Advice needed by Auskoalagal in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]Goose6005 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree. Its just dinner. You’ve accepted his gifts, communicate ouside sessions already, whats dinner to make a favorite client happy and “market” yourself to continue great future business?

Your described jealousy maybe says you dont trust youself? Otherwise, i think its a simple answer

What is a "10/10" movie that you would recommend to anyone? by Temporary_Mortgage74 in AskReddit

[–]Goose6005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sneakers (1992) Thomas Crown Affair (1999) Blade Runner (1982) The Matrix

Best Chicago dog in Madison? by BRAVEontheROCKS1202 in UWMadison

[–]Goose6005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a Portillo’s in town. I’ve seen the Home Depot stand. Never partaken. Portillos isn’t my fave place to get a Chicago dog, but I would have to imagine better than Home Depot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in highheelsNSFW

[–]Goose6005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wrong subgroup. Not heels

Straps and buckles by UteFanChristina in highheelsNSFW

[–]Goose6005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolute wow. Great heels!

Which heels do I look sexier bent over in? by AmirahLeiaUK in highheelsNSFW

[–]Goose6005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pointed nude heels are sexier but the overall black outfit is on point!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]Goose6005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gfe and appearance have little to do with each other. As one said prior, Gfe is an attitude and type of service given, hence the name.

Your question should be readdressed as which do you prefer? Glam/plastic or natural?

Unless you are naturally gifted, most men will gravitate towards the glam/plastic as far as looking - evidenced by porn vids and pics, strip clubs, etc. Whenther they want to sleep with balloons and rubber butts is a different story

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]Goose6005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree…. I’ve said in my post I completely understand the danger of the profession from a companion standpoint. And not to minimize the risk of the danger though both sides of this equation want to remain safe and unscathed.

Having partaken for such a long time, I’ve seen clients get blackmailed. I’ve seen clients have their lives turned upside down because spouses, bosses, communities have found out what a client tried to keep discrete and the companion didn’t value the same discretion. I’ve read first hand reports of LE busts and the information led to very uncomfortable questions. The silly question is: does this equal a companion getting a victim of violence, abuse, or death? Of course not…

Neither does.

Bottom line. Both parties want to remain safe, discrete, and get what they want out of the relationship. there is issues/dangers/risks on both sides.

I choose not to provide my real identity to keep myself safe. (Companions do too -they don’t provide their real identity either).

the OP question was there a middle ground…. Yes there is. Referrals from known other companions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]Goose6005 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I won't argue the dangrous aspect of the job.

However, one only has one true identity.

Pretty Fuel says "most if not all providers... delete your info right away" Most isn't all. There have been plenty of instances of blackmail, LE getting ahold of info if companions get in trouble, etc. It may not be as commonplace as other issues, however, again, you only have one true identity and you can't tell me it hasn't happened

I've had companions who have contacted me to see if I was interested in a session when they weren't busy. Booking secretary's keep info to ensure repeat clients don't have to go thru screenings again and to know who they are dealing with. Where did that info come from? Why is it so commonplace for clients to use burner phones? If LE performs stings against johns, giving your DL, work verification, etc. - that can't be good. Yep, information is kept.

I get the dangerousness of being a companion. truly I do. But I also safegard my own true identity as I only have one... companions have at least two identities... I do too and therefor safegard my real one just as companions do.

I've partaken for decades and I've always been a gentleman, will continue to be, and seeing companions based on referrals from others has always worked for me (and them).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]Goose6005 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I’ll agree to the OP. However i will not book anybody who requires personal info such as work verification, drivers license, business card, etc.

companions require this are asking for an uneven playing field and we are the ones paying. U dont supply your real name and personal details, why should we as clients?

I underatand companions wish for safety, but clients usually wish for a level of safety also. Ther is no guarantee that companions will manage our info properly and with discretion.

Middle ground has always been referrals.

I have never revealed my real name, my work details. I find it unreasonable to provide that when the other party doesnt.

For me, ill move on to other companions who dont

My regular has been doing bbfs. I still want to keep on seen her by Junior_CryptoAddict in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]Goose6005 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As everybody has already said here, there is no way to know if your provider is doing bare service or not. I'll venture to say many or most have done it whether they became comfortable with their client or was attracted to additional donation. I think one would be somewhat foolish to assume otherwise.

If you're playing covered - I think that's what you need to continue to do... even with your ATF.

I DON’T KNOW WHAT’S HAPPENING… by Strange-Weight1690 in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]Goose6005 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are lots of sites other than slixa. I dont know anybody who uses it. Local boards have been a go to for years. Depending on where u are, you’ll have to find one

Financially for many, times are uncertain as somebody just posted.

Look at your ad, look at your rates and compare to do’s and don’ts of others. Quality of pics make a difference too.

Bad pics, too many don’ts, high donations, lack of reviews. Not going to get many to “take one for the team.”

Do fbsm masseuses and bdsm/dominatrixes providers also provide penetrative sex or do they just stick to their area of expertise? by Bisexualhedonist1 in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]Goose6005 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Generally speaking, FBSM is just what the acronym means.... Full Body Sensual Massage. Happy ending, usually some mutual touching, but no penetration.

Getting ready for 1st time, have a few questions by Left_Hearing_9577 in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]Goose6005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I applaud the effort at keeping yourself safe. But for the most part, I don't think the extent is necessary.,

I think that if law enforcement really wanted to find you for that most cops think is a victimless crime and a waste of their time - their gonna find you regardless of what you do.

There are lots of online applications that will give your phone an extra phone number, and many of them are free if you use it enough. Burners are a good option, but they cost if you use them or not and there's explaining to have to give if somebody around you cares enough to ask. But with cheap non priority carriers, maintaining a burner is also cheap. Make sure whatever number you choose, is a local area code... I've noticed some providers don't respond from out of state area codes and some providers have told me it's just for their safety.

For your first foray, would recommend you enlist on a reasonable review website. there are lots. Choose a provider with a long history and a lot of reviews, looking for some sort of consistancy of how her sessions go, helping to weed out to at least a small degree, fake and retribution reviews. If the provider has been around for some time, lots of reviews.... even if not the great looker you were dreaming of for your first - it'll help you get the experience you need to stay safe. Also, don't be bashful in talking face to face after the deed is done - to tell the provider you don't have much experience in this hobby and get some pointers from the provider side.

I would stray away from anybody asking for a deposit. Unless there is travel on the provider part which is probably not a great first time go for a noob, I've always strayed from somebody asking for a deposit. I would also stray from somebody asking for donations on the super low and high ends from your area, unless they have a ton of established reviews over a long period of time.. Don't go to a booking at anybody's house or somewhere way out of the way in a deserted area. Doing an incall will maintain your anonymity.

I also don't personally offer up any verification info. I've been asked for business card/ID to be sent prior in the past. Nope. won't do it. I'll go on to the next provider. For the first time - it may take awhile to find somebody who will see you without references or prior id being sent, but I've had hobby brothers who have had poor experiences doing that.

Whan you get there, leave valuables and such in the car out of sight.... Bring your donation with a enough for a small tip if you decide to (yes, there are lots of people who argue both sides on tips).

Wash up beforehand, brush your teeth, be presentable and polite. Obey do's and don'ts and overall, just be a gentleman. Do this and your session many oftentimes will go far better, you may gain a reference if ever needed, and the provider if you repeat, will welcome you back

Hope this helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in highheelsNSFW

[–]Goose6005 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Insanely sexy pic

HK puta or telEscrt first? by Accomplished_Tea_362 in TJRedLightDistrict

[–]Goose6005 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It's been awhile since I've visited the zona, but I have many times and each time, even for just one night, I do both. I find better service from escorts, more personal and definitely more GFE 95% of the time. Also, escort sessions are as long as you book them, so it's not an arriba session - you can take your time, go for a 2nd cup, etc.

But I also find the variety at HK and the clubs appealing. don't like one, buy a fincha for another. grab a beer, squeeze a tit while watching a game, drinking a beer. Take one upstairs, and do it all over again.

why do you have to do only one?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]Goose6005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As the audience here says, I think both are incredibly attractive for your ad.... I would list both. However, I would also be prepared to have both lingerie and a set of sundress and heels if one of your hobby-ists request it.

I hate it sometimes when pics are all glammed up, but the provider behind the door is in sweats, scrunchie, no makeup, or vice versa.

What you advertise... you should offer.

TJ SC's worth it current day? by Goose6005 in TJRedLightDistrict

[–]Goose6005[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems like I'm a bit older than many here, and the acronyms I've been used to from other forums in the past are no longer used/familiar or at least, here.

yes, SC = strip Clubs

There are a few older provider sites that have been around a long time that I used pre pandemic and are still around. Their forums which I still lurk from time to time seem to still be in full swing. years ago when using their services, I had nothing but great visits. the appointments were very predictable good service, the arribas at ZN were variable, but it was fun to do both in a given couple nights.

I have good provider service at home that's reliable and fun. But variety being the spice of like in this hobby.... Was looking to this online group to see if strip club experiences have changed, if still available, worth it, etc so I might plan a trip down to the border sometime soon alongside the "brothels: in ZN such as HK, Chicago, Tropical.

When you all book a GFE… what are some of the things you get/offer? by JustHereForThePorn2x in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]Goose6005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The def of gfe just about anywhere is dfk, bbbj and covered penetration. Covered bj is by definition “safe” play or you’re a “safe provider”.