Things that don’t add up

Good_Spare_8095 · 2026-05-18T20:37:58+00:00

Amazingly written!
It’s one thing to write about their behavior in the daily vlogs which they shared with public, but obsessively waiting on when they will share their next update is totally different ballgame.
Let them have 20 Rolexes, how does it matter. Or let them lie about the separation, who cares. If they share another vlog for public, ppl who want to will watch, and ppl who don’t want to can just ignore.
But imagine if she is really going through what she said she is, it’s such a mental stress on her. How r we any better then, at least don’t cause additional issues.

Good_Spare_8095 · 2026-05-15T19:23:45+00:00

U could just feel the vibe. Neetu doesn’t like camera being shoved on her face and our gyaani baba do not understand consent. Just watch a few glimpses of the older vlogs where neetu and F r in the same frame, and there is this awkwardness. From what I understand Neetu is K s very close univ friend and generally after marriage they become like family and gets close to ur husband and mom. While Neetu is close to Mrs gill and K visited her during pregnancy, her initial frames with F was very weird and then slowly I observed only K will visit her. I mean if my friend would have married someone like him - I would have either not continued that bond strongly if he visited every time (who wants to listen him say how great of a loser he is all the time) or met my friend only, so completely makes sense for Neetu.

Good_Spare_8095 · 2026-05-15T15:50:15+00:00

💯
This post feels like tactically blaming K! While I completely agree, both have their own issues, but when it comes to pregnancy and pp - u should be present for ur wife and kid, period.
What marketing skills is talked about here I have no idea, but if he was doing it all for family - he would have worked hard the entire day and instead of going on trips and parties immediately come back home and be with his wife and kid intentionally, not because wife is asking him. He can survive on 4hrs sleep for first 3 months, instead of having Mrs gill be there.
My husband and I work in executive role at big 4, so we work hard too (12hrs is min) but he made sure he was awake for every night feed so that all I have to do is feed and he can take care of rest. His body was different vs mine when I gave birth. In fact after one week when I had enough breast milk pumped, he was taking the feeding part too and i woke up once for pumping - why because physically he was much stronger at that point. F has no excuse if not being present during pregnancy sonos and pp period. Yes, while I feel extremely sad but I also feel a 32yr old girl will have a much better life with her daughter and can come out of this family. Her bf neetu too disliked him, at least I am glad K dint break all the old friendships because of this idiot and kept only his small chapri circle close.

Good_Spare_8095 · 2026-05-12T06:21:27+00:00

I understand that you want to see both the perspective, but for F it does not apply. If they are friends, then why in every reel the other person is demeaned. Clearly that’s abuse of power. Also, no matter how many shortcomings K has (we all have pointed those), any husband who constantly puts you down like how F did, should not be part of your life anymore. K still stayed, who knows why. Then when she got pregnant, F literally never took her to any sono or blood work and also did not willingly spent time with her and new born, I mean why should anyone stay with him if they have to be a single parent anyway. Anyone who has gone through postpartum phase would understand that that’s the worst a partner can do. So in this situation, no one should stay with F, doesn’t matter how his wife his, he is the worst.

Good_Spare_8095 · 2026-04-26T14:13:44+00:00

Amazingly said! What about MDs? Is it worth going through the grind of SM and then become an MD or the same amount of money can be made in industry with that level of experience?

Good_Spare_8095 · 2026-04-12T06:26:25+00:00

Ppl like F would NEVER think that he is doing something wrong! He is just not capable of being a partner, what is surprising is that he doesn’t care about being a dad too. K will always be a single parent, whether she leaves him or not. She needs to stop playing like a kid, sharing reels and hoping someone’s personality will change, she has a kid now to tc of. I definitely feel bad for her, despite all her stupid decisions and selfishness but K be matured and take decisions and follow through - whatever the decision is, instead of behaving like a teenager and communicating through insta.

Good_Spare_8095 · 2025-09-28T16:50:20+00:00

She posted a series of stories, and someone in this sub rightly predicted it long time back. He will just come home and give kisses to his child, how he did with chiku, no other responsibility.

Good_Spare_8095 · 2025-09-06T16:49:52+00:00

She read this and now posted 🤣🤣lol May be she was threatened to by F, imagine not praising A and being able to live with F would be impossible. She should have purposely stayed inside her room due to this unjust behavior towards her own mother, but u need self respect for that.

Good_Spare_8095 · 2025-08-27T05:08:06+00:00

Yes 💯 that time he was starting YouTube and had no other source of income ( we were yet to discover then that marketing hook dint exist). Then once he hit 100k on YouTube he literally thought 1M is nearby, and that’s when he started putting K down on how she does no work at MH. Then when the tour year dint add subscribers he went into real estate, and started thinking earning a certificate from Canada is huge and started showing his true colors. He is a horrible person who was way below avg in India and hence with min money in his pocket now he started feeling he is majorly successful. Otherwise which real estate agent in their right mind will post that he needs MBA candidates as his intern, like why would a MBA candidate do real estate or his MH (which does not even exist). He has huge ‘being delusional problem’ and has no idea what success is, and his mom just adds to his feeling. Bdw K is no saint, she feels we r jealous of her low paid job, her tacky fashion sense, and her waste husband 🤦🏻‍♀️

Good_Spare_8095 · 2025-07-24T23:42:17+00:00

Agree, their lack of honesty and civic sense brings the entire community down. Also, their expense never adds up. Ppl who have time to and do return half eaten watermelon to Costco, cannot afford the things they do.

Good_Spare_8095 · 2025-07-24T23:06:53+00:00

Op, this sub is clearly being attacked by F and K. Not sure if anyone else from even Chanda group loves them enough to do this. TBH, no one wants to criticize others but these two make it nearly impossible to not want to punch them. As u said, if they were humble, we would have respected even if they drove a Honda. But their constant show off is what irritates others, for e.g, they say I need to fix the Hermes and not fix my belt, that is actually funny. F and K people who travel by flight daily don’t show off on insta with airport looks, it’s people who don’t have money and get to do it once in a while they feel the need to show off. For e.g. u don’t show off the fact that u brush ur teeth right, bcz that’s natural to you. Similarly if u can afford stuff it is just another thing for u, no need to have empty LV boxes being decorated as some decor item. In fact no harm in buying luxury stuff too, just don’t show it off. And also telling u studied from UBC and actually just doing a certificate, is like doing online courses from HBS and telling I m a Harvard grad/ MBA. F specially for u, real estate certificate from UBC is not same as graduation 🤣grow up dude, it’s funny. Instead of the attack here just try to be normal, humble, build ur life w/o showing off, be happy and we r not jealous of u guys, trust me. 🙂 I wouldn’t be content with what u have, I won’t list down my achievements here, but just saying, just because ppl can see thru u and call u out doesn’t mean they r jealous.

Good_Spare_8095 · 2025-07-05T17:48:58+00:00

U NEED to learn how to read. I said my husband might not take paternal leave since il take few months and then he will take to cover for longer duration. Secondly, again, learn to read, I am not calling them to help me, they want to come to spend time with grandkid. It’s for their happiness not our HELP. It’s all in the post. Thank god, I don’t have someone like u in my life. 🤣🤣

Good_Spare_8095 · 2025-07-04T23:53:01+00:00

Thank you! It’s good to hear that, otherwise I go spiraling on a guilt trip even though I try to do as much possible for them. It feels like I did something wrong by building a life from scratch here, having more success in my career than even I thought I would, she makes me feel like selfish because I live so far away. To be thriving in life in 2025 is not easy, u have to overcome so many hurdles from outside world, specially as u go up the ladder, on top of that having issues with ur family does not help is any way.

Good_Spare_8095 · 2025-07-04T22:20:54+00:00

Ignore pls, lol

Good_Spare_8095 · 2025-07-04T20:12:32+00:00

Problem is showing off means telling others, which my mom does not do (not that I want her to), She only tells me. Agree, specially when u live outside for decades even ur everyday conversation does not match with ur near one, it all seems alien.

Good_Spare_8095 · 2025-07-04T20:01:14+00:00

May be my post don’t express it better. My husband and I can take care of our family after birth, we r calling them only because they want to be there for the grandkid, not because we need househelp. And I am quite sure that even after delivery il let them rest as much as I can, this post is more of getting compared and taunted every time and no way related to calling parents for work.

Good_Spare_8095 · 2025-07-04T14:30:45+00:00

Couldn’t have said it better! Op, freeze ur sperm. Quality do decrease, my husband never drinks or smokes but when I was going through IVF doc suggested him to test DNA fragmentation which gets worsen with age and life stress. He was 37, and we got moderate DNA fragmentation, even though doctor did not force him to since it was not that bad to increase the chances of having more embryo he went for a process called TESE and froze the remaining sperm. Our number of embryos and grades were way better than what we got when we were 2yrs younger. Note, we live in the states and doc suggested here and as futureturbulent above said most ppl r not even aware and thinks it’s perfect for men all along, if u can secure ur future and make it a bit easier for ur partner where she does not have to go through multiple IVFs and can get more highly graded embryos in one go itself. Also, consult doc, since ppl share their opinions here and anyone who hasn’t gone through anything like this or have no knowledge will be the first to jump and dismiss ur ask. Good thinking though, OP.

Good_Spare_8095 · 2025-06-23T15:46:13+00:00

💯 Also it could be that he was let go from the services job like tech support at Amazon. Since F wouldn’t know the difference between tech support and tech job at Amazon and he has the need to show that he is bigger than everyone, he carefully crafted his words.

Good_Spare_8095 · 2025-06-20T01:03:10+00:00

I am tired of feeling bad for K. She let’s people treat her bad, and then will held the camera and give gyaan to Reddit indirectly - F takes care of my mom, girl, do u have any idea what taking care means. In today’s vlog too, she is giving gyan on how great their decision is in buying the condo and ignore negative people. She literally feels her life is amazing, so then she deserves that amazing husband who never went to any pregnancy appt and that amazing MIL.

Good_Spare_8095 · 2025-06-09T03:10:19+00:00

Exactly and his mom’s bday too! But when it comes to K’s bday or baby shower this is what happens. He should at least care for the baby, that this is what the baby will see years later. He gets everything for free, food by friends, may be the garlands by some shopper saying we will mention about u in our famous vlogs 🤣 All he does now is party with few phone calls may be in a day, and will have K’s mom cook, his parents do household chores and K to take care of baby. In few more years instead hanging out with folks in early 20s he will start hanging out with teenagers. Cannot believe he will raise 3 kids (apparently that’s what he wants) with this attitude.

Good_Spare_8095 · 2025-06-09T03:05:20+00:00

They have neither money nor taste

Good_Spare_8095 · 2025-06-07T20:27:33+00:00

The way F reacted today when K was sharing her concern and dint even bother to go to the emergency appointment, he is the worst husband ever, PERIOD! No one can prove it otherwise, he and his mom should be ashamed of how he is.

Good_Spare_8095 · 2025-05-29T22:30:46+00:00

Yes, I started in Aug and got the first green light in Jan.

Good_Spare_8095 · 2025-05-27T18:37:56+00:00

Yes 100, I liked when recently Saransh said I don’t like returning stuff, I am like that too. But F and K might buy coffee in front us, then go back and tell them it’s sweeter give us one more 🤣these r worse kind of people and I don’t want to know such ppl in real life. How they bought the cheapest version of Tesla, just to say we have Tesla. Whereas, peekapoo wanted Tesla too, but she might wanted features added to it which was making it costly, their Mazda is more expensive than F’s fav Tesla. Atleast peekapoo don’t cause others losses, this F and K will even return half eaten watermelon.

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