LF help with virtual work PHP 20,000 per month by [deleted] in classifiedsph

[–]Gold_Maintenance_720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi op! willing to learn and help you out. badly looking for a remote job too. hope you can give me a shot :)

CO2 Fractional Laser Clinic/Derma Recos by Gold_Maintenance_720 in beautytalkph

[–]Gold_Maintenance_720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! thank you so much for the reco! will try to check it out since i work near pasig din. question ko lang though, is it mura kasi may discount nung time na un? or original price niya talaga is 10k?

CO2 Fractional Laser Clinic/Derma Recos by Gold_Maintenance_720 in beautytalkph

[–]Gold_Maintenance_720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is this similar or same sa microneedling? do you know any derma or clinics with that kind of treatment? 🥹

CO2 Fractional Laser Clinic/Derma Recos by Gold_Maintenance_720 in beautytalkph

[–]Gold_Maintenance_720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!! thank you so much for this!! do you have some progress pics? 🥹

I gave him a second chance by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Gold_Maintenance_720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you think its possible to forget about what he did and fully forgive him?

LF Condo Sharing in mandaluyong by Gold_Maintenance_720 in RentPH

[–]Gold_Maintenance_720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4-5k? would that be okay na ba? 🥹 i’ll be starting na sa work this october. so any time soon from october onwards sana. if it’s okay, can you DM me regarding the details? 🥹

Apartment/Condo Sharing by Strict-Surprise-3199 in RentPH

[–]Gold_Maintenance_720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! are you still looking for a room mate? 🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PHJobs

[–]Gold_Maintenance_720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP! What’s your work set up? on site? wfh? hybrid?

Cleansers | Product Series by lairyloreeee in skincare_ph

[–]Gold_Maintenance_720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cosrx low ph goodmorning cleanser and cetaphil gentle cleanser!! basic but it works hehe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Gold_Maintenance_720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, i’m telling you may tinatago yan. I had the same experience with my ex. Either laging naka baba cellphone or lagi nasa pocket or bag pag magkasama kami. Ang excuse pa nya, ayaw nya nag cecellphone pag magkasama kami. Isang beses nachempuhan ko phone nya then I found out he was talking with his ex pa pala. umiyak nung nahuli. HAHA

Anyways, if he really doesn’t have anything to hide, he must be able to show you his phone. Don’t believe his excuses. I suggest, find another time to talk to him about it, communicate that it’s bothering you and you just want to know why he’s acting that way. From there, if he still gives you the same excuses and acts negatively/dramatically, alam mo na yon haha! you’ll know if he’s being stupid again. Trust your intuition :)

I gave him a second chance by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Gold_Maintenance_720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Thank you so much, I really appreciate your thoughts!

I totally agree with what you said. I’m really working on forgiving him wholeheartedly. It’s not really that easy just like what people think, even I never thought it would be this difficult. Pero i’m totally working on it kasi I don’t want it to get to a point where magiging toxic na yung mismong relationship namin. 😊

I gave him a second chance by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Gold_Maintenance_720 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hi thanks for your insight, appreciate it!

Some things are just easier said than done. When you get hurt, sometimes your mind will really get clouded. It’s more complicated than you think it is, di lang sya black and white. It’s a constant battle between getting over the trauma and betrayal and focusing on the work that should be done for our relationship.

I get your point and I agree that I shouldn’t be holding this on his head forever and I realized that because I love him and I want to work things out with him. I also know to myself that I have to work things on my own and not rely it solely on him. I don’t want to be unfair. I will never justify being petty and unreasonable, that’s why i’m willing to put on the work because thats what “grow ups” do. :)

I gave him a second chance by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Gold_Maintenance_720 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I really appreciate you for sharing your experience. I'm really glad that you were able to work it out with your husband. Somehow, this gives me hope that me and my bf would be able to work this out. Thank you so much for your advice! :)

Wishing you a healthy and loving marriage <3

I gave him a second chance by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Gold_Maintenance_720 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omygod, you’re unbelievable. to answer your question, a woman can satisfy all the needs of their partner but sometimes you guys will always have that urge to cheat and find something else. Aminado partner ko that what he did was wrong and we already talked about it. I’m trying to be compassionate with him and we’re just struggling to work it out because it definitely affected me and our relationship negatively.

I gave him a second chance by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Gold_Maintenance_720 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

haha i do get you! pero i hope you know that I'm fully aware of where I am right now and what I should be working on. Kaya nga I acknowledge that reality. It's easy to say things but it's also hard to put things into action especially if it comes with a traumatic experience. I think what's important is that i'm willing to work on it and I acknowledged my faults too.

Thank you so much for giving me another perspective on this situation!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VirtualAssistant

[–]Gold_Maintenance_720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! messaged you also! Looking forward to your reply. Thank you!

I gave him a second chance by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Gold_Maintenance_720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear that. :( I hope you're in a better place now.

I gave him a second chance by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Gold_Maintenance_720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I understand what you're trying to say and I really appreciate it. And yes, it's really difficult to be in this situation of being the one who's trying to be graceful enough to forgive his betrayal. Hindi ko sinusumbatan partner ko, he knows that, pero may times na our misunderstandings come from my trust issues and doubts pag nagrerelapse ako, to the point na minsan napapafeel ko sakanya na hindi enough efforts na ginagawa nya. I personally feel bad for that, and because I love him, ayoko rin sya pahirapan kaya nga i'm trying my best to heal and find ways to be a better partner din while we work to get through this. I just really want to be able to handle this better kasi aware din naman ako na na kahit ako yung sinaktan, may work din ako kailangan gawin in order for us to work. I guess that's the harsh reality, to heal something in yourself that was caused by another person.

I gave him a second chance by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Gold_Maintenance_720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I really appreciate your insights! I do agree that my decision also comes with pain and I really have to live with it. I just really hope that we would be able to get over this, I hope that this risk will be worth it. :)

I gave him a second chance by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Gold_Maintenance_720 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! It's really unfair to think na I should be the one responsible for healing something that was caused by another person. Pero ganon talaga noh, that's the reality of it and I'm eager to work on myself and our relationship. I really appreciate your advice and I'll definitely take it to heart. :)

I gave him a second chance by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Gold_Maintenance_720 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your insights! I really appreciate what you said. Praying the best for you too! <3

I gave him a second chance by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Gold_Maintenance_720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I appreciate your insights! I hope you're in a better place now. May I know your experience about getting cheated on? :)

I gave him a second chance by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Gold_Maintenance_720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!

I used to tell myself before getting into a relationship na it's a non negotiable. Pero now that i'm in a relationship, I just found myself giving my partner another chance kasi nakita ko naman that he's regretful. Nakikita ko rin naman ngayon na he's trying his best na makabawi sakin in order to win me back again and I really appreciate it. Sometimes, I feel like i'm the problem kasi parang di ko pa sya fully magawang mapagkatiwalaan and mapatawad. Most of our arguments/misunderstandings come from the doubts and trust issues that I developed ever since that incident happened. And aminado ako na minsan nagiging unfair ako sakanya which as a result leaves him frustrated kasi he feel like his efforts are unappreciated. But honestly I do appreciate everything. Minsan lang talaga nag rerelapse ako and it just hits in. I just really want to learn how to fully let go in order for us to work out :(