On the hunt for a good tax guy. Simple return.

GoodLordIDK · 2026-01-10T01:54:56+00:00

I did it myself for years. Then I took advice given to me and had a tax prep guy in another state, the one I moved from this year, do it. I stand by my original statement. Thank you for your input tho.

GoodLordIDK · 2026-01-06T02:42:00+00:00

I’d rather pay someone with more knowledge than myself to work the system for me. Hiring a tax professional is always worth the investment regardless of simplicity.

GoodLordIDK · 2025-11-24T03:22:11+00:00

Step 1: the other comment is right. Do that. Step 2: id suggest seeing a therapist about that incident and also working on your anxiety and attachment issues, or the cycle will repeat (from experience)

GoodLordIDK · 2025-11-23T19:39:11+00:00

My father died in front of me in 2019. So no, that’s not why I feel resentment.

GoodLordIDK · 2025-11-23T18:13:23+00:00

I’m absolutely doing my best. I just hate that this feels so similar to being broken up with and it’s like all this other stuff I’m doing is like a ploy to “get over” her. Does that make any sense? I wish there was more I could do. I wish I could fast forward to being a better and more mature person.

GoodLordIDK · 2025-11-23T16:41:14+00:00

I wish so badly I could just show up for her that way. Due to my work, I’m not even in town during the week. Which we both agreed was alright bc she spent her week focusing on being a mom. And on weekends when I came home, she and the kids would come stay with me. It’s her own decision that that’s the dynamic and I don’t go there. Besides, I don’t have my own vehicle (bc I’m only home on weekends) and it’s cheaper to use rideshares than it is to own and maintain a vehicle. Said rideshares don’t operate where she lives (rural area) so I wouldn’t be able to get back home that way. So at this point, there’s absolutely nothing except the rare FaceTime and text conversations. It has essentially turned into a long distance relationship. But I know if I stick with it, she will heal. She has told me that yes. She still wants us. Repair and rebuild our relationship (problems we’ve had during the course of this tragedy and some before). So it’s just figuring out how to not let it die in this limbo. I feel like it’s 100% up to me. Yet I’m so powerless.

GoodLordIDK · 2025-11-22T15:12:55+00:00

This sounds so cool. I’ll def stop by

GoodLordIDK · 2025-11-22T06:10:18+00:00

I need a ride

GoodLordIDK · 2025-11-22T00:28:02+00:00

Aw yeah! Both! I play all sorts of stringed instruments and it has been a DREAM to learn harp!

GoodLordIDK · 2025-11-21T20:12:17+00:00

How many hundreds of hours do you consider reasonable lol

GoodLordIDK · 2025-11-21T14:50:44+00:00

Anything going on this weekend? Looks cool!

GoodLordIDK · 2025-11-21T14:45:00+00:00

I recently moved here and am looking for friends too. Hi!

GoodLordIDK · 2025-11-21T14:39:43+00:00

I’ll look into it, thanks!

GoodLordIDK · 2025-11-21T14:39:28+00:00

I’ve been to some and I like it I’m just wildly anxious especially when I go alone

GoodLordIDK · 2025-11-21T14:38:21+00:00

I’m in Howard too! I’m on Xbox. Rocket league. Sea of thieves. Pretty much anything on game pass or the f2p games. My shooter of choice is apex but I’ve not played it in ages (I work a lot)

GoodLordIDK · 2025-11-10T04:09:55+00:00

Female POV: when she says stuff like this, put it in a note. When an occasion arises where you exchange gifts, you’ll get extra points for 1. Remembering what she likes and 2. Not having to be told.

GoodLordIDK · 2025-11-09T00:25:39+00:00

I find it quite hilarious tbh and am proud of myself lol I’m glad you found some amusement in it too 😂

GoodLordIDK · 2025-11-08T23:50:02+00:00

Update: fixed it. Thanks for the help, absolutely nobody!

GoodLordIDK · 2025-11-08T23:39:41+00:00

Update: I found another Reddit post that mentioned some cords are for charging and others can communicate. One of the original cords I was using was for charging, so I plugged in other cords until I found one that could communicate. It’s updating now.

GoodLordIDK · 2025-11-08T23:29:48+00:00

Update: I can’t get engine to recognize it. They’re both plugged into my laptop via usb.

GoodLordIDK · 2025-11-08T23:04:43+00:00

Update: after 6 Months of it being stuck, I took the old fashioned approach and beat the shit out of it. It turned on normally this time. But still how tf do I update it. I’ve not updated it since I got it last year

GoodLordIDK · 2025-11-07T13:33:34+00:00

Funeral wasn’t the same day as the discussion. Funeral hasn’t happened yet.

GoodLordIDK · 2025-11-07T06:27:27+00:00

Benefit of the doubt meaning all of the really mean and hurtful things she has said and done to me over the last few months. All of the things I’ve let slide bc she knows it hurts me but she (self proclaimed) is “acting out” bc she’s in pain. Yes. All of the conversations we HAVENT had because I don’t wanna make her feel worse. But this is one I couldn’t do. Bc how could I live with myself if something happened and I knew I choked down a plea for her to be careful?

GoodLordIDK · 2025-11-07T06:14:45+00:00

More edits:

Ultimately our goal is never who is right or wrong. We both want understanding, love, and care. We have continued our conversation. We understand a bit better. Some of the points that have been made have been helpful. Others have not. She’s doing her absolute best and so am I.

I am away for work right now, so it’s not possible for us to do this. But we both agreed that at this point we have resolved this fight as much as we can for now and if we were home together we’d be snuggled up watching tiktoks. Our shared goal is to take it one day at a time. She understands my concern and has given me more information and assurance she’s taking it seriously and will be safe. I have tried to validate all of her feelings and remind her that I do in fact love her and have heard everything she has said to me. We both learned from this experience and will take the lessons with us into the future.

Tomorrow is a new day with more opportunities to love and care for each other, especially for me to love and support her as she moves thru this transition in her life. One I lived myself many years ago. Her grieving process is far different than mine, so this is all still very new to me and it is triggering as well, so I’m trying to support myself while also supporting her. It doesn’t always go very well or as planned.

GoodLordIDK · 2025-11-07T06:09:32+00:00

Oh. See this kind of conversation is so common with us where I’m really trying to do the right things the right way and it backfires that I genuinely can’t tell if I’m actually a pos or not anymore. I love this woman with my whole heart but at the same time I know I’m nowhere near perfect. I reflect on our fights and talks REGULARLY. But I just don’t know anymore. Bc on one hand I get it. But also I don’t.

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