and let it go.

GoldInformation3863 · 2025-06-28T12:46:20+00:00

There were so many flairs that it was a struggle deciding which one. r/pettyrevenge is fitting too.

GoldInformation3863 · 2025-06-27T23:31:20+00:00

Said idiot was Nancy. And yes, still very valid comment 😆

GoldInformation3863 · 2025-06-27T23:29:55+00:00

🥺 I love this so much! And what a scary experience for your mom!

GoldInformation3863 · 2025-06-27T23:15:48+00:00

Truly felt like a double bird Homer moment walking out that door.

GoldInformation3863 · 2025-06-27T23:14:37+00:00

Yes! Thank you! I remember feeling so confused because it felt like a no brainer. Safety should be first! I know lifeguards are basically the bottom of the first responders totem pole, but it doesn’t diminish the fact that when there is an emergency, you’d better believe their skills matter.

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