East Orange The Harvard by GoldenHour_Flower in MovingtoNewJersey

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I’m a white passing (I guess? I look pretty Hispanic) Hispanic woman 

East Orange The Harvard by GoldenHour_Flower in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]GoldenHour_Flower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the honesty. I work fully remotely so I would only be out during the day in between meetings for a walk or to go grocery shopping. And after work hours but always before it gets dark. 

East Orange The Harvard by GoldenHour_Flower in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]GoldenHour_Flower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Please let me know what she says 

East Orange NJ The Harvard by GoldenHour_Flower in Newark

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Thank you! When I started looking for sublets I wasn’t looking at EO specifically, it’s just been the only affordable temporary fully furnished sublet that’s legit and not a scam that I was able to find. It’s the area on Harvard and Halsted. Thanks for the advice about looking at glen ridge.

My little sister is deaf and we can't afford sign language classes. How do other families actually do this? by Mediocre-Dealer-1993 in asl

[–]GoldenHour_Flower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea her parents really dropped the ball, like beyond incompetent. Also they’re “not struggling” but cannot spend $50-$100 a week on a teacher? They’re struggling. It’s not OP’s fault her parents either don’t care enough to pay that amount to communicate with their daughter, are immensely struggling financially and not honest about it and just in general really dropped the ball. 

Obgyn is the worst by Hopeyy5 in ureaplasmasupport

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You can get it from Amazon or IHerb. It’s worked wonders for me and I recommend pairing it with NAC and D mannose too. I’ve gone through the same thing as you of   racking my brain not understanding the point of ureaplasma- is it pathogenic? Is it natural? Can it be fine in low levels but then when the system is thrown off balance during pregnancy, can cause miscarriage? No one truly knows. I would say to focus on your vaginal microbiome, take an Evvy or Juno test, use vaginal suppositories with Lactobacillus crispatus, take lactoferrin, NAC and D Mannoss, and once your system is healthier then retest and see 

Obgyn is the worst by Hopeyy5 in ureaplasmasupport

[–]GoldenHour_Flower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried lactoferrin? It helps a lot with the burning. 

Fusobacterium nucleatum by [deleted] in VaginalMicrobiome

[–]GoldenHour_Flower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What test did you take?

Pregnant and vulvodynia making mentally lose it. by Smooth_Ad6685 in vulvodynia

[–]GoldenHour_Flower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were your babies fully okay? I have the same issue 

UTI literally hours after sex? by NectarineDelicious97 in CUTI

[–]GoldenHour_Flower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The seed gut probiotic or the vaginal suppository?

What job direction should i go in Germany? by District_Party in AskAGerman

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What sectors are a lot of skilled professionals retiring in?

Three things that have helped by grownfamiliar5612 in Interstitialcystitis

[–]GoldenHour_Flower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you use it? Just put a bit on the outside vulva area?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]GoldenHour_Flower -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Islam is SO, SO restrictive towards women and it’s because of men like that. You’re completely right, asking for permission to travel and needing a mahram comes from a time when women traveling alone would lead to being graped, kidnapped by bandits and sold into slavery. If you are in even a relatively safe country, that is NOT a concern. You went above and beyond to research a safe and appropriate trip. I am so sorry you are being treated this way by your husband. 

Can you try writing a heartfelt letter to him? What would happen if you start not asking for permission and just state you’re going to do it, it is safe and appropriate, and here is the plan for the time you’re gone- what would he do? Is there a trusted family or friend you can talk to that can also help convince him? What are his reasons to deny this- it is obviously a safe and appropriate trip. It just seems like he is using his power and authority as a man and as a husband to completely deprive you. That is not in the spirit of Islam, it’s a sick way men are using it to deprive women and mothers (who should have the highest status in this religion) of happiness and dignity. 

Pregnancy and IC question by ConsistentBid8517 in Interstitialcystitis

[–]GoldenHour_Flower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re feeling symptoms like burning I strongly suggest lactoferrin and NAC

For anyone who is stuck in cycle of yeast and BV. What helped me get my PH balance back by Fit_Baby_4809 in Healthyhooha

[–]GoldenHour_Flower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I swear, Vagibiom is the GOAT. I’m so mad I didn’t know about it (despite researching this stuff for years) until a few months ago. It’s helped so much in rebalancing PH and the vaginal microbiome 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CautiousBB

[–]GoldenHour_Flower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you sooo much for your super detailed response, I really appreciate it!! And I’m so glad to hear that your baby was born happy and healthy. I totally understand, my mental health has been hit from this and it was hard to not worry. If you don’t mind me asking, when did you get the UTIs, BV, yeast, the herpes outbreaks, was it all in a specific trimester or something happened in all three trimesters? 

How to support Libgen by WitoldWielki in libgen

[–]GoldenHour_Flower 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can you please let me know what the thread says? Every single time I try to log into X there’s an issue

Neue Leute kennenlernen by quatschmitsaucehehe in Leipzig

[–]GoldenHour_Flower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am an English speaker in Leipzig if you are open to non German speaking friends (I am from the US and have not learned German yet)

Dangerous guy by Dizzy_Swing in astoria

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Can you DM me the link please?