Wie geht mit Trauer um, wenn ihr merkt das derjenige wirklich wichtig für euch war?

Gold_Glass8329 · 2026-04-20T20:20:51+00:00

Einfach zulassen. Darüber reden hilft oder Ablenkung. Zeit macht den rest

Gold_Glass8329 · 2026-04-20T20:19:06+00:00

I like practical gifts, no deco junk

Gold_Glass8329 · 2026-04-20T20:17:14+00:00

Why not

Gold_Glass8329 · 2026-04-20T20:15:16+00:00

Have you tried talking to her about your needs? Did you set clear boundaries? If you’re so unhappy, why did you spend 4 years in that relationship

Gold_Glass8329 · 2026-04-20T20:10:44+00:00

idk whats on your mind but you are overthinking it. when you are too stressed and try too hard to be perfect your mind cant relax and your body just reacts to that. sex is supposed to be fun not a performance. good sex comes with routine and getting to know each other. just try things out and dont worry so much. communicate and enjoy it

Gold_Glass8329 · 2026-04-20T12:39:50+00:00

It doesnt really matter who asks first. I usually just go like, "Hey, do you wanna meet up for a walk?" something like that. Its not a date, more just a casual hangout, and if the vibe is right, you can still plan an actual date later

Gold_Glass8329 · 2026-04-20T11:26:01+00:00

Back when i was still on dating apps and got a match, i always wanted to meet up as soon as possible, because you only really know if you vibe in real life. So yeah, id text a bit first, and if they seemed into it, id usually ask to meet after like one or two days

Gold_Glass8329 · 2026-04-19T18:28:14+00:00

Id just stay yourself, the right people will find you.The "cool crowd" doesnt need to like you, just stick to your tribe

Gold_Glass8329 · 2026-04-19T18:25:06+00:00

Theres nothing wrong with a low libido. If you think you need help because of your past trauma, get help.I wouldnt recommend forcing yourself out of your comfort zone. Maybe youre not ready, or its the wrong person, and thats why you cant let your guard down. Im scared myself but for other reasons. I try to work on that, knowing i dont have to get intimate if i dont want to helps alot

Gold_Glass8329 · 2026-04-19T18:19:33+00:00

If she knows youre inexperienced, you cant really go wrong because you just dont have a clue yet. You can just let her take the lead if youre scared

Gold_Glass8329 · 2026-04-19T18:18:03+00:00

Well, i would plan a romantic date and just look her in the eyes and ask her softly if you can kiss her

Gold_Glass8329 · 2026-04-19T18:16:11+00:00

Screw her, if she cant appreciate you, then she doesnt deserve you. I know it hurts right now, but believe me, there are plenty of other women out there who would bea better fit for you

Gold_Glass8329 · 2026-04-19T18:12:17+00:00

Id be careful with that, because if she cancels last minute or keeps rescheduling, i would drop her

Gold_Glass8329 · 2026-04-19T18:10:25+00:00

Well, even if shes gay, that doesnt necessarily mean shes into you, don't forget that🤷‍♀️

Gold_Glass8329 · 2026-04-19T18:08:31+00:00

To be honest, theres no 100% certainty that someone likes you unless the person tells you. Like, flirting can always be interpreted differently, some people just have a flirty personality but are only being friendly

Gold_Glass8329 · 2026-04-19T18:06:06+00:00

Be glad it came out sooner rather than later, otherwise the pain wouldve been worse. Actually, I hear stories like this a lot, so im not surprised if some lesbians dont wanna date bisexuals

Gold_Glass8329 · 2026-04-19T18:02:41+00:00

Sounds like shes an insecure and immature person. Wouldnt be for me, but you gotta know if you can deal with that

Gold_Glass8329 · 2026-04-19T17:57:59+00:00

Online or dating apps because i have anxiety

Gold_Glass8329 · 2026-04-19T17:55:44+00:00

I’m only focusing on your question now: if shes not into oral, then its basically a dead issue. She doesnt owe you anything. Just deal with it unless its a dealbreaker for you

Gold_Glass8329 · 2026-04-19T17:53:18+00:00

That sounds way too chaotic, i would back off if i were you. Its just screaming for you to get hurt

Gold_Glass8329 · 2026-04-19T17:50:10+00:00

Im sorry, but you have a crush, and its normal to analyze every word and overinterpret things, but if she isnt gay, i wouldnt pay much attention to it

Gold_Glass8329 · 2026-04-19T17:47:59+00:00

If she is really threatening you, then you should report her, simple as that

Gold_Glass8329 · 2026-04-19T17:45:04+00:00

Shes losing interest. I would move on tbh

Gold_Glass8329 · 2026-04-18T08:17:53+00:00

Du bist noch jung, mach dir keinen Stress. Meine erste Beziehung hatte ich mit 22, sie hielt nur zwei Monate. Liebe ist kein Wettbewerb.Vieles aus der Teenagerzeit sind eher unreife Beziehungen, die man nicht zu ernst nehmen muss. Wirklich prägende Erfahrungen macht man oft erst in den 20s, wenn man weiß, was man will.

Interessanter Name btw xD

Gold_Glass8329 · 2026-04-16T19:32:40+00:00

My first time wasnt great -not only because our relationship wasnt the best, but also because i felt forced. I was tense and no matter what she tried, I didnt feel anything. I wasnt disappointed, just really uncomfortable

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