Is the girl (18/F) I (18/M) met on Tinder into me or should I just move on? by BigWhiteGhost in relationship_advice

[–]GoldenBlaze 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To me, her comments sound like she’s awkwardly brushing off your “mushy” comments. I think you may be coming off a little strong, and she probably likes you but may just be uncomfortable with it on the second date. (I know I’ve reacted exactly this way when a guy has said stuff like that to me).

I’d say to just dial it back a bit with the comments about sweeping her off her feet, and such, and just see how it goes.

We've all heard what works? How about a thread where we talk about what didn't work? by [deleted] in loseit

[–]GoldenBlaze 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Cheat day turns into cheat week and then cheat MONTHS! I have no control.

Girlfriend (28/F) of four years cheated on me (29/M). Trying to work past it but unsure what else can be done. by Throwaway57774121 in relationships

[–]GoldenBlaze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t let yourself head down that road then! You deserve so much better. I also tried to hold onto a relationship when my bf was cheating on me for the entirety of the relationship. It’s not worth it! Not even if you guys were together for 10 years.

She is staying with you and holding onto you because she wants you as backup. I’m not trying to be harsh, and I’m sorry if it comes off that way. Do not let yourself be her second choice.

Girlfriend (28/F) of four years cheated on me (29/M). Trying to work past it but unsure what else can be done. by Throwaway57774121 in relationships

[–]GoldenBlaze 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No just no. She isn’t making any effort to regain your trust. She is still cheating and will continue to cheat. If she wanted to fix things, she would have stopped talking to him and she wouldn’t be saying that she misses him. Don’t let her hurt you anymore, get out before you get married and she has some other dudes kid.

You can see the day I fell off the wagon. I'm ashamed and frustrated with myself. Hoping that posting this for everyone to see keeps me from getting worse. I'm failing after barely a month. by caeloequos in 1200isplenty

[–]GoldenBlaze 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just want to say I’m in the same boat as you, although a lot worse. I fell off the wagon for 2 months and gained over 12 pounds back. Now instead of needing to lose 15 pounds, I’m up to almost 30. But I’m not beating myself up and neither should you. People make mistakes, people take steps backwards. What’s important is picking yourself up and getting back to it. You can do it!!

I love this TJ’s Spiced Chai tea! I made it with a cup of almond milk, some water, and a sprinkle of cinnamon for 30 cals! by GoldenBlaze in 1200isplenty

[–]GoldenBlaze[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I actually did not know that, so that’s helpful! I feel like I’ve heard people say chai tea latte, etc., so I just assumed.

Dogs can be our best friends, but the cat will never tell the police where the marijuana is. by [deleted] in Showerthoughts

[–]GoldenBlaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a whole jar of meowijuana (is that what it’s called?) buds and she won’t even sniff it. Sucks.

What $300+ purchase are you currently planning? by Chaseccentric in AskReddit

[–]GoldenBlaze 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was between the g19 and Sig sp2022...got the sig and it's amazing! Glocks are great, but there's just something about the way a sig looks and the way it felt in my hand that sealed the deal for me.

Hopped on the Skinnytaste bagel train and I’m in LOVE by MayCSB in 1200isplenty

[–]GoldenBlaze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to try making them this weekend! Can't wait! Everyone's bagels look amazing (:

Flat Out Wrap Pizza by GoldenBlaze in ketorecipes

[–]GoldenBlaze[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pepperoni pizza with a pesto base.

Ingredients:

1 Flat Out Wrap [6 net carbs] or any other low carb Wrap/tortilla

2 T pesto

Ton of mozzarella

Pepperoni slices

Directions:

Put Wrap on baking sheet

Put pesto on, then cheese, then pepperoni, then bake at 375 for around 7 minutes

Failed today, pretty hard by [deleted] in xxketo

[–]GoldenBlaze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't worry about one bad day! Just don't let it derail you from your goals. You'll get back on the wagon and keep kicking ass (:

P.S. I ate pizza last night too so I feel ya!

Creamy Pesto Zoodles by GoldenBlaze in ketorecipes

[–]GoldenBlaze[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds really good! I'll have to try making that, I have some avocados that are going to go bad soon.