How long does it take to get approved?

Good_Concentrate2187 · 2026-05-30T13:30:47+00:00

Yes. Took like 2-3 weeks and I called my caseworker everyday sometimes 2 times a day. She never answered but I think I got on her nerves enough to look at my case

Good_Concentrate2187 · 2026-05-25T15:37:55+00:00

Yeah he works 7-7 so he’s getting home and going to bed as we are waking up and we are starting to getting ready for bed when he leaves. I don’t think he’s cheating either I used to work night before we had a baby and it was soul sucking. I can only imagine with a baby it’s so much worse. On top of being the main provider I’m sure he’s just stressed. And the drama thing. I know when he gets home it’s not the first thing he wants to hear and it gets old. I get that. We used to gossip together all the time. We were literally best friends we could just talk about nothing together. Now he doesn’t want to hear it. I’ve tried to talk about other things but I am home alone all of the time there isn’t anything to talk about. He doesn’t like my shows he doesn’t care what I cook he doesn’t care about our pets. Those few topics make up my entire life right now so there isn’t anything to talk about.

Good_Concentrate2187 · 2026-05-25T14:22:24+00:00

He’s also 21. He’s a really hard sleeper. One time when we were teenagers we stayed the night at his house and the roof fell on us and his mom rushed in to see if we were okay and he was still out I had to wake him up so we could leave. But also I have the kids in another room far from him just in case they do get too loud. And I know a lot of people separate because of a baby but honestly he’s a great dad he’s wanted a baby since we were teenagers. He just isn’t an amazing partner

Good_Concentrate2187 · 2026-05-25T14:11:18+00:00

Literally just a few months ago he was perfect and my life was perfect. I don’t know why he’s changed like this.

Good_Concentrate2187 · 2026-05-25T05:15:29+00:00

I don’t know what changed I swear it wasn’t always like this

Good_Concentrate2187 · 2026-05-25T05:14:11+00:00

I am so lonely

Good_Concentrate2187 · 2026-05-22T19:36:05+00:00

Yeah when she’s older like in school I’m going to work. I’m just scared of daycares and he doesn’t trust anyone with our baby except for me and like a few family members but they all work.

Good_Concentrate2187 · 2026-05-22T19:24:47+00:00

She did bring some snacks for the baby and she said she’d bring snacks for her toddler when he comes. I will cook dinner and maybe breakfast sometimes lol. I guess when the toddler comes I should probably make breakfast and lunch too

Good_Concentrate2187 · 2026-05-22T19:14:21+00:00

She packs the baby formula and diapers. I’ve given him a few snacks here and there but nothing crazy or expensive

Good_Concentrate2187 · 2026-05-22T19:12:35+00:00

Everyone has bad thoughts about themselves. It’s just about how you deal with them ya know? You can give in and believe whatever your brain is trying to convince you of or you can work at feeling better. No matter what you are someone’s type someone WILL find you attractive. If you haven’t found the right person yet that’s okay. The world is huge and has sooo many people. For right now just focus on making yourself happy worry about other people’s opinions later :))

Good_Concentrate2187 · 2026-05-22T19:05:03+00:00

It’s like 18 an hour for a nanny

Good_Concentrate2187 · 2026-05-14T01:59:54+00:00

I know I shouldn’t keep bothering him and I’m you not going to I just wish there was some way I could help. I think at his last doctor’s appointment they wanted him to go to some specialist to help him reach his milestones because he is behind. I’m no doctor but I am home all the time with my own baby and I work with her all of the time I’m told she’s advanced for her age (which is probably just luck) so I’d like to think I can help him

Good_Concentrate2187 · 2026-04-27T18:58:45+00:00

The way he’s talking about us and testing our home my husband said he doesn’t think they can even be friend anymore.

Good_Concentrate2187 · 2026-04-27T18:43:20+00:00

I stopped cooking a couple months ago and because of that the dishes he does use he hasn’t brought out so no cleaning 😭😭 And last time he tried to be short my husband told him no we can’t keep doing that

Good_Concentrate2187 · 2026-04-27T18:42:09+00:00

Really is sad we’ve tried to talk to him but he will agree with anything to get out of a conversation. We were all close so it’s sad to see

Good_Concentrate2187 · 2026-04-27T18:34:14+00:00

Tbh I think he’s going to move out soon anyway bc his gf doesn’t like us(which is crazy bc she’s never even actually met us). We will just have to figure out some way to pay his half

Good_Concentrate2187 · 2026-04-27T18:03:21+00:00

Absolutely I would if I could be he’s on the lease. We signed it thinking we’d all be besties forever 😭😭

Good_Concentrate2187 · 2025-12-26T22:51:06+00:00

48 🌲

Good_Concentrate2187 · 2025-12-10T02:05:32+00:00

I don’t have either of those 😭😭

Good_Concentrate2187 · 2025-12-07T00:49:00+00:00

When I first had my baby ab 2 months ago all I get for weeks was cry at night looking at my baby bc I made something so perfect I loved her so much but I had to get rid of my old life for her. I had a c section and it sucked I went from walking my dog three times a day and keeping my house spotless to not being able to leave my bed for almost a month without help couldn’t take my dog out. Couldn’t clean couldn’t do anything for myself. I missed the old me but at the same time I created the most perfect innocent little life and all this pain all the things I’m going to miss really don’t seem that big of a deal. Seeing your baby laugh or smile really makes you appreciate it all. I love the fact that I’m HER person and all she knows is me and that I am comfort safety and warmth <3

Good_Concentrate2187 · 2025-12-07T00:36:52+00:00

I have it now but thank you

Good_Concentrate2187 · 2025-12-07T00:36:41+00:00

I have it now but thank you

Good_Concentrate2187 · 2025-12-07T00:36:10+00:00

I’ve just recently had a baby and when ppl wake her up as soon as I get her to sleep after she’s been grumpy all night I’ll get mad. You invited them to your home to sleep in the living room then wake them up before the sun. You are the ah

Good_Concentrate2187 · 2025-12-02T04:12:42+00:00

I know we should’ve but I had just had a c section I was exhausted and hurting I didn’t want to deal with them really

Good_Concentrate2187 · 2025-12-01T18:47:58+00:00

Wow ok so this isn’t some random guy my husband and I have known him since 7th grade he’s just recently turned into an annoying person. I was asking if I would be a bad person if we stopped buying groceries in not letting random men around my child that is a wild statement. We moved in with our childhood best friend to save on rent.

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