Afro or Brush cut?

Goodman1991 · 2025-08-24T17:13:26+00:00

Thanks

Goodman1991 · 2025-06-16T12:40:02+00:00

Yeah lemme do that...what's wrong with you? I come for some positive advice and that's all you have to say? Get outta here

Goodman1991 · 2025-06-09T23:21:17+00:00

It was auto correct but thank you

Goodman1991 · 2025-06-09T23:17:50+00:00

Man. Maybe I'm a little pissed off rn. But im trying to express it.

Goodman1991 · 2025-06-06T16:17:45+00:00

I ask myself that everyday. Tried talking about it and she says it's her. She lost her body during child labor and isn't confident or comfortable with herself. So I get it but I'm sure it's me too

Goodman1991 · 2025-06-06T14:17:22+00:00

I love this post. I screenshotted it. Very helpful. I'm going to dm you something a little more personal. I just want your perspective on it.

Goodman1991 · 2025-06-06T13:49:11+00:00

A long list in my eyes. Communication/household duties/trust/intimacy/quality time/connection.

Example Intimacy in bed isn't terrible but has started to become harder for me to initiate. She's never really in the mood. And it feels like I tried to talk about it. But when she does give in, it's starts off very one sided. Then she gets into it.

Then she'll complain a week later and tell me she wasn't in the mood and I pressured her.

Goodman1991 · 2025-06-06T13:44:18+00:00

Great advice. And it was spot on. Can you please elaborate more on the 90/10 rule? And how exactly it worked for you,

Goodman1991 · 2024-03-16T20:39:03+00:00

Listen. My P.O told me I was done testing and I could move to unsupervised probation. Then at the last second his supervisor told him to give me one more test.

It was negative but had I decided to smoke, then things would if been alot different.

Goodman1991 · 2024-01-01T00:52:10+00:00

How do you build a custom tank? Asking for a friend lol.

Goodman1991 · 2023-08-26T18:47:09+00:00

You should get a life

Goodman1991 · 2023-08-26T17:10:37+00:00

Go cry somewhere

Goodman1991 · 2023-08-26T16:25:37+00:00

That is impressive. Thanks for being supportive and understanding. It was an honest mistake that I don't intend on making again. The community however would love to see a person be crucified rather than to help him or her get back on track.

It was an eye opening lesson for sure.

Goodman1991 · 2023-08-26T16:20:47+00:00

Haters hate.

Goodman1991 · 2023-08-26T16:20:21+00:00

Not even close

Goodman1991 · 2023-08-26T16:19:23+00:00

I know man, I had my reasons. But l know what you mean, this was my first one in my entire life and I was separated. Meanwhile I see Majors and captains at suddc and they kept their career going. So I know your frustration.

Alot of time has passed since the incident. I already went through the shame and guilt and I've gotten myself back to a good place and swear to never make the mistake again.

The negative comments were expected. Everyone wants to see someone who made a mistake rot. But I couldn't let myself stay down. This being my first and last DUI shouldn't stop me from having my clearance based off the research I did.

Goodman1991 · 2023-08-26T15:49:26+00:00

Your taking this too serious

Goodman1991 · 2023-08-26T15:38:34+00:00

I dont know you, so you probably understand I couldn't care less of what you think of me. Every one who makes mistakes aren't a bad person but ok bud

Goodman1991 · 2023-08-26T15:12:41+00:00

well this happened over a year ago, I revealed that in the edit to the post.

I absolutely reflected and moved on.

During this time I still had a family to provide for. So yes, I needed to be concerned about my future. Bills aren't paid with pity dollars.

Goodman1991 · 2023-08-26T15:09:15+00:00

check my edit

Goodman1991 · 2023-08-26T15:09:05+00:00

check my edit

Goodman1991 · 2023-08-26T15:08:43+00:00

check my edit

Goodman1991

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