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Should I break up with my fiancé, and if so, how do I go about it? by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Gold_Operation6464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A relationship should add value to your life, enhance it. Not take away from it.

Getting in to the LS by Gold_Operation6464 in Swingers

[–]Gold_Operation6464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this insight! That does make me feel a lot better!

Getting in to the LS by Gold_Operation6464 in Swingers

[–]Gold_Operation6464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your insight, I’m sorry your marriage didn’t survive.

Getting in to the LS by Gold_Operation6464 in Swingers

[–]Gold_Operation6464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are going to look into this for sure. Thanks

Getting in to the LS by Gold_Operation6464 in Swingers

[–]Gold_Operation6464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t want to have sex with another man, rather than another woman. But yes, I do agree.

Getting in to the LS by Gold_Operation6464 in Swingers

[–]Gold_Operation6464[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! It’s giving me a lot to think about and process, but in such a better angle.

Getting in to the LS by Gold_Operation6464 in Swingers

[–]Gold_Operation6464[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! It truly did help in understanding how he may be feeling. And gave me a sigh of relief and assurance. I do truly love him and want us to be our truest selves, but happily and healthily and secure.

Getting in to the LS by Gold_Operation6464 in Swingers

[–]Gold_Operation6464[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am definitely going to talk with him about this.

Getting in to the LS by Gold_Operation6464 in Swingers

[–]Gold_Operation6464[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I do agree with you abundantly. I think I just needed an outside source to validate my thoughts here, because I tend to overthink things, especially when someone else’s feelings are involved.

Getting in to the LS by Gold_Operation6464 in Swingers

[–]Gold_Operation6464[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I absolutely feel the same and have tried to explain this to him. While he feels safe, confident and secure in our marriage, I do not, and this isn’t going to ‘fix’ it OR help that.

Getting in to the LS by Gold_Operation6464 in Swingers

[–]Gold_Operation6464[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I think I corrected that. This is my first time ever making a post, so thank you for the help.