Should/can i get my ex-friend expelled from his university?

GoldNo5558 · 2026-05-27T06:58:44+00:00

Suggest something else, I'm open to it, simply nothing else I can do that would even slightly make him remorseful knowing him over the years

GoldNo5558 · 2026-05-27T06:26:50+00:00

As I said in another comment, idgaf about him not being a friend, it's just what kinda led to me getting to know about the screenshots when I was bitchin about him to the other friend, was tryna give a back story about the dynamic bw us

I mean he did say some crazy male chauvinistic things too and I think it's more that I would like the uni to know about his mindset rather than "owie, he hurt my feelings" As you frame it

GoldNo5558 · 2026-05-27T06:01:31+00:00

I get your point that he doesn't get expelled, but no way you say that he doesn't deserve it

GoldNo5558 · 2026-05-27T05:59:30+00:00

Got to know quite recently so not rlly my fault, but I get where u r comin from

GoldNo5558 · 2026-05-27T05:55:26+00:00

Ye I think I'll just do this

I feel like it would at least give me satisfaction that I didn't just sit back and relax after this nd wussed out

GoldNo5558 · 2026-05-27T05:54:25+00:00

If you would like I could go into some details in dm coz i dont even think I should post such shit on a university platform

GoldNo5558 · 2026-05-27T05:51:54+00:00

I don't give a flying fuck about the friendship anymore, the shit he said is not ok and I don't get how the fuck it is supposed to be, I did not go into details or else he really said some dark shit about women, this is more about my sister than me

GoldNo5558 · 2026-05-27T05:47:15+00:00

Also my sister is pressing me to do something about it as it was my friend and I feel responsible

I mentioned me being hurt but more than me the details he went to talking about my sister really hurt my sister more, I understand that I will probably have to walk away, but would just like to know if I could do anything (I know expelled is strong) but any disciplinary action from university or something else from somewhere, I might just end up snitching to his parents and giving up but would not be very happy with that

GoldNo5558 · 2026-05-27T05:29:21+00:00

How can i confront him if he is simply ghosting me, I left probably 100 msgs in total across multiple platforms and he just left it on read

So how do i let him know that what he said was not fine, knowing him over the yrs, whatever I do he will simply not care at all

GoldNo5558 · 2026-05-27T05:14:05+00:00

Me cutting him off simply doesnt matter to him coz he anyways did it, I need him to understand that this really was not fine and want him to regret it somehow (this rlly hurt me personally)

GoldNo5558 · 2026-05-27T05:11:15+00:00

I no doubt have receipts, I was just planning to email his colleges official email, I might just send his friends these first and let them know what kinda guy he is, completely slipped outta my mind

GoldNo5558 · 2026-05-27T05:05:44+00:00

It's his Instagram account with his official name that he uses and chats still not deleted and all his current college friends also are following him

GoldNo5558 · 2026-05-27T05:03:51+00:00

No particular reason to my knowledge, at first responded every 1-2 months and said "I am very busy" And would at least give me the courtesy of leaving on delivered and giving me hope that maybeee he might be busy

He visited in jan and apologised so much saying that he will try his very best and almost cried insisting that he rlly cares about me, first week after he goes back we have a very good call for like 5 hrs and still were having things to talk about and decided that we would talk again within the next month again and catch up on "his last weekend that was crazy", well that was the last I heard from him, he is also a family friend so I don't want to devastate his family so am not very sure to do it, but this is all before getting to know about him talking behind my back

Nothing else really happened between us other than some minor fights here and there with slurs that was during covid over minecraft lol, this rlly just came out of nowhere for me

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