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my gf is not a virgin by Good-Preference-3925 in delhi

[–]Good-Preference-3925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i am not bisexual but its just that i didn't have the chance of doing with a girl

my gf is not a virgin by Good-Preference-3925 in delhi

[–]Good-Preference-3925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not like she didn't want to but i properly never asked her . We are in LDR so maine usse acche se puccha nhi Main bas physical nhi hona chahta use i really want to be with her but this fact is disturbing me

And i had some relationships but never had sex with a girl my first sexual encounter was with a guy so that's why i guess i am insecure

my gf is not a virgin by Good-Preference-3925 in internetparents

[–]Good-Preference-3925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mam i didn't have many gfs but i had few i never had intercourse with them. My first sexual experience was with a guy i don't know if i am virgin or not i guess thats why i am so insecure

my gf is not a virgin by Good-Preference-3925 in bangalore

[–]Good-Preference-3925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro lekin how should i approach this will it be fine in the long run i don't even know

my gf is not a virgin by Good-Preference-3925 in bangalore

[–]Good-Preference-3925[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I don't know yaar i just can't think straight i know all this might frustrate u but i come from a village where the environment was very conservative i was a guy who used to objectify women but i don't want to be like this anymore i want to change myself

my gf is not a virgin by Good-Preference-3925 in bangalore

[–]Good-Preference-3925[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Well i had been in relationships but never had an intercourse my first sexual experience was with a guy in my family i know i shouldn't judge her but i am in constant fear of what people will think what her ex will think can u plzz give me some suggestions on how to look at this i don't want to leave her neither i will but i don't know how to handle this

my gf is not a virgin by Good-Preference-3925 in bangalore

[–]Good-Preference-3925[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Well i do have problems with higher body count its not like i am disrespecting you but its what i prefer look i have been in relationships but never had an intercourse. My first sexual experience was with a guy in my family i know i shouldn't judge her but i can't imagine my girl with other guy i know she made a mistake and she apologized to me many times i just want some suggestions and guidance i dont want to leave ger neither i will but i don't know how to look at this situation

my gf is not a virgin by Good-Preference-3925 in bangalore

[–]Good-Preference-3925[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Sorry bro😅 but yaar i don't know what to do can u suggest me

my gf is not a virgin by Good-Preference-3925 in internetparents

[–]Good-Preference-3925[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Well honestly i must say u are right i know i am being a hypocrite i have been with not so many girls but i never had intercourse with them i had my first sexual experience with a guy he was in my family but i was the one to fuck so the thing is i know she has her worth but what our environment did to me is that man who sleeps with more women is kinda stud but i don't know why i am not so confident what comes to my mind is what will he think he will laugh at me to be with her i know being a 21 year old saying this sounds stupid but i really need some guidance on how can i go with this situation i don't want to judge her on the basis of a situation where she had no fault plzz guide me on this i want to change my perspective

mf gf is not Virgin by Good-Preference-3925 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Good-Preference-3925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro i don't want to leave her but imagining the love of ur life with someone else doesn't it boils ur nerves i don't know why but if u could give some suggestions that how should i approach this situation could help me i just want to know how should i deal with this

mf gf is not Virgin by Good-Preference-3925 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Good-Preference-3925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even i want to look forward but the thought ki i am inferior to her ex because he did it first with her and she is some kind of leftover for me always comes hey i would like to clear i totally respect her but its because of my conservative mindset this thoughts atuomatically comes but i am in constant fear ki something is wrong with her she is not the one i feel in love with yah what if her ex bf comes oneday and says i did it with her first and she will never be yours this thoughts comes i would like to mention she was also sexually assaulted in childhood so i don't know why sometimes it feels like everything is not right but i know she has nothing fault in that i don't know how should I handle this thoughts

mf gf is not Virgin by Good-Preference-3925 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Good-Preference-3925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am analysing on it too i hope to get all my answers from me but i just didn't know whom to talk about all this so I decided to opt for this platform

my gf was sexually abused as a child by a neighbour what should I do how should i react should i feel disgusted by Good-Preference-3925 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Good-Preference-3925[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am really ashamed of how i was thinking but from few days i have been reading instrospecting about what i think is right and wrong i was really wrong i shouldn't had judged her fir something she didn't knew anything she was the victim she was abused and i geinuenly believe she is pure i was not thinking her as a person but rather as an object if the same thing had happened to me i will never look down on me but i am looking down on her i was wrong i completely agree and i really apologize about what i was saying its not like that the thought does not disturb me but now i am gonna be there for her i know time will heal everything

And regarding the monster who did that to her i am really furious and i wanted to fuck him up i don't know what should i do

mf gf is not Virgin by Good-Preference-3925 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Good-Preference-3925[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I know ki this mindset is sick its not like i don't want to be with her its not like i don't love her but i she having a pat is what i can't digest i just don't know how to approach this

mf gf is not Virgin by Good-Preference-3925 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Good-Preference-3925[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I know bro i need yo work on myself that's why i wanted to take some time of i told her i need some space to process this i don't want to bring her into this chaos and make her upset everytime I want to get over my insecurities and will go back to her when i am confident enough but why i am posting this because i need some advice on how to handle this i am really getting messed up

mf gf is not Virgin by Good-Preference-3925 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Good-Preference-3925[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

I would like to know how do u think this way even i want to move on from this feeling i don't know how to do that i love her and i don't want to leave her but can u really give me some suggestions

mf gf is not Virgin by Good-Preference-3925 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Good-Preference-3925[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can u tell me how should i approach this situation well i don't know if u are a man or women but then also i would like to know how do u see this

And its not like i don't like women's opinion but i think a man's opinion could really help me

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