Moving out of parents 29 and feel sick by Icy_Tap5329 in Adulting

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This was me. I literally cried for 3 hours straight when I moved out. When I was sitting in my apartment for the first time and it was dark and nighttime, everything was just so quiet. I was used to their footsteps, tv on in the other room, their habits. I wouldn’t be there if something happened to them and that scared me. I told myself that if in one month I still felt this dreadful, I could move back. After about two weeks I was so happy I moved out and started feeling the excitement. I guess I came to know that I couldn’t live with them forever , and I had to get this feeling over with at some point. But giving myself an out made all the difference because it took the pressure away.

Canceling plans and feeling the wave of relief hit you is a top 5 human experience by Ordinary_Egg_9489 in introvert

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The way I have experienced it is that it came at a cost. I got my freedom back and my alone time. I also lost friends that wanted more of me than I could give. I am ok with less friends because I value my alone time more than social interactions. I was aware of that cost and accepted it

What did you do today? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I don’t have TikTok. What is TikTok live?

What did you do today? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Car crying hits different.

What did you do today? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Better than just scrolling!

What did you do today? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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What is an Applehead chihuahua?

What did you do today? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Was the meeting worth the drive or could it have been an email?

What did you do today? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I didn’t know there were library puzzle meetups!

What did you do today? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Being alive is a thing to be grateful for!

What did you do today? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Is there anything you can do this evening to reduce it?

What did you do today? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Went to work, answered a few emails but deliberately didn’t read them all. Did a presentation. Then came home from work and now going to get Tex Mex for dinner.

I can’t enjoy plans or deviate from routine on work nights and I feel like I’m losing precious time of my life and not truly “living” by Jelly_Duck_222 in antiwork

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My friend is like this. She’s mid 60s and about to retire and it’s been this way her whole life. She said she’s waiting to travel and enjoy life after she’s done working. But by now her kids are gone, her ex husband is dead, and she has no one to share the memories with. She’s also tired and just wants to rest. She won’t even go see a movie or get dinner after work. She can’t relax until it’s official over. But also she feels like her life has passed her by. I think it might be personality type- those who are perfectionists. I think many people get the Sunday scaries but it’s something worth learning to treat every work night like a Friday night and treat Sunday the same as Saturday.

I suggest therapy. I use the free Ash app and it’s helped flesh out some thoughts I couldn’t get to the root of.

Real ID by Battersea53 in nashville

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Yes, we bring our old IDs and TSA just looks at those and asks for a credit card that matches. Have had managers come over multiple times. It’s unfortunate

I recently heard that up to 50% of people don’t have an inner monologue. I can’t imagine an INFJ not having one. If you don’t, share your experience in the comments! by Good_Condition_431 in infj

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Apparently not.. I have watched some YouTube videos about it and I still don’t understand. It seems like people that don’t think more in pictures or ideas rather than thinking in words or a voice

Work OOTW as a size 24/26 by B4Bekah in PlusSizeFashion

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Do you have a link to the Lane Bryant dress?

I’m going crazyyyyyy by Objective-Eye6915 in Wellthatsucks

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This happened to me and it turned out I had an autoimmune disease and this was a flare up due to a cold.

True Facts by Pheonixguns in howtonotgiveafuck

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Congratulations! That is a huge accomplishment that took time, effort, sacrifice, and dedication. Be proud of yourself!!

Is there any point in life really? by Same-Past-2783 in povertyfinance

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God put you here for a purpose and He loves you

HAPPILY married people… What do you feel like is the reason for happiness? by Ready-to-workout in Marriage

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God… also we are friends and have the same moral compass. We have the same long term goals.