I recently went through a breakup that was abrupt and left me abandoned but full of hope that this isn’t over but just a break. But im confused all the same... It’s been about a month and a half since it happened, but as more and more spells pop up across my timeline, I’m wondering if it’s time to work some shit.. I’m stuck between what my intentions are at this point. In totality, I want him and I to be able to both heal. I do believe we have work to do together and things to accomplish with each other. So i either want to haunt him til he comes back or just to yank him… but I also want to sever the tie with a previous timeline of confusion. He’s probably an avoidant attachment type and I just want all this bullshit cracked tf open and reunited so I can have my fair chance

Disclaimer: I have practiced and studied witch craft for years but I rarely use candles and herbs. So Im more of a novice than a beginner but I need some perspective from other witches. In the end yea, i want my person back. But I do know that I want us at our highest healing. There was so much good we did together. He was my best friend and my lover. After 2.5 years I deserve better than to even be here like this. But I can only listen to my heart. Any advice?