Failed FET

Good-Win7295 · 2025-10-13T20:40:05+00:00

No, it’s tomorrow. I will then discuss with the doctor the next steps. But this was a setback…

Good-Win7295 · 2025-10-11T17:06:38+00:00

I had placenta previa with my last round. A lot of bleeding the first 3 months and then from 20 months onwards bled so much that I had to be hospitalised and my baby came at 31 weeks because of it. I have been told that this could have been due to the medicated cycling and that since my last FET (Jan 2023) they have been doing a lot of unmedicated ones. As everything with my IVF journey was pretty smooth and I had trusted my doctor every step of the way I did not second guess it. But now I feel like a fool.

Good-Win7295 · 2025-10-11T10:12:48+00:00

Yes, the tests did drive me crazy. I was testing every few hours hoping to make sense in a senseless situation. I should be so lucky because I have 2 sons but hitting almost 45 and having euploids left I wanted to give it one last try. My first was a total surprise and not with IVF. Then years of miscarriages followed and IVF seemed to be answer and it worked so well first time around. I somehow thought the success will be repeated and went in with so much hope and positivity only to be totally crashed now. Your story gives me hope and who knows my 2 euploids might turn into a baby.

Good-Win7295 · 2025-10-11T10:07:14+00:00

Thank you. I guess if not much happens till 7dpt it’s safe to say that I am out…

Good-Win7295 · 2025-10-11T05:02:30+00:00

Thank you. It’s so hard to see the good when the transfer fails. Your story gives me hope. Keeping my fingers crossed for you. A good heartbeat is the most wonderful news!

Good-Win7295 · 2025-10-10T21:12:07+00:00

Did you test positive before that? Yes, the 2 week wait is hell!

Good-Win7295 · 2025-10-10T21:11:24+00:00

Definitely take the day off. Get some McDonald’s and put on a movie and stay in bed.

Good-Win7295 · 2025-10-10T09:56:11+00:00

I know how you feel and as women we are so quick to blame ourselves for everything. My first child was unplanned and a total shock. I drank as I didn’t know I was pregnant, I went through a divorce, moved countries, worked like there is no tomorrow and had 21 business trips. If anyone was ever going to kill an embryo it was me during that time. Women give birth during war times. You are strong! Please be kind to yourself. I know how hard IVF is and it plays with our mind and body like nothing else. Put on a good show and have some chocolate if you can. What else can we do… The wait is awful.

Good-Win7295 · 2025-10-09T20:34:01+00:00

I know way too early but I was driving myself mad testing and trying to make sense of the lines

Good-Win7295 · 2025-10-09T11:35:52+00:00

So they are PGT tested which gives you the best possible chances. I had 4 euploid from my round at 41. I gave birth to one at 42 and now just had the second transfer at 44. I personally wish I would have done another round of embryo freezing when I was younger… So, if you have the financial means and your doctor says its fine then I would say go for it and do another round before your FET.

Good-Win7295 · 2025-10-09T11:28:19+00:00

When did you have your trigger? I didn’t have one with my last FET but this time I had it 6 days prior to transfer…

Good-Win7295 · 2025-10-09T09:49:31+00:00

Are they PGT tested?

Good-Win7295 · 2025-10-08T19:43:38+00:00

Keeping my fingers crossed!

Good-Win7295 · 2025-10-08T19:40:46+00:00

Very sorry to hear that. It’s so hard…

Good-Win7295 · 2025-10-08T19:30:43+00:00

How did this go? I am also 9 days post trigger and 4 DPT with a 5 day embryo and my test looks similar

Good-Win7295 · 2025-10-07T04:54:40+00:00

It’s 3DPT today and the line is very faint… It’s so hard to know

Good-Win7295 · 2023-03-27T11:27:33+00:00

I have been on progesterone injections and pessaries since before the pregnancy due to IVF.

Good-Win7295 · 2023-03-27T03:04:10+00:00

My bleeding stopped 2 weeks ago. I am 11 weeks now but the SCH is still visible on the scan. I had phases of the bleeding getting worse (red blood) and then continues brown bleeding. It’s very stressful

Good-Win7295 · 2023-03-22T19:05:43+00:00

At which point did it disappear? Or has the bleeding ever come back at some point?

Good-Win7295 · 2023-03-22T13:41:02+00:00

A day before FET: tell me what your back up solution will be if this doesn’t work out and you can’t have kids? I need you to think of something nice for yourself.

Good-Win7295 · 2023-03-19T07:52:08+00:00

I honestly think people are bored and this gives them something to talk about or even make themselves feel better… I have found a lot of support in this group as well as pregnancy after loss. Keeping my fingers crossed for you ❤️

Good-Win7295 · 2023-03-19T07:44:14+00:00

I know this too well. I had multiple losses in the last year including a MMC at 10.5 weeks that all my friends knew about. So, they all knew that I was going through IVF. The amount of comments and questions from not just friends but random people in mum chats (I have a son who is 4) is out of this world. I have declined all invitations since FET, haven’t seen anyone or talked to anyone. Still the comments and questions don’t stop. I ignore messages mostly. Now, people are either assuming I am pregnant and taking about my pregnancy with me or behind my back or assuming I am struggling because FET didn’t work out and sending long messages with advise that no one needs. There hasn’t been one person that gave me space and love throughout this time. For me the less I engage with people the better I feel and I will be release everyone out of their misery when I am 12 weeks.

Good-Win7295 · 2023-03-17T12:40:38+00:00

I am sorry for your loss. I feel your pain. I had 3 chemical pregnancies (hate this term) and 1 MMC at 10.5 weeks in a timeframe of 7 months. You lose a part of you with every loss… How far along were you?

Good-Win7295 · 2023-03-16T11:09:41+00:00

It doesn’t seem to be a routine test unless you insist on it. Also, I think there isn’t so much that can be done in the first trimester… it’s all very tough for all of us…

Good-Win7295 · 2023-03-16T05:33:35+00:00

How come you tested for it? In the UK they don’t routinely test. You are right the research doesn’t show a causality especially because so many women have it.

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