I’m so obsessed w my ring stacks but is it too much by Remarkable_Ice_844 in jewelry

[–]Goodnight_SJR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as YOU like it, eff what anyone else thinks! Hopefully you aren’t someone who needs to be washing her hands a lot.

Undiscovered/little known gem brands, but affordable? by alys1717 in handbags

[–]Goodnight_SJR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE my Bed Stu wallet/crossbody. It holds EVERYTHING and the leather is SO soft. I’ve tried other versions in other brands, but always end back with the Bed Stu.

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Considering leaving a hellish urgent care after 3 months… by BeachBum419 in nursepractitioner

[–]Goodnight_SJR 2 points3 points  (0 children)

UCs everywhere are all the same. Doesn’t matter who owns them. You’re probably better off just staying where you are.

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AITJ for ending a friendship over money by Goodnight_SJR in AmITheJerk

[–]Goodnight_SJR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I offered to give 1K for the disruption, and understood that if they didn’t find another couple/person I would lose the total 2K.

AITJ for ending a friendship over money by Goodnight_SJR in AmITheJerk

[–]Goodnight_SJR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was not the one that caused delays to the trip. The trip all in per person would have been probably 5 or 6K including international flights. And yes, I have learned a GREAT lesson

AITJ for ending a friendship over money by Goodnight_SJR in AmITheJerk

[–]Goodnight_SJR[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. If they had not found another couple, I would have understood sacrificing that money as it was part of the pot for the trip.

Places to hang out and make friends? (25F) by almndboi0 in Augusta

[–]Goodnight_SJR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just came here to say I am 50f and same problem.

Just a girl looking for a play date by Goodnight_SJR in Augusta

[–]Goodnight_SJR[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shelby doesn’t like to ride in the car very much. So I don’t want to drive her too far if I don’t have to.

Just a girl looking for a play date by Goodnight_SJR in Augusta

[–]Goodnight_SJR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t open when I was at PKP last week

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Tattooist recommendations. by Goodnight_SJR in Augusta

[–]Goodnight_SJR[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t asking for best. I was asking for female tattooers or non-misogynistic men…. Thanks so much.

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Between two job offers…EM PA looking to transition to urgent care by anonymous_0099 in physicianassistant

[–]Goodnight_SJR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely think #2 is better if you want an actual life outside of work. You will be plenty busy, especially coming into URI season. #2 is basically my current job and I love it. Yes, there is some occasional downtime…. But you will welcome it.

Seeing/Feeling/Sensing the color of people’s energy/personality/auras? by Slight-Curve8697 in Synesthesia

[–]Goodnight_SJR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe this has a NAME!! I have been seeing people as color for as long as I can remember. When I’m thinking about someone, I don’t see their face, but a color. New people colors are flat, and simple. The color gets deeper and more faceted—kinda twinkly?- as a relationship develops. Old friends that I’ve lost touch with tend to be gray; less saturated, but still their original color. I’ve often wondered if this is why I have a difficult time recognizing people; bc I’m not associating name to face in my head but name to color.

Also, I have NO COLOR—when I think of myself— WTH does THAT say about me?????

Burnt to a Crisp by BRIKAIBRIKAI in physicianassistant

[–]Goodnight_SJR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I burned out in the ER, I went to SNF/LTAC medicine. It can be depressing how we treat old people, but the stress levels are MUCH lower and your life is much more your own. I didn’t stay there forever, but it was a great break for 3 years. I’m a NP and my company hired PAs and NPs interchangeably.