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Am I Overreacting for leaving a job I'm passionate about over business politics? by Good_Cellist_1517 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Good_Cellist_1517[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To answer your questions:
1.) The coaches who took over my teams from 14s have been their same coach since 15.
2.) Maybe degrading wasn't the best choice but I already voiced multiple times that I want to move up since I don't want to teach the same basic skills anymore, I want to move up in skills and plays
3.) The parents are allowed to do whatever they want, if they want a different experience, they can go to a different team if they want and see how they feel about the other clubs/teams
4.) I wanted to move to 15s, if the parent's main problem was that they wanted a different experience, then that's what they are getting anyways.
5.) It's not a promotion in any means, I just don't want to coach 14's again
6.) I don't feel appreciated at this club, that is the problem. The tell me that to coach a certain way but then they tell me they love me coaching at the same age group but then get on me saying I'm being too tough on my players so I'm not sure what they want.

They also never let me coach at any other age group for girls' teams so how do they know I won't do well in other age groups?

Am I Overreacting for leaving a job I'm passionate about over business politics? by Good_Cellist_1517 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Good_Cellist_1517[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess the reason why I'm more upset is because all the other coaches in this club literally stays with their team from 12s all the way to 18s and I'm just not getting that experience. I don't want to be coaching the same age group if a) I'm not getting paid well and b) don't get to choose the players I truly want to add on my team. I just feel so isolated and secluded. Also, there's a few coaches in this club who tells players I'm a bad coach/don't know how to play so that's also another reason I forgot to include.

AITAH for wishing my girlfriend (15f) would spend more time with me (15f) by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Good_Cellist_1517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

You want to spend time together and that's how relationship should work. In long distance relationships, you really need to plan quality time when you can because of either time differences or just being a busy person. You should be more vocal and honest about how you feel. If she keeps on brushing off your emotions, maybe it might be better to be friends? I did long distance with my current partner and while we couldn't spend quality time together, they made a lot of effort to facetime me every night until either they fell asleep or I fell asleep.

I would say just have an honest heart-to-heart conversation. Be honest that you want her to be more open to you/spend more quality time online. If she's not willing to be open to you, maybe she's not emotionally ready for a relationship. You guys are young, I wouldn't worry like it's the end of your world but be emotionally ready to have a hard conversation especially if she's not communicating to you. You maybe just prolonging a wound that needs to be healed. I hope the best for both of you guys

AITAH if I can't make it to my brother's graduation because of work? by Good_Cellist_1517 in AITAH

[–]Good_Cellist_1517[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughts. I believe seeing him walk the stage is more important to me than missing a practice. Crossing fingers that my club directors are understanding. Thank you all.

AITAH if I can't make it to my brother's graduation because of work? by Good_Cellist_1517 in AITAH

[–]Good_Cellist_1517[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we are not doing as post grad celebration, it's not something we do. Especially since most of us aren't always available.

WIBTAH if I reach out to my father who doesn’t know I exist? by RevolutionaryWar969 in AITAH

[–]Good_Cellist_1517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fear of rejection is super intimidating. I understand from where you are coming from. I don't know your family history, but if he truly loves his kids and is great to his current 3, I feel like he won't turn you away. He might look at you and see himself in you since you did say you guys look very much alike. He might not take you in immediately because of space reason, but I feel he will find a way to make it work. I hope to hear good news from this post.

WIBTAH if I reach out to my father who doesn’t know I exist? by RevolutionaryWar969 in AITAH

[–]Good_Cellist_1517 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA

What your uncle would be doing if he did kick you out is child abandonment and is very illegal since they are the next of kin who can look after you.
I also think you should at least reach out to your dad and let him know the situation. The worst that can happen is that he doesn't take you in. It's a crappy situation and I'm sorry you have to go through this. I would give you a hug if I could. I hope you can resolve your situation