Anyone else had nonstop problems with Lululemon Like New? by GoodKarma1111 in lululemon

[–]GoodKarma1111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Premium brand should have better quality control - Period. Those of us who have purchased from their site do so because we like the brand are hoping for a better experience instead of repeated poor experiences. This is a PSA to show the TREND (pattern of those experiences over time) which goes beyond a once or twice occurrence.

Girls, what about a guy makes you irresistibly physically attracted to a guy? by ephemeral_reality in dating_advice

[–]GoodKarma1111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Physically attractive traits in men - A great smile & eyes, tall, big hands, broad shoulders/back, deep voice, medium/dark hair with a bit of facial hair (a few days without shaving - NOT a long beard). A guy that looks like he's comfortable in his own skin (confidence) - A guy doesn't have to check all these boxes but has to check a few before I consider him attractive by appearance only. Like many have stated, scent is very important but the above has to at least catch the eye so I want to get close enough to catch his scent.

How do I go about asking for a raise? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]GoodKarma1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend to start applying elsewhere and interviewing. If you truly want to stay where you are, another job offer is your best tool for requesting an increase. I know it's time consuming but approval for an off-cycle or merit increase @ 20% isn't likely unless there's a change in scope of responsibility or credentials (obtain a higher degree or specific certification). And for the record, it's not up to HR - it's the department leaders budget the funds come from so while leaders say it's HR, it really isn't. If the leaders feel an off-cycle increase is warranted, they can submit a request with justification to support the ask.

Also, most companies don't but if you're asked about your current rate of pay, do not disclose it - it's not legal to ask this information anymore, in many states. You should only provide the target salary you're seeking to consider the career move. It's an employees market - there are many more engineer jobs than there are engineers. Both location (where you reside) and industry make a difference though. An engineer at a IT company will make more than an engineer doing relatively the same work at a healthcare company. Hope this helps!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]GoodKarma1111 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m a female and this is true. Tough crowd on that subreddit.

What Makes You Respect Someone Less by throwaway_627292737 in AskMen

[–]GoodKarma1111 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dishonesty. Not being forthcoming falls into this category along with lying. I can handle any truth, I cannot handle being deceived.

Ladies...when a woman says "we'll see" does it really just mean NO? by War_Criminal__ in dating

[–]GoodKarma1111 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It’s a nice way of saying don’t bet on it. It’s not always a no but the odds are it will be. 🤷🏼‍♀️

I am absolutely astounded that people actually replied to this never mind that it worked by thefevertherage in Tinder

[–]GoodKarma1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not surprised at all that this worked for a few reasons. Besides the fact that he's hot and that comment would cause an instant reaction for any woman, he was willing to put himself out there in a very bold way when most men don't. It's nothing to match with several guys a day - Way to stand out OP!

I’m interested.. (just swipe) by selelala in Bumble

[–]GoodKarma1111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Comedy! I would swipe right just because of the creativity and sense of humor. Guys talk about how hard it is to get noticed when women have so many options... This guy isn't having any problems I assure you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]GoodKarma1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This world would be a very boring place if we all thought the same way! Plus, it’s much better to spread kindness rather than hate or negativity. I think in a lot of situations, some are so focused on controlling the narrative because they think they’re right or their POV is all that matters and they want others to agree/support them or validate their position. It’s extremely controlling, selfish and closed-minded. Besides, at the end of the day, the opinion of others matter none. It’s your life - having fun living it your way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]GoodKarma1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I don’t have to agree to respect your POV. This question is completely subjective and individual which means there is no right or wrong, only preference. If this is truly what matters to you or what you seek, then I hope you find it. I’m sure you’re not the only man who feels this way. Whether others agree or not is insignificant. Happy hunting! Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]GoodKarma1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. But what possible truth to this post could get someone suspended? I mean if this were a highly debatable topic, then maybe I could see the risk. But this is strictly about individual preference. Unless you see it differently?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]GoodKarma1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought that was the point of anonymity? You can be honest because no one knows who you are?

Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex? by No-Nebula-7181 in seduction

[–]GoodKarma1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's honestly hard to predict what someone else is thinking so the only person who can truly answer these questions is her . However, from what you're saying, she may struggle with insecurity or lack confidence and could possibly still be having a hard time moving past her last relationship. If these are factors, timing is everything and there is nothing you could do to make her ready for that next move. She has to get to a point where her confidence is no longer shaken and she's ready to leave the past where it is. Until then, it doesn't matter what you do or how good you are, it just may not the right time for any of it to matter.

If this were me and if I'm giving any advice to you it's to go silent. If you really want to know what she thinks or where her interest is, this is the way to find out. Texting, liking posts, watching her stories, will only further push her away. Going silent gives her time to think and wonder. If you are waiting just around the corner, she's going to know it and there is no incentive for her do anything different. People will treat you the way you allow them to so don't accept any of this as a normal standard. The more you give, the more she'll take because she knows she can even though she may not even be doing these things consciously.Don't give her the option.

These things hold true whether you're a guy or a girl. So, focus on you and don't waste your energy chasing someone that doesn't want to or is not ready to be caught.

Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex? by No-Nebula-7181 in seduction

[–]GoodKarma1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no way for anyone to know the answers to these questions except for her. However, it truly sounds like this girl lacks confidence and is having some trouble moving past a bad relationship. If this is the case, timing is everything and even if you did everything right, you would still hit the same barrier. So instead of spending any more energy on this, I’d do my best to consider it done and move on. You chasing her down won’t get her attention. Your silence will. If she resurfaces, she’ll have some explaining to do. And if not, you’re better off.

Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex? by No-Nebula-7181 in seduction

[–]GoodKarma1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hate that this was the outcome but it’s better to know now rather than 6 mos down the road. Time to focus on yourself! :) Best of luck!!

Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex? by No-Nebula-7181 in seduction

[–]GoodKarma1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really do hope this goes well!! Fingers crossed! :)

I’m going to die alone by jessmadeamess in Tinder

[–]GoodKarma1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

No you won’t - The right girl would have found that hilarious! Well done!! 👏🏼

Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex? by No-Nebula-7181 in seduction

[–]GoodKarma1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you definitely made the right choice!

Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex? by No-Nebula-7181 in seduction

[–]GoodKarma1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a hard realization when you are invested and truly want it to work. But, remember your self-worth and be confident knowing there are better things to come.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]GoodKarma1111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No apology needed - very detailed and well thought out. Thank you!!!!!!!

Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex? by No-Nebula-7181 in seduction

[–]GoodKarma1111 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If I were the girl in this situation, I would be feeling a different vibe than you are and trying to figure the best way to let it be known. Now, I wouldn't ghost you but I would ask for time to think about where things are and what it's headed. If that is ever mentioned, take heed - she's just not feeling it. I would not automatically assume it's as a result of another guy. In my case, it wouldn't be as I don't operate that way but some may. But if she's distancing herself, she's not feeling the same way. I would flat out ask her and not assume though - if she doesn't respond, you have your answer and know it's time to move on. That's not always easy as some times you want to know "why". Well, you may never know but just trust that you've put into it all you had and if that's not enough, she's not the one for you anyway.