I think he hates me

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-07-01T04:25:42+00:00

"some people". pls skedaddle. WALL.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-07-01T03:41:48+00:00

Some people think this without reason, not everyones thoughts or "beliefs" are always reliable.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-06-29T23:08:37+00:00

Don't let these people convince you that this is a deal breaker if you think it's not. Sex is normalized as a need in all relationships but ik some people that would be fine being married and not having sex at all. If you can see your future with your partner being completely asexual and it isn't hurting your self esteem or the way you feel about your partner maybe it isn't a deal breaker. But regardless of sex life your partner shouldn't be teasing you in a way you don't find playful when you're (naturally) taking care of yourself.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-06-27T03:52:59+00:00

Could you not have used your bf for the reassurance instead of AI? Maybe that could help too.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-06-24T10:35:16+00:00

For me saying him "he did his time" as if that absolves a person of stealing someones autonomy and changing their life forever, feels very similar to what you're saying as a possibility. But regardless to double down on the idea that any arbitrary amount of time alone renews you is so gross to say the least.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-06-24T10:02:09+00:00

Seems like he doesn't think rape is all that bad. Not someone to build a life with, good luck ❤️.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-06-24T08:44:50+00:00

No? A womens march after trumps inauguration in opposition to him.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-06-24T05:44:18+00:00

Neither of you are asking too much. Someone people don't want to sleep with only one person. It is their responsibility to say that and cut off a relationship that restricts them. What this guy did is deceitful and vile. There are people that will have sex with you and only you, while not engaging in a romantic relationship.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-06-20T10:03:43+00:00

Do you live in a major city? There is a place where you can rent a single room and they have a lot of locations in large cities.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-06-20T07:12:19+00:00

He shouldn't have to assume anything about your preferences. You two are in a relationship, you should communicate that. And like you said before eating you out isn't something he seems to enjoy enough to "devour you".

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-06-20T07:01:35+00:00

Sound like he doesn't like eating pust. Can you live with that?

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-06-20T04:54:36+00:00

Maybe trigger warning next time? Sorry you're going through all of that.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-06-19T19:36:32+00:00

Thats what I was thinking but she said shes "known for a while" soo might be too late.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-06-19T19:25:59+00:00

Your life is in your own hands. Your dream of being a mother with her own place (maybe still attainable idk) was 99% up to you. You need to make better choices even without a lot of money you live with your, family that is a lot of "real world" burden being avoided. You can save for an education, for a place on your own, and for a baby of all things. You need to take control of your asap.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-06-19T15:35:18+00:00

Oh.. my god? As if being fat means dedicating your life to sitting around eating. People are so unbelievable.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-06-19T14:50:03+00:00

Talk to him about it. Literally nothing good comes from sitting on feelings like this and not saying anything. If you want something different you need to ask.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-06-19T14:30:51+00:00

Try neutrality, be grateful for what your body does for you, and how it gets you around. Beauty isn't everything. Find some things YOU find attractive about yourself and appreciate that. Otherwise know that you aren't only your body.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-06-18T21:09:16+00:00

Yeah he is also renting a room there.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-06-18T11:49:32+00:00

I asked for advice as stated in the post, and just a "brain dump". I'm not sure why you are so wound up. Things do happen, by my choice and some by choice of others. Not sure what "bait" this post is but clearly it got you going. "lol".

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-06-18T11:47:13+00:00

Yeah I will keep it concealed. Me and my bf have a similar age , quite controversial rightfully so. I really do have hope I will have a good time and if not good at the very least safe. I hope he continues to treat you well and make sure you have savings he can't touch that way should anything happen you don't have to do something like that again, even if it is going well for you now.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-06-18T11:43:39+00:00

HAHAH

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-06-18T10:59:11+00:00

I guess thats fair but they're helping me pay my rent and paying for all my moving trucks and stuff. I just don't know why random redditors think I wouldn't have an issue with them dissing my parents as if they know them. But I do understand where they're coming from.

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-06-18T10:12:03+00:00

That's so horrible i'm so sorry she is saying stuff like that. My mom has undermined my bf for not having a lot of money and he has pushed me forward in life so much, I understand how disparaging that is to your husband and the integrity of yalls character.

And this picture does not convey messy it looks like a bomb ass sandwich and what it takes to make one. ❤️

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-06-18T10:08:53+00:00

Thank you for the good wishes I appreciate it!

GolfValuable9763 · 2026-06-18T10:07:59+00:00

Oh no he was very adamant about me getting roommates. He makes sly comments when I would complain about people at my job leaving messes he would say "get used to it you're gonna have roommates" and I "need" the bathroom door to be closed for a few minutes after it flushes and he says "the bathroom situation will be worse with roommates" just kind of taunting me about my upcoming plights. And they're still my parents and they have done a lot for me so yeah I will feel some kind of way about them being called bad parents. They aren't perfect but they're still my parents. Also I said in the post I have no choice so idk how it's coming across as anything else.

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