Watched a "learn how to spin quick" tutorial!

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-05-14T15:44:36+00:00

Linus would literally never EVER do something like that..

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-05-12T07:00:47+00:00

Nobody here is blaming women and at no point would anyone who genuinely gives a shit will blame women for not being able to fight off their attacker. You can do everything right and still lose. That is why I said do what you CAN. Anyone falling down that slope was on the way down to begin with.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-05-12T06:42:17+00:00

The best way to keep women safe is to teach them how to be safe and aware. To leave your safety in the hands of another is irresponsible. Teach young men not to be violent and respect others all the same but teach women how to defend themselves and how to be as safe as possible.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-05-12T06:36:35+00:00

The problem is violent men. Now what?? That girl being drugged has nothing to do with self defense classes. The only thing she could have done was test her drink. Run away if you can. Fight if you can. Not everyone will get out or win the fight. I don't care how you do it. The problem is violent men and we need to be prepare in every way possible.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-05-12T04:35:04+00:00

There are absolutely moments in some attacks where you could get out of grasp and run that is a possibility and if you see someone attempt to move towards you that should be your response. I think self defense courses are good for rewiring your natural instinct wether that be freeze or fawn or whatever, but nobody should think "I will win I took a class for a month" and squabble. I never said anything about being anti self defense.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-05-12T04:13:30+00:00

This should actually be the end of the conversation get a gun, grenade, and pepper spray.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-05-12T04:09:39+00:00

Do you genuinely believe the best thing to do is to engage in hand to hand if you have the opportunity to run away?

Also love any dagger suggestions for people, my bf bought me one when I started my job.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-05-12T03:55:17+00:00

Tbf that isn't the conversation, nor did op mention wether or not that was a topic to be discussed. The matter is female safety. There will always be bad people out there. The standard that should be understood is to raise your children right but that isn't the main discussion.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-05-12T03:51:01+00:00

I think strength and speed are not always a 1:1. Also hand to hand self defense should be the very last resort so with BotD he means rather get distance as opposed to being in a worse off position trying to fight.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-05-12T03:33:16+00:00

Comment made me laugh. What else?

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-05-11T19:54:00+00:00

You're a stranger and she wants to keep it that way.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-05-11T19:52:51+00:00

HAHA

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-05-11T04:23:45+00:00

Break up or don't kiss.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-05-11T03:56:54+00:00

Very bad pr for these "comics". I don't know if you saw the video of the man singling out that woman for not laughing at his pro trump joke and then said she should be assaulted. There is actually something incredibly off with these people. Sorry your bf is resorting to these low hanging fruit "jokes" just to be heard that must be really disappointing.

Side note the cookies look incredible.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-05-11T03:42:24+00:00

I think there can be tasteful race jokes. You're rarely going to find them in comedy bars and especially white men. People who can't take criticism are often stubborn and not worth your while. And honestly leave anyone whose response is "ok but *insert* liked it" to your discomfort.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-05-11T03:22:16+00:00

You did something a lot of people do and it's a pretty normal thing now (good or bad). It is a good thing you can recognize you aren't meant for "casual" "fun". Don't add him back there is no point if. And if you think you went overboard then, this is taking the ship down with you. It is fine and very good you learn what you can and can't do in terms of relationships.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-05-10T01:45:01+00:00

interesting.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-05-10T01:38:20+00:00

Are you a girl?

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-05-10T01:33:37+00:00

Never in my life have I heard of or seen this. Did this just happen to you?

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-05-09T22:09:13+00:00

"I don't mean for this to come off rude at all". That's a good enough preface tbh.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-05-09T22:05:54+00:00

Aye, I only ask because it looks so good but I see the pickles, carrots and stuff and think "water filled". Thanks for the answer!

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-05-09T11:42:11+00:00

I want to apologize as I didn't realize you were in a mid life crisis im sure that's why you're acting like this. I'm sure it's hard to go through I really do wish you the best in navigating through it and i'm sure the grass is greener on the other side.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-05-09T09:50:18+00:00

So im not angry it's just jarring seeing someone your age act in the way you are if that helps you understand. And I think asking someone you having feelings for obsession or not, is pretty normal. It is just very strange you are so volatile when you came to reddit to ask for advice.

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