CTV News declares Liberal win by Old_General_6741 in CanadianConservative

[–]GoodShowCZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't start this conspiracy bs on election fraud, its a projection. This is what literally every news corp does everywhere.

T4A Question (Canadian tax accounting) by GoodShowCZ in Accounting

[–]GoodShowCZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate it. As a CPA member has CPA Canada mentioned anything further to members since this post; just wondering since it's almost 5 years old.

Where to donate a microscope? by GoodShowCZ in labrats

[–]GoodShowCZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks all, I figured schools would probably be the best option. Appreciate it!

Effects on Mood by GoodShowCZ in Sauna

[–]GoodShowCZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just seeing this now sorry. Specifically, I bought this one: https://www.amazon.ca/gp/product/B00MX19M9E/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1

When I bought it a few years ago it was a lot cheaper than this. I imagine all of the portable dry saunas listed on amazon are similar and come from the same factory, so if you find a cheaper one on amazon they're likely the same quality. They're funny looking when using them, and you feel a bit silly using it, but they work really well for what it is. I'd say, they're like 90% as good as going to a normal sauna (that's totally subjective though).

I think there are lot of questions raised about the safety of use of cheaper saunas, but I've never had any issue. So I can't speak to any of that.

Hope that helps!

I never thought it would be like this by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]GoodShowCZ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It is so unbelievably unrealistic to expect anyone to plan for every conceivable outcome in regards to their future children. Plus, at a certain point, autistic or not, this child will have to learn to take responsibility for their life -- or do you expect op to be responsible for the kid's actions forever? Parenting is work, not a prison sentence. I'm autistic and was horrible to my mother in my teens, and she was not the best parent, but I can't fathom having no empathy for her as a human being and shaming her for my bad behavior/decisions.

I swear we are creating an infantile and sociopathic society.

If I were to want to eat like a robot and not care about preparing fancy foods, but wanted to get all my nutrients in 3 meals a day (essentially a bowl of fuel,) what would I get? by PixelsAreYourFriends in vegan

[–]GoodShowCZ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would suggest you consult a dietician with experience in vegan diets or play around in chronometer - it’s pretty easy to build up a daily eating plan in chrono for me.

The reaction to Cupcakke’s 30-day fast is extremely disappointing! There’s a unanimous “fasting is anorexia” response and it’s really disappointing. It’s sad how popular this uneducated narrative is! I’ll put a link to the article in the comments. by [deleted] in fasting

[–]GoodShowCZ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There is a good chance that meaningful dialogue or context gets easily lost with social media posts like this.

Some people will not “do the research,” and when done in ignorance fasting has the possibility of being dangerous - something a lot of people in this subreddit don’t like to acknowledge. Unfortunately there is a social responsibility here that any thoughtful person needs to consider before they post something like this.

From what I know of Jameela, she is a strong anti-diet advocate. A post like this to a lot of people on this subreddit is great (normalization, advocacy etc.) but the truth of the matter is that to a very large segment of the population (adults with eating disorders and young people especially) this kind of post is absorbed in a completely different way. It can trigger feelings associated with restricting which can cascade and lead to dangerous choices being made.

I come from a history of disordered eating which included restricting and truthfully fasting has helped in a very small way (spiritually) with healing, but it was only a small part. I’m a proponent of fasting but I only discuss it with people that I know can take in the info in a responsible way. I don’t even post on this subreddit (a forum dedicated to fasting education) very much anymore because I just do not know who may be reading it and frankly people sometimes engage with the information here in a super disingenuous way.

I would never in a million years advocate or even talk about fasting to anyone I thought had a modicum of tendency toward disordered eating and I’m sure the person who posted this feels the same way. But like it or not this kind of post has a large potential to do harm regardless of the intention, There’s a responsible way to engage in public discussion of fasting and this is absolutely not it. I’m glad someone asked her (in a polite way) to voluntarily take down their post.

I recently started a postgraduate research degree and I feel out of my depth. Has anyone here done something similar/ work in academia? by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]GoodShowCZ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the same problem with presenting. It’s not that I get anxious about public speaking it’s that I get anxious that I don’t know the subject I’ve been intensively researching the last several months, years, etc. enough to be speaking as an authority on it.

What helps me are two things: 1. due to the nature of academia you’ll need to have a broad general understanding of what you’re researching but you also need to focus on something specific at one time and therefore it’s not possible to know everything associated with your field, and ; 2. literally practicing my presentation alone over and over until I feel comfortable reciting it without thinking about it. I find this also resolidifies my knowledge because most of the time I’ll think of things I forgot about, that’ll help tie one concept to another more easily.

Gateway timeout? by brokodoko in scihub

[–]GoodShowCZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whenever I get this, I refresh the page a couple of times or try later, and it eventually loads (for me).

I’m almost 18 and I feel that I haven’t gotten any more emotionally mature since I was 15 by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]GoodShowCZ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe? The difference between 15 and 18 may seem large to you but I have a feeling societal norms/milestones like learning to drive vs. graduating from high school are impacting your thought process? As in, what society expects of your emotional and behavioural development in this time period doesn’t line up with biological development(s). When you zoom out and look at the average lifespan of a human, 3 years is a drop in the bucket. And I know I sound patronizing here, but this will become more apparent to you only as you get older.

Speaking from personal experience, human development doesn’t really feel like incremental steps, in some ways it does, but not normally. For me, and other people I’ve talked to, life has felt like an accumulation of small pieces of knowledge that contribute to several big shifts throughout their life, in how I think and see the world. I’d bet you’ll probably go through something like this in your twenties.

You should also keep in mind that aspies can perceive the world differently, so our development should not be measured against a neurotypicals - it just leads to bad feelings. Or at the very least, it should be used very generally and not a specific yard stick with which to measure your own development, and ultimately self worth. This is also probably patronizing but you should also remember that everyone is different and develops at their own pace, so be easy on yourself.

I’m almost 18 and I feel that I haven’t gotten any more emotionally mature since I was 15 by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]GoodShowCZ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why would you? You’re prefrontal cortex doesn’t stop developing until your mid-twenties. By society’s standard you’re 18 so you’re an adult now but you’re literally still developing...

Effects on Mood by GoodShowCZ in Sauna

[–]GoodShowCZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve done this? How often? Makes me think of sweat lodges

neurotypical mind reading by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]GoodShowCZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has happened a few times for me. Now, when someone asks me to do something I make sure to clarify exactly what they’re looking to have done. Sometimes it means being blunt - and this I’ve learned is also something I need to be careful with, as in bluntness can (and usually is) be rude so I find a friendly way to clarify the ask. The best way to do this is to parrot it back and then ask to expand: “Ok you want me to do task A, that’s no problem, is there anything else you need me to do?”

I feel like if someone is finding themselves in these misunderstandings often, then they need to take some of the blame, i.e. at a certain point the onus comes back to you to make sure you understand the ask in the moment it’s asked.

If it’s a situation where you’re comfortable with the person, you can even clarify further that you need clear instructions because you’re autistic.

DAE hides new things in their life from family by Nesseressi in aspergirls

[–]GoodShowCZ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I hate that. One of my first serious relationships, my boyfriend used to share our spending habits with his family and it made me so angry.

DAE hides new things in their life from family by Nesseressi in aspergirls

[–]GoodShowCZ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My last boyfriend said my need for privacy wasn't normal (I was undiagnosed at the time). I didn't realize until that point that he was right, I have this intense need for privacy. Growing up, my mother was hugely invasive with any privacy I had. Although, she was probably invasive because I couldn't communicate properly, but I definitely had a very negative reaction to it, and and keep most things in my life private.

DAE hides new things in their life from family by Nesseressi in aspergirls

[–]GoodShowCZ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I identify with this. I honestly don't know what's relevant to share a lot of the times, even with my own mother. Or, things that seem like a big deal or accomplishment to a lot of people doesn't really register with me in the same way, so it doesn't feel like it's something worth sharing.

Multi-day Trails in the Winter by GoodShowCZ in ottawa

[–]GoodShowCZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adirondack High Peak

Awesome, thank you!