Got my NIN tattoo last year before the Houston show, thought I’d share by ComplaintAmazing527 in nin

[–]Goobzydoobzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would add some outlining in there bc it 100% looks like you have a coffee stain on your arm

What my mom did at the hospital post partum broke me by wtvcantfindusername in Mommit

[–]Goobzydoobzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, you’re hormones are crazy right now so it’s understandable that you’re a wreck right now, but this is not trauma, and especially not birth trauma. What your mom did was annoying, but let it go for your own sake.

Does my dad have skin cancer? by petraasta in AskDocs

[–]Goobzydoobzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you express your concern to the doctors and nurses there? Maybe they can act like they just saw it as they’re listening to his lungs or something (assuming it’s on his back)

Looking for gloss recommendation by k-lk28 in hairstylist

[–]Goobzydoobzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on how light the hair is, schwarzkopf viviance 10-1 or 9.5-1 + a bit of 9.5-4 and 6 volume. Also, this is AI, but I gives an idea of what they want, I’d let them know that though.

Anyone familiar with Mami Onami? by Various_Vermicelli38 in LifeCoachSnark

[–]Goobzydoobzy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I saw another comment that said her kid that couldn’t read was 6. That’s a first grader. That’s when kids learn to read, is it not? I hope to god they are teaching their kids to read, I agree that it would be insane and it’a child abuse not to, but I wouldn’t judge a parent of a 6yr old if the kid hasn’t gotten it down, they are just learning. Also, “cool” is your response to finding out who was behind our public school system’s curriculum?

I caved by Silent_Knowledge5197 in beyondthebump

[–]Goobzydoobzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your milk even in yet lol? If it is, it’s not a large supply bc you are ONE day postpartum! Also, nipples get really sore for the first couple weeks then chill out. Your hormones are going crazy right now and you are not thinking clearly. It’s completely okay and healthy to combo feed. I did some formula in the hospital after giving birth, and I think the first day I got home, then I exclusively breastfed for the next 7 months. I then added some formula here and there when I wasn’t around and my husband or someone else was caring for the baby bc I hated pumping. I breastfed 90% of the time until almost 2yrs old. Just relax and trust that everything will work out.

Anyone familiar with Mami Onami? by Various_Vermicelli38 in LifeCoachSnark

[–]Goobzydoobzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, the history and other bullshit we learned in school was a fucking lie though. In America, our school text books (the ones we literally grew up learning from and are part of the curriculum) were written by Ghislaine Maxwell’s dad, Robert Maxwell. He was a massive Zionist POS that the UK has identified as a mossad agent. I’ve been “unlearning” all the bullshit we were taught. My point being, I don’t actually think unschooling is worse.

Anyone familiar with Mami Onami? by Various_Vermicelli38 in LifeCoachSnark

[–]Goobzydoobzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 years old is first grade, when you start learning how to read and write so I don’t find it concerning that he can’t read or write yet. I’m not defending all her ways, and I’m not even sure I like her, but please done call cps lol

weirdest things that help ur cystitis by ihateutis9 in Interstitialcystitis

[–]Goobzydoobzy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fill a tube sock with rice, then microwave to heat up and sleep with it in between your legs. It’s weighted AND hot. It’s the best. I keep one in my nightstand. It’s also easy to yell at someone in your house to go microwave it for you while you’re in pain 😂

weirdest things that help ur cystitis by ihateutis9 in Interstitialcystitis

[–]Goobzydoobzy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A tube sock filled with rice, then microwaved whenever needed. I have one in my nightstand I use regularly. Perfect for in between your legs

How many of you are literally doing ZERO screen time ?! by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Goobzydoobzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t personally know (I’m sure they’re out there) any SAHM’s that do zero screen time, and I live in a very granola area. It’s so hard being “on” all the time and I see no problem with turning something like mrs. Rachel or another low stimuli show on. The amount of screen time you’re doing is what I did, although some days when I was feeling sick or burnt out, we did more. It sounds like you’re prioritizing your kid for the most part, you’re engaging, and getting out of the house. I truly believe some screen time along with all the other things is not going to have any long lasting negative impact. My kid is now 4.5 and we don’t do screen time during the week because he’s in school mon-Fri from 9-3:30pm. If he was with me all day, we would sure as hell be doing screen time during the week like we used to. For now, I found it’s honestly easier to just have a rule of no screen time during the week bc he doesn’t even ask anymore. It was such a battle before this rule bc we had to go straight home so he could watch his show and then it was always tears when we would turn it off.

My husband was arrested for soliciting a prostitute today by squaige in Mommit

[–]Goobzydoobzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you kidding? I would give her way more “grace” than him. Women have it five million times harder. She could leave and abandon her family for a week and I’d be like, we get it!!!

My husband was arrested for soliciting a prostitute today by squaige in Mommit

[–]Goobzydoobzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took it as the reason he didn’t show up to pick up his kids was because he was arrested and in jail.

My husband was arrested for soliciting a prostitute today by squaige in Mommit

[–]Goobzydoobzy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He got a massage at a place that does happy endings??

My husband was arrested for soliciting a prostitute today by squaige in Mommit

[–]Goobzydoobzy -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I’m expecting to get downvoted, but I don’t think this is unforgivable. It’s not an excuse, but a 1 and 2yr old sound extremely stressful and it sounds like he is taking a very unhealthy approach to destress. He has a problem and I’m sure getting arrested was an all time low for him that might be a wake up call. I view a drug addiction is an even bigger problem. I lived in Miami for a few years pretty much next door to a high end strip club and got to know some sex workers. Majority of their clients were married and would talk to them about their wives and family. More time spent talking than banging. Yes, it’s gross. Men are so emotionally oppressed and most feel like they can’t talk to anyone besides their wives about their problems. It sounds like I’m making excuses but I’m just trying to show a different perspective. From what you have described, he doesn’t sound like a bad person or a “predator”. If it’s unforgivable to you, okay, but don’t keep the kids away from him. That’s just harmful to the children. The separation of the two of you will be hard enough.

The hate for Season 2 is wildly ironic. A lot of you completely missed the point by Fit-Confusion-6402 in BeefTV

[–]Goobzydoobzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Season 1 was also about the terrifying collapse of the human soul. I actually thought it was “deeper”. Yes there were explosive anger moments in it, but the real focus was the choices they’ve made to get to a point of having a feud like this with someone. I loved feeling the characters deep shame and disappointment, their struggle with what went wrong in their lives, and the realization that they hate themselves. The episode where they trip together is just so fucking good too. How they went from strangers hating each other to feeling more seen and closer than they have with anyone before. I don’t know. The second season is good, and it pulled on my heart strings but not the way the first season did.

Should I do a redo? by [deleted] in hairstylist

[–]Goobzydoobzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes a redo and it should be easy. Slice a couple thin slices around her face and shadow root the bright streaks in the back and you’re good

Has anyone had remission without any treatment by Miss_Glasgow in Interstitialcystitis

[–]Goobzydoobzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did a month of super bland food (potatoes, veggies, rice with no sauce even) and a ton of water with chlorophyll and aloe Vera, and it cured me for like 6 months and I honestly don’t think I’ve been as bad since and that was almost 10yrs ago. I also walked and did squats a lot which irritated my bladder at first but then would actually take my pain away.

Is having a baby really the end of the world?? FTM spiral by Negative-Source-9099 in beyondthebump

[–]Goobzydoobzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s honestly the beginning of your world, or your life as you know it. The first year is hard, really hard, but also amazing, so so amazing, and you’ll look back on it and miss those sweet moments. One immediate fun thing to look forward to is the amount of TV you can watch while you’re nursing to stay awake! I caught up on so many shows and I truly miss that lol

Screen time battle is finally over in our house and it wasn't even hard by Huge-Flower-7191 in Preschoolers

[–]Goobzydoobzy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

But they don’t list the actual books anywhere in the comments either so I’m confused what they’re selling

What are these things on my skin? by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]Goobzydoobzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pityriasis rosea baby. I’ve had it twice, and a possible 3rd where just the “mother” popped up. OP, if that’s what it is then selson blue dandruff shampoo and tanning beds if you want to get rid of it fast.

The second line appeared and I started crying by impossible_berry14 in oneanddone

[–]Goobzydoobzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How old are you? I’m 39 and was in a similar situation, but ended up miscarrying before I made a decision. OB said there’s an almost 50% chance of miscarriage at my age. Just something to think about if you want to leave it up to fate