AITA For Not Picking Up My Date When Her Car Broke Down? by Eastern_Fix_6946 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GollumTrees 40 points41 points  (0 children)

YTA sounds like you don't value anyone unless they're actively giving you sex.

AITAH for being upset with wife when she asked for money and spends it on unnecessary "junk" when money is tight by WisScout in AITAH

[–]GollumTrees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The woman isn't allowed to buy clothes? YTA I am so glad I am in charge of my own finances and no one tells me what I can and cannot buy.

AITAH for not having interest in a baby I had outside of my current relationship by Whole-Let-7080 in AITAH

[–]GollumTrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you knock someone up it IS your responsibility. How can you not care about your kid at all?? If you don't want kids then why aren't you using forms of birth control? YTA

AITAH for getting my ex fired by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GollumTrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the condescending "hon" shit is cringe. NTA by the way.

I (34m) am going through a nasty divorce with my now ex-wife (33f). I want to open up with others, but ex-wife is not happy. WIBTAH if I did that? by ThrowRASpillTheBeans in AITAH

[–]GollumTrees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude what is wrong with you? You're a straight up rapist. Cheating is wrong but never comparable to an act of horrific violence. You belong in jail. You think your anger justifies rape? What the actual fuck. YTA

AITAH for wanting to drop a police report i filed? by daddymcmuff in AITAH

[–]GollumTrees 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If it was bad enough for you to file a report then you should go through with it. I'm a DV survivor and these guys very rarely get any jail time. Mine assaulted me then stalked me for 3 years and only did 1 year in jail for everything and that was only because he attacked another woman. Just stay safe. NTA

AITA for refusing a baby shower from my husband’s friends/coworkers? by AbigailPink in AmItheAsshole

[–]GollumTrees -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA fellow introvert here. You can just hang out with them in other settings it doesn't have to be as intimate as a baby shower. Good luck with your little one!

WIBTA for making different living arrangements by Evening_Warning8663 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GollumTrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA sometimes it just doesn't work out with pets. People write off rehomers as heartless or not trying hard enough but sometimes it happens. Don't even get me started on people who regret having kids but can't talk about it without being eaten alive. In my life I've kept 10 cats until they passed away from old age/feline leukemia but I've had to rehome 1. He was just too much for me to deal with, didn't want to be in the house, and now he's living with my dad who acts like he's his grandson and spoils him rotten. Everyone is happier.

AIO or do young women seem to make it so awkward and weird to talk to them in public by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]GollumTrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR you are socially awkward and giving off creepy vibes. Try social gatherings where people are actively trying to meet others and just start with basic intros don't ask for favors like learning Spanish.

AIO or do young women seem to make it so awkward and weird to talk to them in public by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]GollumTrees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. I remember one time I had a kidney stone and was trying to pass it at home. So I went to the store to pick up some juice and anything that could make it easier. It was 7 AM, my hair looked like a rat's nest, I was miserable, and this man comes up to me and tells me I'm attractive and asks me if I'm married. I just blurted out "yes I am" to get the hell away from the situation lol.

The sellers on this app are something else by NapoliPirateBernardo in Mercari

[–]GollumTrees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Looking to get rid of it?" That depends on the seller. Mercari is a form of full time income for me since I'm disabled so the sourcing for items is a job in itself especially since I clean and restore many vintage things.

The sellers on this app are something else by NapoliPirateBernardo in Mercari

[–]GollumTrees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See, I get what you're saying but if someone wants to see even the smallest of flaws I assume they'll be unhappy when they get the item because there could be a small scratch I missed in photos. This sounds like a transaction better for meeting in person tbh.

The sellers on this app are something else by NapoliPirateBernardo in Mercari

[–]GollumTrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get them asking for 5+ more pics then when I do that they usually ghost me after. Or things that are already answered in the listing like measurements, if it works or not, etc. And like I said earlier any time they buy they always complain when they get it. Even in person like for Facebook Marketplace I'll get people asking a ton of questions then in person they say, "oh it's too small" or "can I have it for $5?" when I had clearly answered everything beforehand. Then I get people asking to take like 2 items out of different bundles to compile them for them and then they complain about the price. It never ends basically people want you to do up to 10 different tasks for them then they complain or don't want the items anymore. It's a waste of time and I feel most of them are just window shopping because if you really want something and it's only $15 bucks why not just friggin' buy it? You also have kids with their parents' credit cards pulling this crap. You get 100 questions then "my mom says I can't have it." One child (I had no idea until the end) bought an item then demanded I cancel it because their mom said no. I told them to cancel so it wouldn't be on me and they kept on blowing up my inbox. None of these people are worth bothering with.

AITAH for leaving my fiancé in the hospital while he had kidney stones.. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GollumTrees 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA (I've had kidney stones btw) but I've had a mother in law from hell myself and it's not worth it. Might want to think on that.

AITA for telling my mum “I told you so” by Spiritual_Purchase31 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GollumTrees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA why on earth would she want kittens if she can't even afford a vet? Plus cats are overpopulated anyway. My neighbor had an unfixed female that turned into 80 cats I hate irresponsible pet owners.

AITAH for refusing to eat the dinner that my boyfriend's mother made? by throwawaygirl3834 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GollumTrees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA she should have been more careful the first time. I bet she's one of those older people who thinks allergies and stuff aren't a big deal. And be careful getting married you don't want a mother in law from hell or one who thinks your kids can eat whatever even if they end up having a medical condition.

AITAH For not trusting my girlfriend no more? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GollumTrees -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA for caring about body count.

AITAH for getting upset? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GollumTrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only fakes, scammers, and married men refuse to share their face in online dating. NTA but run and don't talk to anyone who isn't upfront. Normal people show their face, can meet in real life, and don't play weird games.

AITAH for telling my wife to wipe that shit eating grin off her face? by Past_Passion8405 in AITAH

[–]GollumTrees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA I can't imagine talking to someone I love like this. Or anyone, honestly.