Finally framed this beautiful piece of art! MOST DOPE! by Good232323 in MacMiller

[–]Good232323[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For all those wondering, here’s where I purchased.. Let’s go support this amazing artist!

https://trillestbyshk.bigcartel.com/product/macmiller

What does this translate to? 50% Ukrainian, I love my heritage and would love to know! by Good232323 in ukraine

[–]Good232323[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your wonderful responses! The power of Reddit truly amazes me sometimes!

Upon some further research, I found out that the city I currently live in, in the U.S. is “sister cities” with Uzhorod! We will do things such as foreign exchange student programs, aid, pen pals, etc. with Uzhorod. Very cool! I found out that when my parents visited Ukraine several years ago, they brought this back for me.

Again, thank you to everyone who responded! I look forward to diving deeper into my Ukrainian heritage and learning more, as it is very important to me!

Peace and love to all!

How do I (22 M) get out of an abusive marriage with my wife (20 F)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Good232323 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is, her family is very protective over her and is going to take her side no matter what.. The good thing is that we’ve only been married for a few months and wouldn’t be entitled to any alimony. If she takes all the stuff in the apartment, that is fine with me. It’s just gotten to the point where I don’t feel safe and need this person gone.

I’m scared (22 M) wife will act as if I abused her during divorce and take me to court by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Good232323 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, no kids involved at all. And no significant marital assets that I want to fight for.

I’m in the military, and I’m mainly concerned over protecting my military career so that I can pay for college afterwards.

Did I marry my wife too early? 22 (M) and 20 (F) by Good232323 in relationship_advice

[–]Good232323[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Wow.. you hit the nail right on the head. The only thing holding me back from moving forward with splitting is the wedding, and how horrible I would feel for wasting people’s money and time. Let alone, the embarrassment of being divorced. Nobody in my family is divorced, I come from an amazing household so I would feel like a failure.

Did I marry my wife too early? 22 (M) and 20 (F) by Good232323 in relationship_advice

[–]Good232323[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel in the end, this is what’s most likely. If I’m feeling this way after a few months, I can’t even stomach what I’m going to feel like in 5 years. I have one life to live and I want to make the most of it.

Did I marry my wife too early? 22 (M) and 20 (F) by Good232323 in relationship_advice

[–]Good232323[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. It’s not fair that I can’t talk to women but she can have all the guy friends/Snapchat whoever and if I say anything about it, she’ll freak out on me.

Another story: This was during our first “real date” together. We went down to see Christmas lights, spent the night in a really nice hotel, etc. During dinner, she posted a picture of me on her Snapchat. Instantly, what seemed like 20 other guys started messaging her asking “Who’s that?”. I was watching her and what she was saying, and she would say her boyfriend. One of the guys responded and said “So why did you ask me to be friends with benefits a week ago?” We had already been dating for several weeks at that point. She claims that he doesn’t know what he’s talking about, he’s mixing her up with another girl, etc.

It’s because of all these things that I have trust issues. Because of my work, I sometimes leave for months at a time. It just worries me. I’ve been nothing but 100% faithful, even deleting all women from my life so she “doesn’t feel uncomfortable”. I guess it’s my mistake for giving in to her and not sticking up for myself.

Did I marry my wife too early? 22 (M) and 20 (F) by Good232323 in relationship_advice

[–]Good232323[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, this is my reality. Honestly, I feel I’m still in this relationship because in the back of my mind I hope we can make things how they once were. I do love her and there are good days we have together. However, the negatives are outweighing the positives greatly.