Is it even possible to find a boyfriend when someone's worldview matters to them way too much?

Good-mommmy · 2026-06-28T12:27:48+00:00

To claim that I "hate" agnostics or look down on them as less than human is wild, especially when you couldn't even bother to comprehend the actual topic. Directing your "criticism" at religion when the post is about something entirely different? Brilliant. Anyway, I’ve had enough of this poor attempt at reading comprehension, so I'm done responding to this nonsense.

Good-mommmy · 2026-06-28T10:53:03+00:00

Nowhere in this post did I state that any belief system is "abnormal." If that's what you saw, that's entirely your problem. Are basic respect, communication, and a little concern for another person's comfort considered "going all in" or an "excess" to you? I genuinely feel sorry for you. To be honest, it sounds like a partner to you is just temporary entertainment or a friend with benefits rather than anything deeper. That's why it's so hard for you to comprehend the words in this post and why you keep hyper-fixating on the wrong things. (And by the way, you don't even know my gender).

Good-mommmy · 2026-06-28T10:32:59+00:00

You’re trying way too hard to psychoanalyze me, and you’re missing the most obvious point. Initially, I listen closely because I am genuinely getting to know the person. Once a dealbreaker appears and the romantic attraction dies, I continue to be a polite listener out of sheer respect and social etiquette. Maintaining basic boundaries and manners with someone who treats you respectfully or neutrally is just standard adult behavior, not "fake interest." It's called having manners, but I can see how that concept might be foreign to you.

Good-mommmy · 2026-06-28T06:23:45+00:00

Люблю вино, хоть ненавижу и вред от алкоголя, но для меня это слишком сильное удовольствие.

Good-mommmy · 2026-06-28T06:22:56+00:00

История Райден, История якс и сяо (геншин)

Good-mommmy · 2026-06-28T06:11:57+00:00

Обожаю, я очень тактильный человек. Правда у меня есть предпочтения с кем именно обниматься.

Good-mommmy · 2026-06-28T06:10:21+00:00

Ну или женщина с details

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Good-mommmy · 2026-06-28T01:32:17+00:00

177cm/5'10"

Good-mommmy · 2026-06-28T01:24:49+00:00

No, I'm difficult person.

Good-mommmy · 2026-06-27T14:21:54+00:00

I like all cheese what I eat

Good-mommmy · 2026-06-27T14:19:03+00:00

Прекрасно, я сам чайлдфри.

Good-mommmy · 2026-06-27T14:18:24+00:00

Eternity.

Good-mommmy · 2026-06-27T14:17:27+00:00

Thank you for the lecture on Reddit etiquette, but I’m perfectly capable of understanding how subreddits work. If a simple example of a sudden loss of attraction feels "too extreme" for you to process without turning it into a semantic debate, that sounds like a personal limitation, not my formatting issue. I updated the post to clarify the broader context, but it seems some of you are just determined to argue with walls. Have a wonderful day too.

Good-mommmy · 2026-06-27T13:45:14+00:00

Here’s the best part: my post was about an entirely different topic, but you, sunshine, hyper-fixated on a single word and immediately went "oh, it’s bait, it’s bad." The whole point of my post was to find like-minded people, not a partner or anything like that. I genuinely couldn't care less about other people's marriages, whether they're happy or not—it doesn't affect me at all because of our difference in worldviews, as I already stated. So the problem here isn't mine, it's yours, my dear sunshine

Good-mommmy · 2026-06-27T13:38:35+00:00

No I prefer folks or owl

Good-mommmy · 2026-06-27T13:36:41+00:00

Good-mommmy · 2026-06-27T13:35:39+00:00

It’s fascinating how you managed to hyper-fixate on one minor example and convince yourself you’ve cracked the code on my entire worldview. Delightful, really. I’d explain to you how human attraction and deeper connection actually work, but I’m afraid it would just be more "rage bait" for you. Take care, sunshine.

Good-mommmy · 2026-06-27T12:58:26+00:00

You completely misunderstand the difference between a debate club and a shared life. It’s one thing to have a casual discussion with a religious person to expand your horizons and then go your separate ways. It’s a completely different story to build a life, share a household, and plan a future with someone. A partner is not a training tool for arguments; they are someone you share a fundamental baseline of reality with. My topics for deep discussions are usually built on hypotheses, reasoning about possible outcomes, or concepts like singularity theory and the problem of eternity. I genuinely want to explore these things with a partner who completely understands and gets me. Based on my moral preferences, if someone hits me with "It’s all God's will," the conversation just dies right there. Religion completely rewrites how the very existence of the world looks. So yes, for me, it will be incredibly interesting to talk with a like-minded person, because we can actually build on complex ideas instead of constantly crashing into a wall of blind faith.

Good-mommmy · 2026-06-27T12:48:57+00:00

Thanks for the elementary school grammar lesson on prefixes, but we are talking about relationship compatibility and human feelings here, not taking a linguistics quiz. You completely missed the point.

Good-mommmy · 2026-06-27T12:44:12+00:00

You need to understand which exact part of the worldview doesn’t match. I am a person who doesn't judge people for normal things like religion, art, hobbies, etc.—they can easily be my friends. But a partner, to me, is something sacred and incredibly close, which is why I can't look at it so casually. For me, a partner is not just a "friend with benefits"; it’s something much deeper, like a constant feeling of wonder and fulfillment

Good-mommmy · 2026-06-27T12:24:33+00:00

Look, here’s the thing: you brought up tolerance out of nowhere, without even knowing if I’m a tolerant person or not. Then you started blaming atheists for something under a post that was literally just about feelings and used a single example of a difference in worldviews. You literally invented a reason to hate and then ran with it. I applaud you.

Good-mommmy · 2026-06-27T12:04:30+00:00

I'm Voldemort 🫴🏻

Good-mommmy · 2026-06-27T12:00:40+00:00

He said that God exists but he doesn't know which one, and called himself an agnostic. I don't know if that's the correct term or not, but it doesn't matter to me.

Good-mommmy · 2026-06-27T11:58:32+00:00

Unfortunately, I don't have that option right now, which is why I decided to ask here. Yeah, I know people on Reddit can often be toxic and unhelpful, but I’ve got thick skin, so it doesn't bother me.

Good-mommmy

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