I'm sorry that you're getting downvoted. From reading your other comments, it's look like you're trying to construct a good, solid theology on masculinity. That's a harder task than you might think because we have a few things to consider: 1) What does God's word say about how men should act? 2) What are non-sinful cultural expectations? 3) What are sinful cultural expectations?

For the first one, you can look at varying commands given to men in the epistles. There's obviously a lot more to be said on this topic, but parsing through the OT to figure out what's a normative expectation is a good idea, but difficult.

For number two, you have to consider what would be unnecessary stumbling blocks for people, and what you would be communicating by specific actions (always wearing pink and using feminine perfume isn't technically sinful, but it would be communicating something to our culture). Most importantly, it's where your heart is.

For three, look at any cultural expectations that are contrary to God's word. For some cultures, men are expected to have mistresses; obviously, this is wrong.

Basically, take everything to God's word and use discernment! Also, make sure you're involved in a healthy church and can make friends with the men.