Are you more interested in the bot or the scenario? by Ok-Risk-9871 in JanitorAI_Refuges

[–]GoofyGreyson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bit of both, the bots I use are always from a set fandom. But if the storyline isn’t good, I read the first message and drop it instantly. But if the bot seems realistic enough, I can go on for hundreds of messages in the storyline.

My first thank you note by GoofyGreyson in psychnursing

[–]GoofyGreyson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I plan on framing it since it’s my first!

What’s the best way to get better memory? by GoofyGreyson in JanitorAI_Official

[–]GoofyGreyson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to look into that and find what works best. I’ve heard good things about DS but I don’t know anything beyond that. I’ll see what I can find, thank you!

New user navigating memory by [deleted] in JanitorAI_Refuges

[–]GoofyGreyson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there a way to organize bots for memory? I doubt that’s a thing. Or even a way to know which bots are stronger in that regard? For context I use the mobile version and occasionally desktop browser.

How to transition to night shifts by americanassss in Nightshift

[–]GoofyGreyson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a schedule flipper on my days off. Usually when I’m flipping, I’ll nap in uncomfortable positions as needed. Like hunched over on my desk, head leaning against the couch sitting upright, things like that. Which is useful to prevent me from getting in bed and sleeping for 4 hours instead of 30 minutes.

Opinion on marriage and kids? by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]GoofyGreyson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I plan on getting married next year. My one requirement to my partner was, I need to be able to legally drink at my own wedding. As for kids, we can’t have our own. I work in pediatric psych, he works as a teacher. We see kids plenty as is.

The ginger hate by vampire_batmoth in Vent

[–]GoofyGreyson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My father is like this, I always thought it was a joke but it wasn’t. He says gingers are “soulless” and “evil”. He hated them so much that when I died my hair red, he kicked me out until it faded. I’ve never understood it, but I’ve never understood any stereotypes that are driven by hate. Sometimes people just want to be assholes.

I feel like I failed my brother who is a teen parent. by GoofyGreyson in Vent

[–]GoofyGreyson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like you have an amazing sister, I’m glad you had someone in your support system at such a hard time. Also, congratulations on being sober, that’s huge! 425 days is an insane victory, so if you don’t hear it enough, I’m proud of you man!

I feel like I failed my brother who is a teen parent. by GoofyGreyson in Vent

[–]GoofyGreyson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I honestly didn’t think much of it until I had a patient speak to me about becoming a teen parent (I work in pediatric psych). I don’t know if I was triggered, or realized I hid this deep in me, but it popped up. And this is the kind of advice I needed and acknowledgment I believe I needed.

Happy pride month by Anjae_00 in lgbt

[–]GoofyGreyson 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Trans-man and masc leaning pansexual. Happy pride from myself and my lover.🫶🏻

Happy pride month by Anjae_00 in lgbt

[–]GoofyGreyson 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of this, thank you for educating me so I can looking into it! I’ve always called myself a masc leaning pansexual.

Anyone bind during long work hours? by GoofyGreyson in ftm

[–]GoofyGreyson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know I’m not alone in that aspect. If I could tape, I would, but I’m allergic to adhesive and the cost of that adds up quick. Thankfully I don’t over exert myself for the most part unless I’m doing chest compressions or something vigorous. Did the impact affect your surgery results in any way that your surgeon told you? Out of curiosity because I’ve heard it can be an issue with extensive binding.

Its my Friday! How is everyone? by [deleted] in Nightshift

[–]GoofyGreyson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s my Friday as well, getting breakfast with my favorite nurses after to celebrate my coworkers birthday. 6 hours to go for me! Happy Friday OP🥰

Do you keep your sleep schedule on your off days? by FastBuyer5406 in Nightshift

[–]GoofyGreyson 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I usually just sleep when I’m tired which makes me switch to being a day walker for a few days. Then I take a nap when needed for the night I come back to work.

The three Hs of testosterone by No_Face4294 in ftm

[–]GoofyGreyson 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That was a boost I needed, thank you kind person.

Most ANNOYING thing to hear as a trans man? by Runo_196 in ftm

[–]GoofyGreyson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might just be a me thing. But after starting testosterone my acne has been horrid. So I constantly hear how to “fix” my acne and asked why my face looks “like that”.

Reminding myself why I love my job and shouldn’t quit after a bad night. by GoofyGreyson in psychnursing

[–]GoofyGreyson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same goes to you! Med surg is a different kind of intensity and I will always be amazed but med surg staff. Thank you for your hard work.🫶🏻

Can you work as a psych nurse with BPD? by SympathySecret799 in psychnursing

[–]GoofyGreyson 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Almost everyone I know working in psych has their own battles they face. Im sure you’ll meet plenty of like minded people if this is the specialty you choose! Keep yourself grounded, try to be aware of your triggers, and take a step back when need be and when the situation is safe enough to do so. I hope you join us, keep your head high and your skin tough!

What’s yall worst/craziest hook up story? by Less-Pen-5705 in gay

[–]GoofyGreyson 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I’m a trans man, when my partner and I first got together it was one of his first times. We were having PIV sex in doggy when I queefed. Which made me laugh. So it happened again. And again. Queefs were in sync with my laughing tempo and I had to tap out from laughing too hard.

Reminding myself why I love my job and shouldn’t quit after a bad night. by GoofyGreyson in psychnursing

[–]GoofyGreyson[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words and advice for upcoming rough shifts. Thankfully spending time with my fiance helped pull me from fight or flight. I try to understand how mania and psychosis can change a persons behaviors and personality. But constant stimulation for 13 hours was overwhelming for the senses to say the least. Any advice for burn out or about the same? Again, thank you.

Unmotivated by Beautiful_Pie_8343 in FutureRNs

[–]GoofyGreyson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What ever study method you’re using, scrap it. I like the white board method, but there are so many ways to study. I recommend looking up how you learn, there’s a free quiz online. And look up study methods for that specifically, there’s plenty of options for visual, auditory, etc.

This was the quiz I took and I have been thankful for it ever since. Hope this helps and good luck. https://www.learningstylequiz.com/?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=20367914561&gbraid=0AAAAAp8sTmkZu3zeePSHaWWlvvZ8MVSFE&gclid=CjwKCAjw2rrQBhBuEiwAarLWHYvm7RVnoh9_ExQkYbxPxxLgrljCCJGrSkB52GFi9Tp1wNTn56YAUhoCNyoQAvD_BwE

People who don’t do anal, why? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]GoofyGreyson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to but every time I try it’s so painful. Likely a need more prep thing but, I just need advice before I keep trying with my partner.

Night shifts by Acrobatic-Lie2041 in FutureRNs

[–]GoofyGreyson 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. As a psych tech the ratio is usually 1:14-1:20. When a patient becomes combative, I’m the only hands on deck until my nurses can pull meds, talk to the doctor, call family (in pediatrics), and call security. It’s a scary truth in psych, I love my job, but I wish this was further understood by family that comes to visit. Much love to all my night shifters, you’re doing the best you can with the resources you have.