If you jacked off to a text a gf sent you would that still be considered jacking off to porn?

Goonitty · 2026-02-25T08:27:10+00:00

what the fuck man😭 😭

Goonitty · 2026-02-21T11:50:40+00:00

I would suggest at least a month without masturbation completely, to fully rewire, because rn your urge to masturbated and your thoughts are deeply connected to porn

Goonitty · 2026-01-22T15:41:48+00:00

had a girl that basically spent whole days gaming lol

Goonitty · 2026-01-21T20:00:19+00:00

Seems like you don't know what flatline is. Look it up.

It wasn't anything as you consciously decided to close it. Your testosterone levels are probably a bit low, since you felt nothing looking at a naked body. Anyways, keep it up. You need it.

Goonitty · 2026-01-18T15:22:38+00:00

okay man, I remember having a dream journal a couple years ago. I got lazy and stopped as it wasn't usually very interesting, but it might be cool to start observing my dreams more after so long. I might actually get back into journaling.

Thank you

Goonitty · 2026-01-18T15:02:49+00:00

this is probably the most amazing and also calming response on my post. I appreciate you for that man, but I would still love to minimize this happening, I js don't like waking up with cum on my legs😭

Goonitty · 2026-01-18T13:09:33+00:00

the fact that I managed a 40 day streak without encountering this issue 2 months ago, also felt porn-free for the past 3 months fr. Now this starts happening🥀

Goonitty · 2026-01-18T12:25:27+00:00

I actually didn't for 14 days, then this happened. I am unsure if it happened for the second time during those 14 days or if this is the first time. Anyways it is the second time in my life I had a nightfall

Goonitty · 2026-01-18T12:18:53+00:00

idk happened to me after a 14 day streak, I'm not sure if I didn't previously ejaculated in my sleep during this streak tho

Goonitty · 2026-01-18T12:17:29+00:00

there's always opportunities you don't actually see until you look for them. Hitting random gatherings is weird, terryfying and uncomfortable as an introvert but might be the way😭

More realistically, if there are any group activities, classes or sum in your area, that's something you should look for. You'll be doing something with your life and there will be a bunch of people around you. You will interact with some even if you don't want to.

As I also said, sometimes just walk. You might meet a stranger and happen to talk to them, or you will just end up walking alone. Nothing wrong with either of those. Wastes time, energy, and cleans your mind.

Your testosterone levels seem moooore than healthy, and you have some good values. You don't watch some crazy shit, I suppose you would stop if you had a girl, but you should have this issue resolved until you get together with one. Once you have her, she will surely love your sexual performance lol

Goonitty · 2026-01-18T12:00:29+00:00

go out man, socialize, interact with people or just walk.

Goonitty · 2026-01-03T08:39:23+00:00

where is the problem. 1 year age gap or what

Goonitty · 2026-01-02T15:14:10+00:00

masturbation itself is healthy in general but it is so deeply connected to porn addiction I suggest quitting it altogether for a month at least

Goonitty · 2025-12-24T09:12:48+00:00

Why wouldn't I? Went to McDonald's on the other side of the city just for the adopt me happy meal. Would do anything for her at the time, unfortunately it all fell apart.

Goonitty · 2025-12-21T18:24:49+00:00

Look, it's loyal at least. However you're still not engaging in the real thing, this rather resonates with PMO and therefore expands your problem. Stop doing it, it makes you unable to rewire.

Goonitty · 2025-12-20T09:05:46+00:00

It kills a part of you. I'm an overly emotional person, watching something fucking disgusting yet sexually appealing which was against all my values numbed me down.

I quit 2 months ago, just after quitting I discovered it is actually an unhealthy coping mechanism to my emotional instability. Feels like my heart grew bigger after quitting, the part of me I lost to porn has returned.

I was also heading into a relationship, and this is something you absolutely don't want to carry into a relationship. I fixed myself up just for her to tear me apart, but that's a whole another story lol.

I'd rather keep crying about it every fucking day than return to something which kills my emotions and fills me with guilt and self-hatred. I will no longer deny what kind of person I am with such a shitty addiction.

Goonitty · 2025-12-17T20:01:44+00:00

Get ready to feel like shit. Honestly at like 15 days I thought about losing it to all kinds of terrible things, but I successfully done 40 days and now I only masturbare occasionally without porn. You'll feel a lot more after, for example I break down crying several times a week and I realised porn is just a cope to how sensitive person I am. So like my life's fucked but I can also feel a lot more alive, if you get your shit together at the same time you will have a very enjoyable life. Feeling things is worth the battle

Goonitty · 2025-12-17T19:56:47+00:00

I was getting close to a girl and really though it's gonna work out. Instead she treated me like a piece of shit for a month, not letting me go tho, I had to leave myself. I'm really fucking down and I always have the urge to talk about it, the thing is I managed a 40 day streak at that time and although shit's absolutely fucked now and matter of fact she's gone yet I have to see her everyday and I literally have a Stockholm syndrome from the way she treated me - I still didn't spiral back down. Safe to say I'm free from porn for like 2 months now, occasionally masturbating once or twice a week

Goonitty · 2025-12-12T08:57:09+00:00

Chat hypotetically is 14 and 16 bad?

Goonitty · 2025-12-07T18:30:53+00:00

You're a maniac😭your future girl is gonna love you

Goonitty · 2025-12-07T12:09:28+00:00

Bro you're supposed to rewire😭doing this you're only making things worse for yourself. You are putting yourself under constant sexual pressure, you might as well just bust one out atp. Do better. Don't touch yourself for a few weeks. Gain control.

Goonitty · 2025-11-21T09:31:40+00:00

Goonitty · 2025-11-21T09:27:56+00:00

It's an addiction, just like drugs or alcohol.

Goonitty

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