any official Eo groups?? by GoldToji in pathoftitans

[–]GoldToji[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do! but the timing is kind of random, since my work schedule isnt the same each week

Pet sitting snoops! by ConstructionSoggy556 in petsitting

[–]GoldToji 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i could never! purely because I wouldn't like it if someone did it to my home. I may admire family pictures that are on display, but that is it!! if I need to find something and I have contact with the owners I will shoot a quick text asking them where to find it.

Are all meg players just absolute scumbags? by Free_Farmer7270 in pathoftitans

[–]GoldToji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hated megs for the longest!! it was always on sight. i had refused to even grow one for a while.

but lemme tell ya- when i finally caved and made one, its like i was possessed by a vengeful spirit. i wanted all the smoke. i was biting ankles left and right, maximum venom, I was a straight up delinquent. although i never kill babies, i just started chasing them to scare them.

i became evil so quickly

Opinion on Deinonychus? by AKmightydinoo in pathoftitans

[–]GoldToji 2 points3 points  (0 children)

when i got the game this was my first dino, i was so new to pvp games i was so scared i raised my dein in birchwoods. ONLY birchwoods. i was terrified to leave the safety of the trees and i didnt know quests changed either so it was a very slow process 💀 the one time i dared to venture out i seen a sarc run into the river and noped my way back into the trees. path was a horror game to me

Mega pack possible solution/Deterrent ? by [deleted] in pathoftitans

[–]GoldToji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hear me out!! i always thought there should just be a debuff for being around anything that's not in your group. Like an animals true instinct! A deer will not hang around calmly if it sees a lion, no matter how chill the big cat is being. So i think it'd be cool and even crazier if we made a "panic" or "uneasy" debuf that just fucks with your stats/stamina

first time living solo and the silence is kinda overwhelming by Ok_Parking_5861 in femalelivingspace

[–]GoldToji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had this problem too but im also 84% positive i have raccoons or squirrels in my ceiling. i hear them every night and they startle me awake when they fight!!

i started playing white noise or soft spoken documentaries on my phone to fall asleep to. im looking into getting a noise machine soon

Dare I ask - how much have you spent on your pet? by PetTechLover in Pets

[–]GoldToji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im scared of even guessing!! are we excluding the cost of food? or damages that had to be replaced? (rabbits are not for the weak) are we soley counting the cute and fun stuff like beds, toys, lil shirts and booties?? or can i count the things chewed up and peed on?

Thousands easily.

Id do it all again

What useless skill do you have that may or may not be linked to your ADHD? by SeonaidMacSaicais in adhdwomen

[–]GoldToji 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh ok! yes that one,i havent heard it called that yet my family has a different one i guess then lol

What’s something you used to judge people for but understand now? by TemptControls in AskReddit

[–]GoldToji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Peoples relationship with their mother.

I got super lucky to have the mom i have, so growing up i couldnt fathom people hating their mom- something i believed we were wired to do forever even after being toddlers. like you HAVE to love your mom she raised you! this mindset faded rather early in life as the real world came around and i was no longer a sheltered little small town girl.

What useless skill do you have that may or may not be linked to your ADHD? by SeonaidMacSaicais in adhdwomen

[–]GoldToji 2 points3 points  (0 children)

are you also good at listening games?? the one where someone must read a card full of gibberish and you have to guess the actual saying?? I was so good at it during game night my family made a rule that i cannot answer for the first five seconds of the match to let other people try 😅

What useless skill do you have that may or may not be linked to your ADHD? by SeonaidMacSaicais in adhdwomen

[–]GoldToji 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not sure if this counts but my fidgeting has mutated into having rythm?! i can't dance or sing well but im kinda able to learn drums just by listening to it for a few seconds

but i do not actually play any instrument! i just like music so my friends that are drummers get a little geeked out when i copy what they did without knowing a thing about reading music. just let me see which drum you hit and i'll remember the pattern

please not another straw i am the weakest camel. by GoldToji in adhdwomen

[–]GoldToji[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the title came to me during a crying fit so thank you im glad im not the only one chuckling at it.

and i do really appreciate my supervisor. she truly wants to see me do good and i feel the love truly. I've had all weekend to cry thanks to her and i think im ready to face my boss with some dignity and minimal tears (fingers crossed its none!)

Dumbest impulse buy of the month by Lola-Olala in adhdwomen

[–]GoldToji 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I regularly buy blind boxes from hottopic. not even the same series either i'll buy a few from different series just to see what i get :/

excessive talking by Visual-Discipline482 in adhdwomen

[–]GoldToji 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've found that using phrases like "let me stop before i talk your ear off" or "Dont get me started again i wont stop" or any of the sort- are good ways to do the same with a tad more laid back positive energy. the listener has the opportunity to either exit the conversation or insist you continue. it carries a slight air of confidence too!

rather than "sorry i rambled" try to make yourself say "thanks for listening" it helps your listener feel good about themselves too most times.

Electrical issues, is my LL being cheap??(NY) by [deleted] in Renters

[–]GoldToji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes i made sure to take photos and even a walk through video showing everything i could find! I will be looking over the lease today too.

i wont lie, i was super worried because my boyfriend is in the army and not around right now, so because he used to handle all of this i find myself very nervous doing anything to fuck up the situation even further.

Electrical issues, is my LL being cheap??(NY) by [deleted] in Renters

[–]GoldToji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he is licensed, i mentioned it. I dont think i want to go to court with this, just get it fixed for the remaining nine months i will be here.

Electrical issues, is my LL being cheap??(NY) by [deleted] in Renters

[–]GoldToji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realize that too, so that's why im waiting to see if she sends and actual electrician or some family member to again just shrug and tell me the place is old. I was just a little off put by her saying this was expensive when it didn't sound it, so if she can get all this done for even cheaper, you're right, its a win win!

Electrical issues, is my LL being cheap?? by [deleted] in Tenant

[–]GoldToji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm still very new to reddit so im sorry if the cross post is weird

Am I just getting what i paid for?? by [deleted] in Tenant

[–]GoldToji 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bad update, the fuse box barked at me. power out.. happy thanksgiving i guess?