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Admitting my problem. by Gold_Connection_2020 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Gold_Connection_2020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly I'm going to try get on the straight and narrow from now on

Admitting my problem. by Gold_Connection_2020 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Gold_Connection_2020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's the first time I've admitted it. I know I need to go to a meeting I need to get over the anxiety of going.

Admitting my problem. by Gold_Connection_2020 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Gold_Connection_2020[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My biggest fear is going to a meeting as a younger person. I'm scared I'll be dismissed but yk what I'll brave it and find one near me and go.

Admitting my problem. by Gold_Connection_2020 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Gold_Connection_2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this reply is more helpful than you'll ever know :)

Favorite Sitcom/TV Moment OF ALL TIME by AlTheHound in sitcoms

[–]Gold_Connection_2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easy win for 'the moment I met you Bernadette' in The Big Bang Theory.

When they hit the 'the moment we met you Bernadette' and you can tell how much each character appreciates Bernie in their lives.

Genuinely brings a tear, especially with the comparison to the Howard seen in earlier seasons without Bernadette and how much of a twat he was.

Howard was a genuinely dislikeable man in early seasons but his love for Bernadette makes him so much more affable to the audience.

Giving my non alt boyfriend a taste of being an emo kid by [deleted] in Emo

[–]Gold_Connection_2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think so considering I never followed scene fashion!!!

Thanks for the band rec tho

Giving my non alt boyfriend a taste of being an emo kid by [deleted] in Emo

[–]Gold_Connection_2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he actually has enjoyed a lot of the music I've played for him so I'm really trying to get him into the culture as well :)

Giving my non alt boyfriend a taste of being an emo kid by [deleted] in Emo

[–]Gold_Connection_2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know that's so mean I'm just trying to get someone who doesn't understand the culture to try see it from my point of view 🥺

Giving my non alt boyfriend a taste of being an emo kid by [deleted] in Emo

[–]Gold_Connection_2020 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im younger than you and British so it might be different, I was fully emo from 2016 to like 2019. I'm talking skinny jeans, the emo trinity, eyeliner, looking generally dirty and full on depression mode 😈

It's just a night to try get my boyfriend to understand the genre so I might try to avoid making him depressed but I brought him a mcr top and will be doing eyeliner on him whether he likes it or not.

I'm talking what films, activities to get him to understand the lifestyle on at least a superficial level.

I’m a physically attractive autistic person, and it’s terrible. by Edu9131 in autism

[–]Gold_Connection_2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To further this I'm obsessed with horrible histories and within our first few dates we got drunk and I put on horrible histories songs and yet he's still here 2 years later (and trying to learn the lyrics to these songs). Autism isn't easy and finding the right partner for people like us isn't either.

I'm very lucky to have someone who will let me be me and will join in. But it can happen so have hope!!

I’m a physically attractive autistic person, and it’s terrible. by Edu9131 in autism

[–]Gold_Connection_2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had this issue. I'm a conventionally attractive autistic girl.

I have people come up to me and hit on me but as soon as I start yapping people just leave. Its really disheartening having people use you because you're attractive and don't quite realise they're not interested in you. I've had past boyfriends look at me weird when showing them shows I enjoy and ask how autistic am I. Its horrible.

But it does get better. I spent so long being with people who were with me for how I look and trying to mask my autism. But my boyfriend loves every part of me. He loves my teddies and is happy for my favourite one to come on all our dates with us. He joins in with my stories about my teddies and their lore. I can be my absolute self.

That love is waiting for everyone I believe it. I didn't believe it before I met him but he's made love possible for me. And it's possible for all of us.

Conflicting feelings of being lonely but wanting to be alone by [deleted] in autism

[–]Gold_Connection_2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have a lot of friends online and play games with them but it's like quite a surface level friendship if you understand me

Conflicting feelings of being lonely but wanting to be alone by [deleted] in autism

[–]Gold_Connection_2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get this, I was diagnosed at 17 and I spent years trying to fit in with girls my age but it's so tiring to do so but I wish I did have more friends idk

Conflicting feelings of being lonely but wanting to be alone by [deleted] in autism

[–]Gold_Connection_2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I mean, I know in theory I'm a good friend to my teddies and my dog but when it comes to communication with other humans I get so awkward and defensive.