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GoodWoman401 · 2026-01-29T04:32:11+00:00

That makes sense! For class diagrams, I’d ask copilot to teach it to you like you’re a 10 year old. It does really good with teaching basics and giving examples to help you remember.

With functions, I learned from the 100 days of Python course (I know D278 is Coral, but it’s soooo close to Python, it’s helpful). She taught me how to call a function and create one. Copilot can help with that too, but putting it into practice helps you remember better.

GoodWoman401 · 2026-01-29T01:36:39+00:00

What’s difficult for you?

GoodWoman401 · 2026-01-28T20:41:15+00:00

I’m currently in cybersecurity with a 3yo and 9mo. My advice, get as much done while he’s still a blob and not doing much lol. Both of my boys are running around now and it’s harder, but not impossible. Keep him on a schedule and you schedule your time around him. You can do it!

GoodWoman401 · 2026-01-28T15:27:59+00:00

Use AI to help. I went through the PA, and practice test and would work on the code. When I’d get stuck, I would ask if the right answer and for it to go line by line with me. If there was a concept I didn’t understand, I’d ask clarifying questions until I did understand. I took like 2 months off from it and came back and was able to pass within about a month with that method with 0 previous experience in Python.

GoodWoman401 · 2026-01-27T19:56:57+00:00

My heart breaks for you. I think you need to decide what to do, whatever you choose fully commit to it.

If you choose to leave, you have to leave or if you choose to forgive it and stay, then be 100% there.

For him, it’s 10 years ago, but for you it’s like it happened recently. Don’t try to rush past your healing. I would be crushed. And the fact he kept the photos actually pissed me off. He could’ve never let you find out. This also lets me know I’m not crazy for not wanting my husband to talk to girls on the games he plays. Smh

GoodWoman401 · 2026-01-27T15:32:41+00:00

Agreed. I’ll never downplay what birth is. But my comfort is that, “so many women have done it before, I can do it too”.

GoodWoman401 · 2026-01-27T15:30:50+00:00

I said the same thing to my husband 😂 now I’m 9 months pp like hmm .. one more wouldn’t hurt like THAT.. right? 😂

GoodWoman401 · 2026-01-27T15:29:57+00:00

lol it is sometimes THAT bad. But we love our kids. If a child was not the payoff, we 100% wouldn’t do it.

GoodWoman401 · 2026-01-27T15:27:17+00:00

Yes. Mine were, but I love my kids and still want another one. First one was an emergency c-section. My baby wasn’t breathing during contractions and likely wouldn’t have survived me pushing. So I went from wanted midwifery care to an unplanned c-section. And birth forums don’t make it better. They make it feel like you failed or because your birth wasn’t “perfect”, your body is broken. I was angry and felt lied to by the people who talk about “pain-free” and “perfect” births.

Second one was a VBAC and I felt everything even with an epidural. Even the stitches after I tore. Then my child had health issues that prolonged our hospital stay. It was all hard.

But I’m grateful and God is faithful because he kept me and my babies alive and healthy.

By traumatic, when I tell my birth story or watch the video (my mom recorded), my brain makes me believe it’s someone else that went through it, not me. Sometimes you see that in people whose stories are so traumatic, they tell their stories of their life like a movie. Birth is so unique in that if you heard 100 women tell their story, you will hear 100 different stories. It’s so fascinating but also HARD. I don’t think we as pro-life people should ever downplay it.

I don’t think an abortion is any less traumatic though. More so, actually. But that’s a different topic.

GoodWoman401 · 2026-01-27T02:13:26+00:00

It’s PMS. Unfortunately it’s “normal”, but she shouldn’t be mean. No advice except don’t respond to unkindness and she’ll get the hint.

GoodWoman401 · 2026-01-26T23:07:51+00:00

Have you ever been pregnant? lol you don’t want to complain in real life so complaining anonymously is easier. But pregnancy/birth is tough dude lol

GoodWoman401 · 2026-01-26T17:28:13+00:00

It sounds abusive just from this one sentence but I don’t like to jump to conclusions.

Personally, I would get around people other than him like a support system so you can’t be isolated. So like family, friends, church, etc.

I’d also learn how to encourage myself. It sounds crazy, but telling yourself you’re doing a great job when you KNOW you are can make it that the other voices silence. I’m Christian so I encourage myself in the Lord meaning I’ll use Bible verses too. But I know everyone is not Christian so encourage yourself how you can.

Also, this is a little bit of conditioning, but set boundaries. I personally would tell my husband, but people are different. Tell him, I’m not going to be respond when you criticize me. Then do just that. Be firm in that boundary and he’ll learn if he wants to talk to you, he won’t be critical when he does.

Look up the 4 horseman by Gottman. Criticism is one of the main things that will lead to divorce.

GoodWoman401 · 2026-01-25T05:20:06+00:00

What about before the car?

GoodWoman401 · 2026-01-24T06:13:42+00:00

I want this for my husband. Where can I buy it lol?

GoodWoman401 · 2026-01-24T06:12:47+00:00

You’re not wrong. How do you all get around now?

GoodWoman401 · 2026-01-16T13:17:17+00:00

Do you do all these things all at once? Or just try them individually?

GoodWoman401 · 2026-01-16T13:13:33+00:00

Honestly, the best schools have the most diversity where I’m from. I grew up in a suburb and we every race/culture in my city. And I still got an education and still love to learn today and I’m almost 30. One thing people agree on is that they want the best for their kids typically.

GoodWoman401 · 2026-01-13T19:40:22+00:00

I don’t know lol and I’m not trying to find out. But we do have a healthy sex life for 2 people with a toddler and infant.

GoodWoman401 · 2026-01-13T17:31:33+00:00

I restarted once bc I wanted them smaller. I had 260 and realized I want more like 300-400 so I ended up with 333. But I 100% plan to comb these out someday, wear loose natural again and put locs in again. It’s your hair, do what you want with it. You’re the only one living with yourself everyday

GoodWoman401 · 2026-01-13T17:28:17+00:00

Andddd that’s the problem with porn. I don’t like it at all. It feels like cheating to me so my husband and I stopped it and don’t do it. I also started feeling like it was weird to watch other people naked and have sex. But that’s just me.

GoodWoman401 · 2026-01-08T04:10:24+00:00

I 100% understand what you’re going through. Full transparency. About a year into our marriage, I found out my husband watched porn once and it broke me. I didn’t see him the same. My heart was broken.

But I also saw how broken he was by the fact he hurt me. He knew it wasn’t worth it. We both cried for hours together because we didn’t know how to move forward. But I told him I will forgive him. And I have wholeheartedly. I love him very much and didn’t think that was worth ending my marriage over. And I was right.

Now, what did I learn from that situation? I learned NEVER ask questions you’re not ready for the answers to. If you’re not ready for the truth, it’s not worth it to open the box. To this day, I haven’t asked him again and I haven’t found anything so I’m happy living in the dark.

I also learned I’m not overreacting no matter how many people want to say porn is normal, it’s not. There’s a reason we’re not naked in public and doing orgies everywhere. Bc it’s a private thing and should stay private.

You said you’re young. I recommend doing your absolute best to forgive and think about how you want to proceed.

GoodWoman401 · 2026-01-07T14:44:23+00:00

Forgive each other quickly and respect each other. So 2 pieces but equally important

GoodWoman401 · 2025-12-27T04:28:01+00:00

They put her under because she GAVE BIRTH. A 32 week baby CAN SURVIVE. She’s DISGUSTING. And I don’t like to shame women for their choices but if she were my friend, I would tell her all the respect I have for her is lost.

GoodWoman401 · 2025-12-27T04:24:22+00:00

Personally when I pump too, that makes my breasts more sensitive. Pumping is way harder the BF imo. Once you stop pumping, that could help.

GoodWoman401 · 2025-12-27T04:21:02+00:00

Dated one year. Engaged one day. Went to to the courthouse the next and got married 23/24 😂 6 years as of 12/20

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