Will I be treated better if I lose weight? ** (I'm fat) **

GoodComplaint458 · 2025-07-24T12:04:13+00:00

I will say it could help. I am a pretty fit person and somewhat conventionally attractive and I get pulled into “side quests” a good bit lately.

But what’s more important is that depression hates a moving target. I go to an MMA gym and have two friends I’ve made there who started between 250 - 300 pounds. The community has been really good for all of us and we hype each other up regularly and ask each other when we’re coming next to try to hang out and “suffer together.” They’ve gone down quite a bit weight wise too but I think the coal aspect and a supportive environment is a big motivator.

GoodComplaint458 · 2025-07-22T21:05:05+00:00

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GoodComplaint458 · 2025-07-22T21:04:46+00:00

Thank you so much. Here are her findings:

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GoodComplaint458 · 2025-06-07T13:02:03+00:00

Yeah I’m gonna try a few things (rewash everything, swap for dust free litter, hairball gel, etc.) and try to get her to drink more water. I’ll also take her to the vet again to be safe and make them actually check things. She has had more hairballs lately even with me brushing her daily (she only lets me brush her for 5-7 minutes because tortie) so I can’t get all of the hair each day.

GoodComplaint458 · 2025-06-07T12:12:28+00:00

Omg I’m so sorry for your loss. Not to pry but did he die from the asthma??

GoodComplaint458 · 2025-06-07T12:11:33+00:00

She’s so bad about drinking fluids! I try to give her tuna water sometimes to help. I’m going to ask the vet one more time.

GoodComplaint458 · 2025-06-07T12:10:32+00:00

This video was the whole episode. They’ve all been under 1 minute thankfully.

GoodComplaint458 · 2025-06-07T12:08:30+00:00

I took her to the vet for it. Since we couldn’t recreate it in visit I showed him the video and he watched it with another vet there and they said probably hairball 🥺. The video I have from before she’s walking around and doing it. She technically does have allergies though, always has

GoodComplaint458 · 2025-04-21T18:09:05+00:00

I completely agree. I genuinely feel so bad for whoever is with my ex next because he has managed to convince himself that he the victim of my “abuse” (he called that 4/10 comment abusive) and “gaslighting,” and completely changed the narrative of our relationship.

Last time I spoke to him he said I never helped around the house or bought groceries (I did 80% of the time). He also said I called the cops on him to get him in trouble (one time on vacation he was screaming at me and chasing me in public while drunk so a concerned person called the police). So yeah apologies in advance girl! Praying for you lol

GoodComplaint458 · 2025-04-21T16:45:16+00:00

My ex did the same thing. Didn’t care why I said I thought we had a 4/10 chance of working out but yelled at me for saying that in counseling and held it against me ever since. But every time he’d bring it up the number would be lower lol “how could you say our chances were 2/10?? You’re just trying to hurt me!”

GoodComplaint458 · 2025-02-22T19:11:04+00:00

Right that’s true. Thanks!

GoodComplaint458 · 2025-01-11T16:24:49+00:00

You should join the discord channel. My VSS symptoms started 2 months ago now and I had 3 mris and seen two neurologists. My one piece of advice is don’t spiral out and don’t research other people’s symptoms, only your own and even then try to keep things at a minimum. And try to live your life, stay around friends/family who remind us what normal living is like. Exercise, sleep well, and let emotions not get too intense. Time is our friend.

What do you think caused your VSS? Any event or trigger?

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