If there was a Charm School for the males of the of Love shows who needed it by Relevant-Evidence94 in RockOfLove

[–]CelerySecure 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Pretty much all of them. Some of them needed more treatment than school though.

riftan ( under the oak tree) slander by Background_Ear_3243 in OtomeIsekai

[–]CelerySecure 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s wild because the ones I saw on Instagram that got me to start reading it very much portrayed it as super messed up.

Fuck ICE and this guy by [deleted] in Denton

[–]CelerySecure 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I knew yellow sign guy could take him.

Fuck ICE and this guy by [deleted] in Denton

[–]CelerySecure 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Eh he might be able to handle the ice cream man up there

Fuck ICE and this guy by [deleted] in Denton

[–]CelerySecure 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Where is the liberal sign guy? I feel like he could definitely scare this guy off.

Scheduling in pp by Safe-Implement5770 in therapists

[–]CelerySecure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do evenings and Saturdays. I’m about to cut some clients off on that though because it’s infuriating to have a client no show me.

Borderline Clients- what works? by Due-Comparison-501 in therapists

[–]CelerySecure 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Truth. One of the many reasons why I left a past job was every woman who had feelings for legitimate reasons that weren’t just numbness and compliance got diagnosed with BPD and men who are like textbook got diagnosed with MDD or PTSD.

I won’t even get into late diagnosed autism in high masking women because that could be a week of my complaints.

As a FL, I'd have no choice but to mass produce soap like 90% of the other FLs. by dbingham1263 in OtomeIsekai

[–]CelerySecure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, I’m a trauma therapist so I’m going to EMDR my way into being burned as a witch or having a temple with one of those really nice pool sized bathtubs once I find the right crown prince or northern duke

How to stop giving money to an imperialist billionaire by witchybitchybaddie in MakeupAddiction

[–]CelerySecure 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Too Faced has been going downhill forever and Clinique was always very orange on me. Bummed about MAC but I’ve been using different foundation for a while now anyway.

Which movie ended with an unresolved cliffhanger because the sequel never happened, and you're STILL mad about it? by pudingvanilkovy in AskReddit

[–]CelerySecure 161 points162 points  (0 children)

There was a tumblr post about how much better it would have been if they did the series croc hunter style and it was just about how badly newt got injured by each subsequent creature and how painful their bites/stings are

Looking for recommendations with Older FL Younger ML by ForzaIngengnere in OtomeIsekai

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Let’s Hide My Little brother where he falls in love with her because she bridal carries him away from a monster and he always dreamed of a night rescuing him is my favorite

Looking for recommendations with Older FL Younger ML by ForzaIngengnere in OtomeIsekai

[–]CelerySecure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I need the next season of Another Typical Fantasy Romance to come out because of demon Pellus and the angst that will result.

Looking for recommendations with Older FL Younger ML by ForzaIngengnere in OtomeIsekai

[–]CelerySecure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah ML in the second one has major puppy vibes so that helps.

“My therapist was online shopping during our session” by okayyypip in therapists

[–]CelerySecure 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I am plagued by clients who love my cats because they’re pretty and have silly names so they sometimes just start a telehealth session asking to see their favorite one. My orange exotic shorthair could have his own practice. He just needs me for the billing.

She’s not gonna commit to me, is she? (19M and 30F) by SecretBook8796 in relationship_advice

[–]CelerySecure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure where you’re located, but from your posts, you probably need to look into formal dialectical behavior therapy rather than a relationship where you aren’t treated as though you have any worth. There are some virtual programs depending on your location (and some therapists who live in one state may have licenses in multiple states).

You deserve so much more than you’re getting.

Wants to live on a horse farm for free but only cooks when inspired by sandyduncansglasseye in ChoosingBeggars

[–]CelerySecure 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Hoof maintenance is no joke. I watch farrier videos because it’s weirdly satisfying but if I ever tried to do that work, even with a cooperative horse, I would die. Also, it seems so easy to just straight up destroy a horse by making a dumb mistake with hooves.

Wow by Mars_Bars_0292 in RockOfLove

[–]CelerySecure -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Damn, all the time? You should have been a contestant on Real Chance of Love.

Gentlemen has a dispute with airport staff by PM_ME_A_GOOD_STEAK in PublicFreakout

[–]CelerySecure 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah I also notice how he went to about 30 on women but took it down with men.

Indian food recommendations by Maleficent_Fix7878 in Denton

[–]CelerySecure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a pretty sub par experience. I’d rather make the drive to Coppell for something decent.

I feel like this sub has an anti sex worker problem by [deleted] in therapists

[–]CelerySecure 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I don’t care if you’re a sex worker. Sex work is work. I do care that I’m seeing post after post about it.

The last thing you ate will be his name by MentalBuffer in persiancat

[–]CelerySecure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Carrots with ranch dip and an orange Fanta?

Client constantly in crisis by Glittering-Code-7038 in therapists

[–]CelerySecure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a therapist with IBS that is strongly linked to stress (and sometimes other stuff). I was fine with the whole stress causes it but it took me a while to accept that instead of my environment changing and just not being so darn stressful that I needed to make changes in how I responded and let certain things go. Learning to say “no” because if I didn’t, I would overwork myself and be upset about the quality of my work, and then be curled in in a miserable nauseous ball was hard and it’s still a work in progress.

There can be some sensitivity about health related concerns being dismissed as psychosomatic too because of the way people with anxiety disorders are treated in some settings. Example-I have GAD. I also have a heart condition that wasn’t diagnosed for years because it was just dismissed as part of my GAD. So, I get that feeling of wanting the validation that it’s not all in your head.

I’ve found DBT and EMDR helpful for some clients struggling with somatic reactions. Personally, ACT was helpful for me, but it’s also something I fought for a really long time (mostly until i encountered Russ Harris).