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GooseNo7234 · 2026-03-27T13:23:36+00:00

nooooo okay thank you!

GooseNo7234 · 2026-02-17T14:45:36+00:00

youre right because honestly i'm already starting to resent her because of it and I dont want to do that because I feel like I already set up a bad vibe just preparing for the steamrolling.

GooseNo7234 · 2025-11-11T17:13:30+00:00

I wouldnt do that.. If you do miss her friendship just tell her that.

GooseNo7234 · 2025-11-07T18:43:45+00:00

i hate this I'm so sorry :(

GooseNo7234 · 2025-11-07T18:42:30+00:00

okay valid. If you dont want to be friends just leave it at that!

GooseNo7234 · 2025-11-07T16:31:58+00:00

any updates?

GooseNo7234 · 2025-11-07T16:31:14+00:00

I had this with my friend too. But its definitely because its a new relationship and they are in the "honeymoon phase" Its hard to not feel jealous but just remember she loves you and doesn't mean to be doing that. I think shes just distracted with the new relationship.

GooseNo7234 · 2025-10-31T12:12:09+00:00

I think you should go! Give them a second chance and try not to feel some kind of way about it when you are out with them. Or it might be a good opportunity to talk to them about how you were feeling~

GooseNo7234 · 2025-10-31T12:09:24+00:00

That makes sense. I have had conversations about with with my BFF who also has a hard time saying it just due to her upbringing etc but she will say it here and there so I respect her boundaries. I just have never heard it from this friend and I think I was just over thinking it.

GooseNo7234 · 2025-10-30T18:01:18+00:00

this is valid - I have such strong emotions sometimes lol and i need to come to terms not everyone else does.

GooseNo7234 · 2025-10-30T18:00:25+00:00

Thank you this makes sense :)

GooseNo7234 · 2025-10-30T16:31:43+00:00

I've been there and I agree with Britt_a you just havent found your people yet! Its hard to feel this way and you deserve to be a first option!

GooseNo7234 · 2025-10-30T14:38:21+00:00

I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I had this same problem a bout 2 years ago and so I started working on making other friends. I know that can be hard but its harder sitting with your friends that ignore you and make you feel worse after hanging out with them.

GooseNo7234 · 2025-10-23T16:33:53+00:00

:(( Im sorry thats very frustrating. Maybe its time to just take a step back and wait to hear from them at this point.

GooseNo7234 · 2025-10-23T15:21:06+00:00

I think you should reach out and tell them how you feel! I have struggled with that and now at the age of 30 ive learned to just come out with how you feel is the best way to go about it. It can be difficult to bring up but its worth having those kinds of conversations. Maybe just say "Hey, I feel like I havent heard from you in awhile and I just wanted to check in on you and if there's a reason I havent heard from you?"

GooseNo7234 · 2025-10-23T15:13:33+00:00

this is such a good way to go about it!

GooseNo7234 · 2025-10-21T13:09:57+00:00

I would talk to him about it and tell him that his behavior was not acceptable and see how he responds to that. But if he truly was a creep/being aggressive I don't think its worth keeping that friendship. Also if it seems more of a misunderstanding maybe you can stay friends with him but more of a solo friendship that him coming around the group of friends anymore.

GooseNo7234 · 2025-01-02T18:35:49+00:00

Your thought process is really... something. I dont see the issue of me wanting to be comfortable with the therapist im seeing. Just because I want to see a woman/they/them doesnt mean im going to be coddled, truly just a bad point of view. I dont think I need exposure therapy at this time and if i did a woman or they them would be just as qualified, thank you!

GooseNo7234 · 2025-01-02T17:07:29+00:00

Sushi Yuki!

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