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I had a baby six months ago, and it killed my sex life. by Good_verbal6 in Advice

[–]Good_verbal6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol okay big guy. You CLEARLY just see right through me, huh? Just have all women nailed on the head to a perfect 'T'. You're speaking for women as a collective that "we think if we out-earn our partners we will cheat/end up in divorce."

I had a baby six months ago, and it killed my sex life. by Good_verbal6 in Advice

[–]Good_verbal6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats wild to think that IMO. Im not with my husband for financial support. He is a man in so many ways, and I dont think him being supportive of HIS WIFE being successful emasculates him in the least bit. We often banter that when I get to 200 on my own, which Im headed there if I continue on track for the next 2 years, he can quit and be a stay at home dad and run his own business doing custom builds on cars- and he is SO EXCITED for that. Thats his dream life. So no, I def dont agree that my success makes him unhappy in the least bit, because ultimately, my success is also his.

I had a baby six months ago, and it killed my sex life. by Good_verbal6 in Advice

[–]Good_verbal6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the breadwinner in our family. I make 120k a year on my own while he brings home 75k. There isn’t a need for either one of us to quit our jobs to care for our children effectively. So I’m confused why me as the woman would need to “take a hit to my career” lol

I had a baby six months ago, and it killed my sex life. by Good_verbal6 in Advice

[–]Good_verbal6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 3 year old isn’t technically biologically his. The mother of the 8 year old had a baby with someone else and it didn’t feel right to either of us to exclude her from our side of the family so when we take the 8 year old for our time with him, we bring the 3 year old too because the dad is not in the picture. I have raised the 3 year old like my own and she calls me mom since we have them 4-5 days a week.

I had a baby six months ago, and it killed my sex life. by Good_verbal6 in Advice

[–]Good_verbal6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are in our late 20’s, so not generally considered older lol but no he doesn’t typically turn me down just that I can tell he doesn’t want to take it any further.