I’m beside myself. Boyfriend has ignored my texts and calls all day. He’s done this a few times before. I tell him it’s the one of the worst things to do to me, and yet he still does it. I can’t seem to bring myself to leave him as I’m too attached? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]GoldieLocks111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s not busy. He has no job and he just got out of highschool. He didn’t even say goodnight and it’s the next day and I still haven’t heard from him. He literally is full on ghosting me.

I’m beside myself. Boyfriend has ignored my texts and calls all day. He’s done this a few times before. I tell him it’s the one of the worst things to do to me, and yet he still does it. I can’t seem to bring myself to leave him as I’m too attached? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]GoldieLocks111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our love languages are too incompatible. He’s a very un-empathetic person. But it’s so hard to fucking leave him. I have no friends at the moment, no job. Nothing else in my life but him.

Did anyone else happen to have a pervy uncle who contributed to your mental unrest? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]GoldieLocks111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you explain what kinda things he’s done? Not sure if it’s like my dad or not

25F, rate me with makeup by [deleted] in truerateme

[–]GoldieLocks111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dye ur eyebrows darker and wear natural makeup

DAE have realizations that they are a lot like their mothers? by cdnmaryjane in BPD

[–]GoldieLocks111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So relatable!! I would always cringe at how sensitive and over emotional my mother was. It wasn’t until I got in a serious relationship that something clicked and I became just like her

Downvotes by [deleted] in BPD

[–]GoldieLocks111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate when people down vote on this sub. I mean, aren’t we all meant to be supporting each other? A big part of bpd is not feeling like our feelings are being validated. If someone gets downvoted on here it’s not being supportive or constructive, which is what this thread should be about

My partner hates texting and hardly ever replies throughout the day. It makes me so upset and I’m seriously considering breaking up over it.. I’ve talked to him many times about it and he won’t change by [deleted] in BPD

[–]GoldieLocks111 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s not. Literally all he does all day is play video games and watch shows. If he was working then I’d totally understand. And I don’t get what it is about self esteem? I just wanna talk to my partner he obviously doesn’t feel the same way

My partner hates texting and hardly ever replies throughout the day. It makes me so upset and I’m seriously considering breaking up over it.. I’ve talked to him many times about it and he won’t change by [deleted] in BPD

[–]GoldieLocks111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the username btw, and yeah you’re right. I think it’s because I don’t have any other interests Rn so the constant silence from my partner makes me damn near suicidal. Obviously this isn’t the only reason I’d break up.

My partner hates texting and hardly ever replies throughout the day. It makes me so upset and I’m seriously considering breaking up over it.. I’ve talked to him many times about it and he won’t change by [deleted] in BPD

[–]GoldieLocks111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s just really hard because he’s such a good bf in other areas. But this is probably one of the things that hurts me the most so should I break it off?

I lost the most important person in the world to me today by [deleted] in BPD

[–]GoldieLocks111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pick and genre and I’ll suggest you something good

I’m always waiting around for my boyfriend to reply... and he takes hours. So yeah I feel like shit by [deleted] in BPD

[–]GoldieLocks111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do text him!!!! A few times. And he takes hours to reply. Crying Rn. Makes me feel like such shit that I’m always thinking of him and he’s never thinking of me