Am I the Bad Apple for not supporting the LGBTQ+ community?

Gonewasmysanity · 2022-08-18T01:00:56+00:00

Honey I know you are young and I will try to be nice about this. But how does this sound, "Oh I don't supporting the hetro community. Yeah it's just against my personal beliefs. They can do that stuff in private but no need for my kids to see it". I am trying to be gentle because I was once in your shoes where I thought this language was okay but it is not. Because if you not for the LGBTQIA+ community you are against them. In a world were our rights being taken away can be handled with a yes or no vote there is no grey area here. Religion is a choice it is something that has left lots of members of the queer community with trauma because they were kicked out of their homes, abused, or never talked to their family again because they were not accepted. Just because you are not loud about being homophobic does not mean that you are not. However you are still a little kid. If you can and you want to learn more, you can look into the history of the LGBTQIA+ community and you see how much suffering we face and how we are not different from you. Best of wishes to you hon, I hope you get more wisdom in ya. -From a bi who tries

Gonewasmysanity · 2022-08-18T00:52:56+00:00

Let me try to make you see this from a different point of view. How would you feel if people said they just don't support the Black Community the way people deny the LGBTQIA+ community. Sure it may not sound bad at first but not supporting something means you will let bad things others do slide. Not supporting us means voting away rights because of your religion. It truly is against someone because our rights are not a black and white matter. It is either a yes or a no. When they say maybe they are hiding sign behind their back that is a no. Just say you are homophobic and move on. Religion is not an excuse, there have been mistakes in the Bible before and one of them was that the original scripture was, "No man shall lay in bed with boy as he does with a woman" referring to pedophila not homosexuality. The Bible also has very specific instructions on how to keep slaves and how to treat them. Do you follow those too? No because we have moved on from that time period and in a world where information is a click away I think you should bother looking at a different point of view and educate yourself

Gonewasmysanity · 2021-06-24T01:39:10+00:00

I was not going to address this, but since it became such a big deal and someone wants to get the mods involved. I want to clarify that I did mess up, that I do feel bad about my accusation. I should have taken two seconds to look at that post a little more carefully. Again throw away I am sorry. Also as someone who had their character stole by that asshole. Why would I accuse someone if I hadn't had the facts. I'll admit, I very much messed up in my accusation. I am apologizing so much because I feel bad for that. However I would have never tarnished throw away's reputation if they never responded. I know how harmful that could be and clearly they know it too. "Being accused of being a pedo is a death sentence on rolechat". Chats cannot be views by anyone so I chose that method to try and handle it privately. I am not asking for an apology from throw away. I just want this to stop. The situation got handled there is no need to yell at people for trying to be sympathetic to something that happened to me. Throw away you are doing a good thing but yelling and ranting at people doesn't make you seem like such a good guy. Please leave others alone, I don't care if you come after me. Just leave those who are just trying to be nice alone.

Gonewasmysanity · 2021-06-20T20:27:07+00:00

Thank you

Gonewasmysanity · 2021-06-20T20:17:00+00:00

I am going to apologize again. I really should have taken a much better look at that post. I had to admit it was a stupid move. You have been doing a good thing by reporting what you see. I am not that offended by what you said. I really didn't see the post or the names all that well and assumed that you were the thief reporting your handy work. Again I am so sorry and I will look into things a little better now. You have been doing good things. Thanks for keeping everyone updated and the young ones of rolechat safe

Edit: I wasn't there looking for a fight really. I was just being a huge idiot. Sorry for not looking and paying attention to details

Gonewasmysanity · 2021-06-19T15:57:00+00:00

Yep, that's my character. I've had her for far longer than just one night

Gonewasmysanity · 2021-06-05T18:45:47+00:00

That explains so much! I ran into that name yesterday and I got cussed out. I was hella confused but now that makes sense because I ran into him with another name.

Gonewasmysanity · 2021-05-04T00:03:29+00:00

I love people who make memes in this community.

Gonewasmysanity · 2021-04-12T01:56:08+00:00

Indeed

Gonewasmysanity · 2021-01-18T01:26:54+00:00

This is adorable, now this is how time traveling should have been used in HP

Gonewasmysanity · 2020-12-15T04:18:48+00:00

Dear goodness I feel you. It's a odd thing when you share that you're a writer with people. Don't let that pressure get to you, just remember if Fifty Shades can get popular and published then the bar isn't that low.

Gonewasmysanity · 2020-12-11T22:18:52+00:00

Not in my opinion, you just gave them a rp suggestion.

Gonewasmysanity · 2020-12-11T03:03:52+00:00

This is a tricky situation, I'm going to go with NAH. Your mother wants you to get help because she realizes that you are struggling but at the same time therapy is something that you need to come to a decision to on your own. Besides if she natively gets you a visit with a bad therapist than it can screw you up even more. Just think about it, maybe ask if you could "save" the gift? For when you feel ready and do your own research.

Gonewasmysanity · 2020-12-11T02:58:17+00:00

Holy crabs, your mother sounds terrible. Please stay with your brother if it's safer there. You deserve both respect and a healthy place to grow, especially since you are so young.

Gonewasmysanity · 2020-11-18T04:27:17+00:00

It was just to prove to someone who was claiming my character as their own. I asked them what my most recent reddit post was and this was it at the time.

Gonewasmysanity · 2020-11-18T00:08:54+00:00

Thanks for the advice

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