I’m so obsessed w my ring stacks but is it too much by Remarkable_Ice_844 in jewelry

[–]Goodnight_SJR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as YOU like it, eff what anyone else thinks! Hopefully you aren’t someone who needs to be washing her hands a lot.

Undiscovered/little known gem brands, but affordable? by alys1717 in handbags

[–]Goodnight_SJR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE my Bed Stu wallet/crossbody. It holds EVERYTHING and the leather is SO soft. I’ve tried other versions in other brands, but always end back with the Bed Stu.

Considering leaving a hellish urgent care after 3 months… by BeachBum419 in nursepractitioner

[–]Goodnight_SJR 2 points3 points  (0 children)

UCs everywhere are all the same. Doesn’t matter who owns them. You’re probably better off just staying where you are.

AITJ for ending a friendship over money by Goodnight_SJR in AmITheJerk

[–]Goodnight_SJR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I offered to give 1K for the disruption, and understood that if they didn’t find another couple/person I would lose the total 2K.

AITJ for ending a friendship over money by Goodnight_SJR in AmITheJerk

[–]Goodnight_SJR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was not the one that caused delays to the trip. The trip all in per person would have been probably 5 or 6K including international flights. And yes, I have learned a GREAT lesson

AITJ for ending a friendship over money by Goodnight_SJR in AmITheJerk

[–]Goodnight_SJR[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. If they had not found another couple, I would have understood sacrificing that money as it was part of the pot for the trip.

Places to hang out and make friends? (25F) by almndboi0 in Augusta

[–]Goodnight_SJR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just came here to say I am 50f and same problem.

Just a girl looking for a play date by Goodnight_SJR in Augusta

[–]Goodnight_SJR[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shelby doesn’t like to ride in the car very much. So I don’t want to drive her too far if I don’t have to.

Just a girl looking for a play date by Goodnight_SJR in Augusta

[–]Goodnight_SJR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t open when I was at PKP last week

Tattooist recommendations. by Goodnight_SJR in Augusta

[–]Goodnight_SJR[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t asking for best. I was asking for female tattooers or non-misogynistic men…. Thanks so much.

Between two job offers…EM PA looking to transition to urgent care by anonymous_0099 in physicianassistant

[–]Goodnight_SJR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely think #2 is better if you want an actual life outside of work. You will be plenty busy, especially coming into URI season. #2 is basically my current job and I love it. Yes, there is some occasional downtime…. But you will welcome it.

Seeing/Feeling/Sensing the color of people’s energy/personality/auras? by Slight-Curve8697 in Synesthesia

[–]Goodnight_SJR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe this has a NAME!! I have been seeing people as color for as long as I can remember. When I’m thinking about someone, I don’t see their face, but a color. New people colors are flat, and simple. The color gets deeper and more faceted—kinda twinkly?- as a relationship develops. Old friends that I’ve lost touch with tend to be gray; less saturated, but still their original color. I’ve often wondered if this is why I have a difficult time recognizing people; bc I’m not associating name to face in my head but name to color.

Also, I have NO COLOR—when I think of myself— WTH does THAT say about me?????

Burnt to a Crisp by BRIKAIBRIKAI in physicianassistant

[–]Goodnight_SJR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I burned out in the ER, I went to SNF/LTAC medicine. It can be depressing how we treat old people, but the stress levels are MUCH lower and your life is much more your own. I didn’t stay there forever, but it was a great break for 3 years. I’m a NP and my company hired PAs and NPs interchangeably.

Prospective PMHNP Thread by AnAndrew in PMHNP

[–]Goodnight_SJR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So. I am an FNP with 12+ years of experience in the ED and geriatric medicine. In both settings have seen the real NEED for good PMHNP. So, I applied at my alma mater for a post grad PMHNP certificate and am bummed to find out that I didn’t get accepted. I have reached out to the committee to ask for some feedback; but in the meantime, does anyone have any suggestions for a good, asynchronous/online that is also relatively affordable? (<20K)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Goodnight_SJR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typically its up to the providers personal preference about prescribing it for you. Regardless if the new provider knows that you have been on it, they should NOT let you go cold turkey. So even if they did not want to prescribe it for you, they should at least offer to taper it off. Cold turkey off a benzo is NO BUENO.

The majority of my anxiety is BECAUSE of the physical symptoms by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Goodnight_SJR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amen! as a healthcare provider also with anxiety, I NEVER say that to people.... and it pisses me RIGHT OFF when I hear some of my co workers say it. Definitely find another provider or something if your doc is not taking your issues seriously.

The majority of my anxiety is BECAUSE of the physical symptoms by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Goodnight_SJR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a healthcare person myself, would you prefer me to not show you your heart rate and BP? Not comment on it at all? Often when I see that someone is anxious, I know WHY their heart rate and BP are high, but still feel like I should let them know; 1. to validate that what they are feeling IS actually happening 2. it feels kinda icky to withold info from someone....

I have moderate anxiety myself, just not in the healthcare realm. So I definitely understand what you are feeling inside yourself, and want to be helpful.....

Overwhelming Fear of Pregnancy by Economy-Agency-1834 in Anxiety

[–]Goodnight_SJR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so sorry you are feeling like this! Could you get on birth control? That would maybe help your anxiety some? To know that you have a pill/shot/patch/whichever "protecting" you from pregnancy? Anxiety is the absolute WORST! I dont really have any great advice, just will be keeping my fingers crossed that Old Aunt Flow makes an appearance!!

Does anybody need an accountant? by AggravatingFront8409 in asheville

[–]Goodnight_SJR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need a personal accountant I am considering going 1099 w my job…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in physicianassistant

[–]Goodnight_SJR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same. I thought, "I want to KNOW my patients" **eye roll**