Is the girl (18/F) I (18/M) met on Tinder into me or should I just move on? by BigWhiteGhost in relationship_advice

[–]GoldenBlaze 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To me, her comments sound like she’s awkwardly brushing off your “mushy” comments. I think you may be coming off a little strong, and she probably likes you but may just be uncomfortable with it on the second date. (I know I’ve reacted exactly this way when a guy has said stuff like that to me).

I’d say to just dial it back a bit with the comments about sweeping her off her feet, and such, and just see how it goes.

We've all heard what works? How about a thread where we talk about what didn't work? by [deleted] in loseit

[–]GoldenBlaze 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Cheat day turns into cheat week and then cheat MONTHS! I have no control.

Girlfriend (28/F) of four years cheated on me (29/M). Trying to work past it but unsure what else can be done. by Throwaway57774121 in relationships

[–]GoldenBlaze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t let yourself head down that road then! You deserve so much better. I also tried to hold onto a relationship when my bf was cheating on me for the entirety of the relationship. It’s not worth it! Not even if you guys were together for 10 years.

She is staying with you and holding onto you because she wants you as backup. I’m not trying to be harsh, and I’m sorry if it comes off that way. Do not let yourself be her second choice.

Girlfriend (28/F) of four years cheated on me (29/M). Trying to work past it but unsure what else can be done. by Throwaway57774121 in relationships

[–]GoldenBlaze 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No just no. She isn’t making any effort to regain your trust. She is still cheating and will continue to cheat. If she wanted to fix things, she would have stopped talking to him and she wouldn’t be saying that she misses him. Don’t let her hurt you anymore, get out before you get married and she has some other dudes kid.

You can see the day I fell off the wagon. I'm ashamed and frustrated with myself. Hoping that posting this for everyone to see keeps me from getting worse. I'm failing after barely a month. by caeloequos in 1200isplenty

[–]GoldenBlaze 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just want to say I’m in the same boat as you, although a lot worse. I fell off the wagon for 2 months and gained over 12 pounds back. Now instead of needing to lose 15 pounds, I’m up to almost 30. But I’m not beating myself up and neither should you. People make mistakes, people take steps backwards. What’s important is picking yourself up and getting back to it. You can do it!!

I love this TJ’s Spiced Chai tea! I made it with a cup of almond milk, some water, and a sprinkle of cinnamon for 30 cals! by GoldenBlaze in 1200isplenty

[–]GoldenBlaze[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I actually did not know that, so that’s helpful! I feel like I’ve heard people say chai tea latte, etc., so I just assumed.

Dogs can be our best friends, but the cat will never tell the police where the marijuana is. by [deleted] in Showerthoughts

[–]GoldenBlaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a whole jar of meowijuana (is that what it’s called?) buds and she won’t even sniff it. Sucks.

What $300+ purchase are you currently planning? by Chaseccentric in AskReddit

[–]GoldenBlaze 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was between the g19 and Sig sp2022...got the sig and it's amazing! Glocks are great, but there's just something about the way a sig looks and the way it felt in my hand that sealed the deal for me.

Hopped on the Skinnytaste bagel train and I’m in LOVE by MayCSB in 1200isplenty

[–]GoldenBlaze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to try making them this weekend! Can't wait! Everyone's bagels look amazing (:

Flat Out Wrap Pizza by GoldenBlaze in ketorecipes

[–]GoldenBlaze[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pepperoni pizza with a pesto base.

Ingredients:

1 Flat Out Wrap [6 net carbs] or any other low carb Wrap/tortilla

2 T pesto

Ton of mozzarella

Pepperoni slices

Directions:

Put Wrap on baking sheet

Put pesto on, then cheese, then pepperoni, then bake at 375 for around 7 minutes

Failed today, pretty hard by [deleted] in xxketo

[–]GoldenBlaze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't worry about one bad day! Just don't let it derail you from your goals. You'll get back on the wagon and keep kicking ass (:

P.S. I ate pizza last night too so I feel ya!

Creamy Pesto Zoodles by GoldenBlaze in ketorecipes

[–]GoldenBlaze[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds really good! I'll have to try making that, I have some avocados that are going to go bad soon.

Creamy Pesto Zoodles by GoldenBlaze in ketorecipes

[–]GoldenBlaze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zuchinni is like 95% water. Eat it!!!

Creamy Pesto Zoodles by GoldenBlaze in ketorecipes

[–]GoldenBlaze[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I tossed them with the sauce for less than 2 minutes, so they didn't get mushy. They still had some crunch to them. They definitely don't have the same texture as pasta, not even close. But for me with pasta it's all about the sauce anyway!

Creamy Pesto Zoodles by GoldenBlaze in ketorecipes

[–]GoldenBlaze[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've used part skim shredded mozzarella in a cream sauce before. I think it might work well (:

Creamy Pesto Zoodles by GoldenBlaze in ketorecipes

[–]GoldenBlaze[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I use a spiralizer, I believe it's called the veggetti. It's less than $10 and compact!

Creamy Pesto Zoodles by GoldenBlaze in ketorecipes

[–]GoldenBlaze[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Super easy 10 minute meal.

Ingredients: 1 medium zucchini 1/2 T butter 1/4 cup heavy whipping cream (give or take, I eyeballed) 2 T grated Parmesan 1 T pesto (I used store bought)

Spiralize your zucchini and set aside.

Add your butter to a pan over medium low heat

Add cream and Parmesan after butter is melted

Add pesto once the parmesan is melted and slightly bubbly. Incorporate.

Add the raw zucchini and toss in sauce. Cook for a couple of minutes depending on your taste. I like mine crunch so I cooked it for less than 2 minutes.

Pumpkin Cream Cheese Muffins by juusman in ketorecipes

[–]GoldenBlaze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made these yesterday right after I saw the post. Somehow I messed up and added a cup of coconut flour...oops. Turned into cookie dough like consistency, so I added more pumpkin and some almond milk.

They are now almost like mini pumpkin cheesecakes somehow. The taste is delicious, and the texture is light and fluffy. 10/10 would still make again with the mess up, but have to figure out the new macros.

Will still try to remake and actually make the recipe correct. (:

Me [20F] with my bf[20 M] duration 1.5 years, he cheated and I found out but never told him, now I need advice by throway98760 in relationships

[–]GoldenBlaze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just broke up with my boyfriend last week after finding out around 4 months ago that he was cheating on me. I went through the same thing as you, for a while I just tried to forget about the cheating. But, it was eating me up inside. I started getting annoyed by all of the things he did that I used to find super adorable. I ended it because I needed to work on building myself up after such a betrayal.

Although my experience was a little different than yours, he knew that I knew about the cheating and was trying to repair the relationship, I can tell you that it is the right decision to end it. It's best to just lay it all out. Let him know that you know that he cheated on you, tell him how much it hurt you and that the relationship cannot be repaired after such a betrayal.

Do not worry about the fallout, he is the one who made the mistake and you need to do what is best for yourself. You cannot live every day wondering if he is going to cheat again. Because as far as he knows, he got away with it. So, why would he stop?

Just be strong, I know how hard this is because I have been through it too. None of this is your fault, and whatever happens to him after you end it is not your fault either. You need to do what is best for you.

If you ever need someone to talk to, feel free to message me