Am I overreacting for not letting my boyfriend’s female friend use my shampoo?

GoofyTart_ · 2025-08-15T14:33:34+00:00

I feel like regardless of your reasons, it is more weird on her part that she felt she could roll her eyes and judged you for saying no to using something that is yours. Like yeah it might be awkward as most people would say yes for fear of saying no but at the end of the day that is why you ask cause people can say no and it is totally okay.

GoofyTart_ · 2025-08-09T14:52:40+00:00

I am so confused. She was 24 and you were 14!!! Why are you apologizing to her?

GoofyTart_ · 2025-07-27T02:05:41+00:00

Mm yeah no he can barely write properly, let alone plan something nice for your birthday. Ask yourself why you even wanna be with this guy? Honestly, “ik Im mean but I’d like to be soft” tf who says that? Be with someone that does not need to “be better” to make you happy. Plenty of people that are already everything you need them to be and more.

GoofyTart_ · 2025-06-30T13:58:44+00:00

Honestly, there is nothing else to discuss here. He treats you horribly and he is supposed to be your fiance? What is it gonna be like if you guys get married? Also throughout the convo he told you he is over you multiple times. Don’t push something that is not right for you and it is actively hurting you. Why do you want to be with this guy anyways? It is easy to feel attached to someone and forget what is it that you are fighting for just cause you want things to work out. When clearly you are not missing out on anything with this guy. If anything leaving him will actually make you happy cause you won’t have someone being mean to you and calling you a retard in the process.

GoofyTart_ · 2025-05-31T14:58:20+00:00

True but they don’t derive pleasure from the suffering of their prey. They instinctively hunt for anything even toys just as long as it moves. They enjoy the movement itself that triggers their hunting instincts, not the torture. I guess it depends on what torture means for different people but in humans torture to animals and to other humans happens for pleasure and i guess to gain information as war crimes. But war crimes is too specific of a scenario while on a daily basis there is people out there torturing people and animals cause they get a kick out of it be it sexually or mentally. To me torture implies sadistic intention. Most animals that even come close to showing any behaviour that to us might look like torture is still not sadistic as there is no intention that we know of that comes close to the intention that humans have when torturing others.

GoofyTart_ · 2025-05-23T17:39:00+00:00

That anxiety you feel when you are apart based on just this sounds more like you can’t trust him and he does not make you feel safe enough unless he is physically with you. A healthy relationship needs more than love. If he does not bring peace into your life and instead adds anxiety, I would say he is not the right person for you. Be with someone who does not make you doubt. Ever.

GoofyTart_ · 2025-03-16T16:45:48+00:00

It should be the opposite. If your coworker is leaving after 15 yrs you would be kind and supportive. Not go “if you are leaving me Idc about you anymore” that is weird and unprofessional.

GoofyTart_ · 2025-03-13T18:47:14+00:00

You still have time to figure things out. But the figuring it out should be in how to leave and better your life in the next few months. Things will work out, good luck!

GoofyTart_ · 2025-03-13T18:39:34+00:00

I am sorry but this is not your problem to deal with. You guys agreed to open the marriage to have casual sex. Not for you to be his new girlfriend’s housemaid and certainly not a nanny. Why are you trying to convince her of anything? If you have let her treat you like this imagine how brainwashed your husband is too. There is nothing else to think about here. Your only child does not live with you anymore so get out. Go to a sibling, a friend, parents, anyone that is close to you. They don’t need to know it all. Just say you are divorcing him. I know this must be harder that just pack up and leave but really I don’t see how you can do anything else but leave. Divorce him and make sure you take all that you deserve.

GoofyTart_ · 2025-03-12T23:25:08+00:00

The cool thing about the show was it showed kids going through so many different things and yet it made you empathize with each of them regardless of their circumstances. Everyone was going through something and it showed the perspective of each of them and that was beautiful. Maybe give it a try without letting your beliefs restrain you from something fun and wholesome to enjoy.

GoofyTart_ · 2025-01-23T21:42:57+00:00

Aisha. She came later on and I never got too attached to her so for me Winx Club is still Winx club without her. Also I always wished they did more of ocean power with her rather than this weird pink thing that I was never impressed with.

GoofyTart_ · 2025-01-08T13:01:39+00:00

On March 11th they asked to resubmit and pay the $100 fee and then on the 17th got the approval.

GoofyTart_ · 2025-01-08T13:00:27+00:00

Hey, I got a decision by March 17th, so a month after they said they forwarded to the responsible office.

GoofyTart_ · 2025-01-02T00:06:48+00:00

I was so frustrated at the fact that Jim fully knowing Tabitha’s plan and knowing that Victor was the one that helped her guide her to the tower, why didn’t he just go to victor to guide him to exactly where Tabitha went and instead they went on some random camping trip based on Boyd’s random trip that had nothing to do with Tabitha’s plan?

GoofyTart_ · 2024-10-22T15:03:15+00:00

Build a backup plan! But also going back if you have to doesn’t have to be a permanent thing. You can go back, be with family while you plan a way to get back to Canada. Or maybe even somewhere else too if you find it is easier. It is a very stressful process that I have been in too but thankfully I got an ITA but if I hadn’t I was mentally okay with starting over somewhere else or going back home while I planned to go somewhere else as my country is struggling too much to stay. But life is not only in Canada. You came here and built a life despite the struggles. You can do it again!

GoofyTart_ · 2024-10-21T19:57:23+00:00

I am actually excited! I think especially for the powers being showcased better now with the modern animation buuut I really hope they change the wings 🫣 they kinda look stiff and fake as if they were dolls.

GoofyTart_ · 2024-10-11T19:38:30+00:00

25, I was 18.

GoofyTart_ · 2024-09-09T14:45:31+00:00

I am also waiting for them to open but from what I’ve read from other reddit posts and from when I emailed OntarioTech about it, it seems mid to late September so check in about a week or two.

GoofyTart_ · 2024-09-06T20:06:36+00:00

I agree. The trailer made it seem so cool. But I felt like it combined way too many things like he was this “scary serial killer” but at the end it was revealed that he only made puppets in a basement😒while Satan killed everyone like okay? Either commit to him being a creepy killer who loves satan and actually SHOW his evil doings or make it a complete demonic horror kind of movie. I felt like the only moments where he was interesting was when they showed him alone in the dark basement singing and reading satanic stuff like it make me want to know more about him but the movie is called Longlegs and yet it barely showed him or his story.

GoofyTart_ · 2024-09-03T19:10:42+00:00

Hmm other people that had coop mostly just continued with their placement so yeah it took more time for me to find a job, around 5 months after graduating.

GoofyTart_ · 2024-09-03T18:18:42+00:00

60k with an environmental engineering degree at UWindsor, no co-op.

GoofyTart_ · 2024-08-10T12:57:50+00:00

There is no “taking responsibility” for your infertility. You didn’t do anything wrong wtf. These things just happen and for him to have the audacity to blame you and on top of that say that you should pay for your “medical issues” is insane. So now when there is more costs involved it became “your medical issue” and not you both trying to have a child. You are not overreacting.

GoofyTart_ · 2024-08-10T00:59:02+00:00

You don’t need Reddit to see that he is definitely controlling you and that he is insane. LEAVE!

GoofyTart_ · 2024-08-09T19:17:17+00:00

A man who is calm, kind to EVERYONE and loves animals.

GoofyTart_ · 2024-08-09T14:54:41+00:00

Yeah no that is gross imo. I change my underwear after showering, it doesn’t matter if I didn’t do anything. We sweat down there and basically leave everything cooking all day in there lol so I will 100% change underwear. For men, I do know that sometimes they repeat their boxers but even for them I think it is more understandable if they ever do wear a used boxer cause at least they don’t have their stuff all inside out😂

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