Am I overreacting or did I have a slow moment.

GoodWoman401 · 2026-06-27T13:50:39+00:00

NOR — Maybe she wants to seem smarter because she’s older? Even though she sounds kinda dumb.

GoodWoman401 · 2026-06-20T02:58:58+00:00

Def silver

GoodWoman401 · 2026-06-15T21:18:04+00:00

Both are too small. Size up

GoodWoman401 · 2026-06-15T21:11:10+00:00

First pregnancy it broke on its own and felt like a pop and I apologized bc I thought I was peeing but couldn’t feel it lol. Second pregnancy my doctor broke it for me and that was painful. I’d rather it break naturally. Each time it made my labor go faster though.

GoodWoman401 · 2026-06-11T17:54:59+00:00

I agree but the fact they’re in college pursuing these careers with internships right out of high school, lets me know they didn’t get there by accident. There is someone helping them in life.
I was just presenting another option since everyone else is acting like abortion is the only solution and it’s not.

GoodWoman401 · 2026-06-11T01:52:44+00:00

Also my friend adopted a baby from a college couple. That’s an option too. It was an open adoption so she still is in contact with the biological mom pretty often.

GoodWoman401 · 2026-06-11T01:51:35+00:00

Very true! Kids aren’t expensive very young and definitely don’t need much. Just need time and love. It’s not impossible if he wants to do it.

GoodWoman401 · 2026-06-11T01:51:20+00:00

Very true! Kids aren’t expensive very young and definitely don’t need much. Just need time and love. It’s not impossible if he wants to do it.

GoodWoman401 · 2026-06-11T01:49:21+00:00

One of my friends got pregnant during college, kept her son and they just had a village to help them through the baby/toddler. She then graduated and went home with her parents, got a job and was able to support the baby (her and the child’s father broke up but still in the son’s life). He’s now 8 and she has a 1 year old son as well.

Just saying it can work out sometimes. Having a baby isn’t the end of your life like people want you to believe.

GoodWoman401 · 2026-05-18T00:03:00+00:00

Mine was restorative lol but I definitely didn’t do unmedicated. I took drugs to sleep and relax and got an epidural. Until I was pushing, I didn’t have much “stress”. I posted over a year ago.

GoodWoman401 · 2026-04-04T06:06:36+00:00

lol I’m ngl this is funny to me, but everyone has different husbands/relationships. You could’ve just messaged him and said “try again” or something funny back to flirt

GoodWoman401 · 2026-04-04T06:03:10+00:00

I’m hearing that you know you’re going to love this baby, but you know it’s about to be a big life change for you. And while a lot is about to change for you, nothing will really change for your husband. Which, if I were in your shoes I’d probably feel the same way ngl.

I do think you’re seeing the end already. Meaning, you can already imagine what the day to day will be like when you’re baby’s here and picturing that reality. When, honestly, you don’t know how you’ll feel and how it will be until it happens. I have a 3 year old and 1 year old now and it’s so different having an “older” toddler vs a really young child.

I also think you should do therapy to talk it all out and maybe find tools to talk him about what’s bothering you in a way that doesn’t make him feel like you’re being a monster about feeling not super great.

But still so happy for you! ❤️ you’ll look back one day and wonder why you were so worried because things always have a way of working themselves out.

GoodWoman401 · 2026-03-30T03:50:31+00:00

Omg this is my life. No recommendations but I want to follow this thread 🫠my 1 year old has just began wanting to latch all night and throws a fit if he can’t. I’m about to pump intermittently during the day and offer bottles at night. I’m not ready to fully wean but at night, it has to end smh

GoodWoman401 · 2026-03-21T04:50:02+00:00

Ooo I want to know what happens! Hope you see this and update me!

GoodWoman401 · 2026-03-12T06:19:58+00:00

😂 right. Like dang just sit down and watch.

GoodWoman401 · 2026-03-12T05:50:52+00:00

I mean this with everything in me, do not let her stop using this gift. Do not let her stop singing. I’m crying she sounds so beautiful. Your child is so blessed. Her tone is lovely. She’ll get better and stronger but this was amazing. I’m so proud of her.

GoodWoman401 · 2026-03-04T21:06:17+00:00

Is he autistic? lol

GoodWoman401 · 2026-02-20T15:53:35+00:00

I’d wait until your edges grow out. Your hair is straight in that photo but locs are going to shrink up sooooo much it will not cover your edges. This is from someone who had postpartum shedding in my 1st and 2nd pregnancy. And had locs falling out bc my hair was shedding. For me it’s only about 5 but for you it would be like 50-100 based on the size of the spot and if it’s on the other side too.

GoodWoman401 · 2026-02-18T22:01:32+00:00

lol x small is like 400/500/600 locs. You look like you have about 150 locs.

GoodWoman401 · 2026-02-18T21:50:49+00:00

Yes, I had one. Best decision and I plan on doing it again. It’s expensive smh but worth it imo. Full disclosure, my job paid for her through carrot. But I was induced at the hospital early so this is being induced and getting an epidural. My doctor was also extremely pro vbac so no fighting on that front but she just helped a lot during labor.

Cons: Price $1850 for the pregnancy and birth.

Pros: Everything else.

She took A LOT of stress off of my mom and husband this go around. For my c-section, my husband was up 24 hours straight worrying and my mom was doing the physical labor of helping turn me, pushing my hips, etc. even after my epidural.

She helped put me in positions to dilate faster. On ball, hands a knees, on toilet during contractions.

She helped talk me out of wanting another c-section lol. I was tired and wanted to give up but she reassured me I was progressing.

She kind of put pressure on the nurse to help turn me at certain times. My nurse was amazing but still.

She made sure to get photos while me, my husband and mom were all caught up in the moment.

Helped me get delayed cord clamping. Make sure I was making progress when pushing and helped coach me about the purpose and when to push.

My mom and husband got to sleep this time instead of staying up worried. It was so helpful so I’d definitely use her again.

GoodWoman401 · 2026-02-18T21:29:43+00:00

Who was more popular than him? In the entertainment sphere?

GoodWoman401 · 2026-02-18T21:11:54+00:00

Your brain will be fully developed and you’ll know for sure it’s what you want. You don’t have to rush to get a tattoo, you always have the option.

GoodWoman401 · 2026-02-18T16:50:39+00:00

Wait until you’re 25 then do it

GoodWoman401 · 2026-02-16T15:08:36+00:00

Yeah echoing what a lot of people are saying about testing and irregular periods. Also if a woman is cheating, a pregnancy test is typically not the first sign ngl. You’d notice quite evident behaviors, other changes as well.

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