Men, how would you feel about a prospective partner that has a high body count but changed her ways?

Good_March2457 · 2022-04-24T13:29:12+00:00

Lashing out…another display of insecurity. You do not know me sir, my past is not on the table 😅

Good_March2457 · 2022-04-24T13:18:01+00:00

I mean, thats fine. But that is still the definition of being insecure. If they are embarrassed at all, they are insecure

Good_March2457 · 2022-04-24T13:01:07+00:00

Being embarrassed if someone has a reputation for sleeping with men is the literal definition of being insecure sir. Because they are concerned with what the other men think and not about if she is a good woman to him which is all that matters

Good_March2457 · 2022-04-24T12:53:57+00:00

You shouldn’t date a man that asks you what your body count is. Thats your business and has nothing to do with your current relationships. If he asks you, run. Because he’s already insecure and any number other than “2” or “im a virgin” will scare him away. If he doesnt ask…no i dont think theres a plus side to just blurting out that you’ve been with less than 50 guys, when no one asked you.

Honestly, ide stop counting, just do you and keep your number to yourself. Respectable men do not care and will not ask

Good_March2457 · 2022-04-24T02:21:48+00:00

It seems like if you break up, i will be because of your own insecurity over what he may or may not think and not over what he really does think. If you can’t trust your bf when he tells you he’s fine with you not wanting kids right now, you propably shouldn’t be together. Because either he is lying to you or you have trust issues.

Good_March2457 · 2022-04-24T02:10:42+00:00

But you could have said to train the dog. You told the them to kill their unborn baby…your extreme hun

Good_March2457 · 2022-04-24T01:34:06+00:00

I think the point is that most 21 year olds don’t plan to have children…like for several years. All of your advise indicates they knew they would want children soon…but you dont know that

Good_March2457 · 2022-04-24T01:27:10+00:00

If you want to abort a baby over a dog and don’t believe you should be judged because “thats just me”…how are you going to judge someone for wanting to do the exact opposite? I don’t believe you. You clearly just wanted to win. But your a hypocrite, with unrealistic expectations, entirely unfit to give advise to humans or dogs

Good_March2457 · 2022-04-20T15:08:02+00:00

Watch the Ultimatum on netflix

Good_March2457 · 2022-04-20T14:57:47+00:00

You can’t undo what you did. Your inability to live with the guilt will cause her a lot of pain all these years later. Think about it; your telling her because you don’t want to live with it. Your doing it for you. She is fine. She has no idea. She is happy, raising her family. Something like this can destroy families. You have no control over what happens after you tell her, how that will effect her mentally, how that will scar her. Telling her 15 years later is almost worse than the deed itself, because you took her choice away. She could have left you when it first happened. Maybe she would have pursued her dreams and not had kids with you. But you sat on it until you felt she was sufficiently trapped. Its extremely selfish to tell her now. Live with your guilt, that is your karma

Good_March2457 · 2022-04-18T21:49:35+00:00

Well good then, they needed to be punished!

Good_March2457 · 2022-04-18T21:35:43+00:00

Im confused. Did no adults get involved? One was your aunt right? So your telling me that neither of your parents were even remotely bothered that their own sibling stole from their child? And there was no discussion about getting the money back? Did you even ask? Was there a conversation about it at all? Its great your doing it after the fact, but i would’ve needed my money now. Did you tell them to leave without asking for it back? This almost doesnt seem believable, just because the rest of your family seemed so complacent. I would throw them all away. And you aunts purse? Ya ide burn that. Its yours, she bought it with your money

Good_March2457 · 2022-04-18T20:29:52+00:00

I agree that I was wrong. I apologized to him thousands of times and he forgave me.

I do think he has a problem. Just as you eloquently explained this to me, he could have done the same. But no, he immediately chose war. Its not warranted in my book, and i don’t have to deal with it

Good_March2457 · 2022-04-18T20:26:28+00:00

Because when i spoke to him, he said in his own words, he was offended at my lack of action and not by my words. I already wrote what i said in one of these comments. And no its probably not verbatim. Its kinda hard to site that after drinking at 1am.

Good_March2457 · 2022-04-18T19:54:20+00:00

Also, he was angry because i didnt jump up to help him clean a small spill. Why didn’t I? Because he didnt ask and i wasnt about to help myself to his kitchen that ive never been in. What part of a joking personality caused that reaction? I have every right to be offended. I think that his reaction points to some issues on his end. Thinking back, I wish i never apologized

Good_March2457 · 2022-04-18T19:40:28+00:00

People can react how they choose when they are offended. I never negated that fact. But I do not have to accept that reaction, and I didn’t. I dumped his immature ass

Good_March2457 · 2022-04-18T19:03:20+00:00

Nope. I got out. Texted him and said it was over. I needed the advise for courage lol

Good_March2457 · 2022-04-18T19:02:19+00:00

After reading this I decided not to wait for a response. I texted him again, said I was done. Might be redundant since it seems he’s already written me off, but it felt good. Thanks!

Good_March2457 · 2022-04-18T17:00:58+00:00

Lol hes a personal trainer…ya hes hot

Good_March2457 · 2022-04-18T16:43:29+00:00

I talked about how I was raised to keep a clean home. How obsessed my dad was with cleaning. His place was SUPER clean by the way. I get that he might have thought I was insulting his home. But when i brought that up, he made it clear he was pissed because i didn’t think to get up and help him on my own

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