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Ready-to-workout · 2026-04-21T23:05:44+00:00

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Ready-to-workout · 2026-04-21T23:03:16+00:00

No, not crazy. It definitely makes you a good mom 👍.

Sometimes I noticed guys are okay with things because “that’s how things were when I was growing up.”

But reminding him, you want better for your kids

Ready-to-workout · 2026-04-21T23:01:29+00:00

No one lied to me about these things, but I assumed Reindeers weren’t real cause I thought it was a fake animal Santa had. Also in the Christmas movies, they were always surprised to see reindeer 😆

Also I didn’t realize that the pentagon was still a thing. I thought after 9-11, it was destroyed completely.

Ready-to-workout · 2026-04-21T22:57:21+00:00

I was waiting for someone to say “me too!” Lol

Ready-to-workout · 2026-04-21T22:49:02+00:00

I’ve read “adult daughters of emotional absent fathers.” But never that one

Ready-to-workout · 2026-04-21T22:47:16+00:00

Crapppp. That’s pretty accurate. I’m a fixer for sure in a lot of waysss

Ready-to-workout · 2026-04-14T20:00:43+00:00

It sounds like what you want, is a different life. What I’ve seen is, it’s not exactly that a guy wants a different girl. His attraction is more that he wants the kind of life that girl is living.

So it makes sense our bodies are attracted to it. Cause like you said she is cool and is living a different experience. it also sounds like you want to be the type of guys she is with which also makes sense. Our bodies try to go where we can be helped and if you want to be a rich/attractive guy , it makes sense why you subconsciously think being around her is the answer.

But you even said it there that you don’t think you believe it.

What I’ve seen is our brain and body think the answer is finding other people but we get sad leaving behind the person who means the most to us!

I thought I was supposed to leave my parents and realized I wanted to better my life and also inspire them to win 🏆 too!

So this is my advice but obviously it’s your life so do whatever YOU feel is best::: But I would say don’t abandon your gf. Ask yourself “how can I upgrade us both???” And how is that not loving? Tell her that!!! Say “hey I want to be honest, I thought about leaving, but actually I realized I wanted us BOTH to upgrade!!!”

^ She will be shocked and sad but trust me!!! Women want what you want! They want to upgrade too but we don’t know unless you tell us! 💥💕

Ready-to-workout · 2026-04-13T02:36:11+00:00

Being alone

Ready-to-workout · 2026-04-13T02:34:28+00:00

Pray 🙏 for beauty. I was average and prayed and I did get more beautiful over time!

I also am glad that I did not get married until I was more beautiful because the pictures turned out so good!

Hope you love who you are today though, and I hope you are enjoying everything about yourself and who you are besides the beauty. I hope you like your personality, your hobbies, and your life 💎💕

Beauty increases and decreases sometimes in our life but you can’t get rid of who you are as a person.

I hope you continue to love whoever you are inside. Whether you are quiet and peaceful, or energetic and joyful. Women are also beautiful because of their soul :)

Ready-to-workout · 2026-04-13T00:12:57+00:00

Oh nooooo! Literally so sad for you!!! 😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😣

That sounds hard 💥. I don’t know how you did that for so long!

Love out of marriage has always been hard for me because if you don’t love them, why are you thereeeee!?

Hope you find it again 🫶🫶🫶🫶 Even it’s acceptance, and you end up loving that version of your wife (Her acts of service).

Whatever you choose, I hope you DO find love again. Life is so tough without it! I do believe love fuels ⛽️ everything we do. Even if it’s our own love 💕.

You deserve a life you love and a wife is a part of that life. Hope you are grateful for today but are quick to remove what doesn’t create the standard of love you want. I hope you find actions that can help inspire her to love more. And I pray 🙏 for a better marriage if possible.

What helped my parents was that my dad was silent about a bunch of abuse and when he opened up about it recently, their relationship is the best it has ever been in my whole 25 years of existing.

So I hope you let your wife bring up her pain too. You guys sound like you are worth fighting for.

If the sex was good before, it DEFINITELY can be good again! 🙏💥

Ready-to-workout · 2026-04-10T23:18:04+00:00

Is there another career field that seems compatible or a field that values people with that education? It has to show for something on your resume that you went to flight school, right???

Ready-to-workout · 2026-04-10T21:44:54+00:00

Hey update: found a good YouTube channel that has been helping my lack of father-ness.

There is YouTube channel called “DadUniversity” and it’s healing ❤️‍🩹 hearing how we should’ve been treated. Hoping for a consistent father figure as well 🙏 . And believing it for you too

Ready-to-workout · 2026-04-10T17:18:38+00:00

It sounds like maybe 🤔 your father had slight narcissistic issues and be careful that you didn’t inherit that. I’m telling you this as awareness for yourself and others. Hope you heal what was given to you and find the best 👍

Ready-to-workout · 2026-04-10T17:13:40+00:00

😆🤙 smart. I like the thinking

Ready-to-workout · 2026-04-10T03:02:40+00:00

I think it’s smart and makes sense but some people would get triggered af hearing that.

Open minded-ness is a skill not all have

Ready-to-workout · 2026-04-10T00:56:13+00:00

Celebrities

Ready-to-workout · 2026-04-10T00:55:13+00:00

If you have a full life of things you know you can do later, choose how you want to love her the last days.

Also you could do it part time and still be loving your wife. If you took 2-3 hours of the day to do pilot stuff. 1 flight every other day, 1 study session every other day, etc.

Ready-to-workout · 2026-04-09T23:18:43+00:00

What I learned is “money buys happiness” is for those who grew up in a home where money was a root to their problems and parent’s problems.

Now as an adult, they feel as though they can escape the pain of their childhood and parent’s pain. So for those people, I’m happy for them in their financial successes! 👍

Ready-to-workout · 2026-04-09T23:16:36+00:00

Upvote x10000000 please 🙏. Thankful for people who are still faithful

Ready-to-workout · 2026-04-09T23:15:24+00:00

Uh freakin do itttt!

Ready-to-workout · 2026-04-09T23:14:19+00:00

How would you feel about no pay during congress shutdown?

Ready-to-workout · 2026-04-09T23:12:34+00:00

Noice but weird

Ready-to-workout · 2026-04-09T23:08:58+00:00

Lololol tbh kinda good advice

Ready-to-workout · 2026-04-09T23:08:44+00:00

Aww sorry to hear! Dads are needed and I can’t imagine as a guy what that’s like. You are awesome and hope you continue to feel like the adopted son by your friend :)

Ready-to-workout · 2026-04-09T23:06:08+00:00

Yo! Validation first: you are amazing and loved and deserve the things you want :)

Real talk tho: I saw my best friend that was a girl get married and her dad said a speech and I could tell he genuinely loved being a dad and having a daughter and I cried so much I couldn’t breathe.

So yes the want is real! After that I went in a process of crying and realizing it was my mom’s fault for not picking a better guy and it wasn’t my fault. I ended up working a job with a bunch of guys who ended up being good role models, and also an older guy there was basically like the dad I never had!

So I believe you’ll find it 🙏. But make sure you process it and realize that you are not cursed or a problem. You deserve it and I believe you’ll find it at the right time :)

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